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    My two cents.

    A transaction is a transaction.
    I am recently fucked in the head also. But it's sorta opposite. I insist on sugar-ing, but she has left me due to me always giving money whenever she meets me. And her not wanting to be a third wheel to a marriage.

    It's sad, but I don't feel seeing a girl without paying her is unfair.

    As sad as it is, my heads fully fucked now thinking of her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sean_lee View Post
    My two cents.

    A transaction is a transaction.
    I am recently fucked in the head also. But it's sorta opposite. I insist on sugar-ing, but she has left me due to me always giving money whenever she meets me. And her not wanting to be a third wheel to a marriage.

    It's sad, but I don't feel seeing a girl without paying her is unfair.

    As sad as it is, my heads fully fucked now thinking of her.
    If your married already and your mind is fucked up thinking non stop about a sugar that's not a good position to be in. Are you in love with your sugar lady? Suggest leave your current partner and go for the sugar lady for a relationship with her. Otherwise its too hard to reset your mind and stop thinking abt her. Its the first time I heard a sugar lady leaving because you kept paying her maybe don't pay her then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JSteel96 View Post
    If your married already and your mind is fucked up thinking non stop about a sugar that's not a good position to be in. Are you in love with your sugar lady? Suggest leave your current partner and go for the sugar lady for a relationship with her. Otherwise its too hard to reset your mind and stop thinking abt her. Its the first time I heard a sugar lady leaving because you kept paying her maybe don't pay her then.
    When you already have a partner and having feels for another girl it's lust. I had an idiot for a friend once, he's married with two kids and was telling me he felt hurt being rejected by the girl he was having an affair with. What kind of person feels hurt being rejected when he's already married with two kids? The marriage itself isn't even falling apart, he's just egotistical because he thinks that his life should be easy without thinking of the consequences to others.

    https://experteditor.com.au/blog/thi...-realizing-it/

    Maybe Sean_lee should read this article and re-evaluate his life choices. I grew up accepting life's hardships because I didn't want the choice of suicide. I also understand that if I finally marry M one day our life isn't going to be rosy and filled with happy endings every day, but when evaluating M's personality compared to all my exes she's the one I'd rather live with in both ups and downs. Don't be surprised at how many people choose suicide as a way out of life, many successful rockstars ended their life because they can't find the satisfaction they needed even when they're banging groupies on a daily basis.

    If you want to leave your partner, don't leave her just because you have a "side chick". You need to do lots of inner works before you determine that the both of you are no longer compatible with each other, and if you have kids you'll also need to think of their welfare instead of selfishly thinking of your own.

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    Quote Originally Posted by begov94 View Post
    When you already have a partner and having feels for another girl it's lust. I had an idiot for a friend once, he's married with two kids and was telling me he felt hurt being rejected by the girl he was having an affair with. What kind of person feels hurt being rejected when he's already married with two kids? The marriage itself isn't even falling apart, he's just egotistical because he thinks that his life should be easy without thinking of the consequences to others.

    https://experteditor.com.au/blog/thi...-realizing-it/

    Maybe Sean_lee should read this article and re-evaluate his life choices. I grew up accepting life's hardships because I didn't want the choice of suicide. I also understand that if I finally marry M one day our life isn't going to be rosy and filled with happy endings every day, but when evaluating M's personality compared to all my exes she's the one I'd rather live with in both ups and downs. Don't be surprised at how many people choose suicide as a way out of life, many successful rockstars ended their life because they can't find the satisfaction they needed even when they're banging groupies on a daily basis.

    If you want to leave your partner, don't leave her just because you have a "side chick". You need to do lots of inner works before you determine that the both of you are no longer compatible with each other, and if you have kids you'll also need to think of their welfare instead of selfishly thinking of your own.
    Do you ever wank while choking yourself?

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    Quote Originally Posted by begov94 View Post
    When you already have a partner and having feels for another girl it's lust. I had an idiot for a friend once, he's married with two kids and was telling me he felt hurt being rejected by the girl he was having an affair with. What kind of person feels hurt being rejected when he's already married with two kids? The marriage itself isn't even falling apart, he's just egotistical because he thinks that his life should be easy without thinking of the consequences to others.

    https://experteditor.com.au/blog/thi...-realizing-it/

    Maybe Sean_lee should read this article and re-evaluate his life choices. I grew up accepting life's hardships because I didn't want the choice of suicide. I also understand that if I finally marry M one day our life isn't going to be rosy and filled with happy endings every day, but when evaluating M's personality compared to all my exes she's the one I'd rather live with in both ups and downs. Don't be surprised at how many people choose suicide as a way out of life, many successful rockstars ended their life because they can't find the satisfaction they needed even when they're banging groupies on a daily basis.

    If you want to leave your partner, don't leave her just because you have a "side chick". You need to do lots of inner works before you determine that the both of you are no longer compatible with each other, and if you have kids you'll also need to think of their welfare instead of selfishly thinking of your own.
    if the guys mind is fucked up and his thought is on his sugar lady or WL and not on his wife why does he stay with his wife? At least my mind is not in that mindset but for someone who is infatuated & in love with his side chick he will never get peace staying with his wife when hes in love with the other girl. Love or lust or what ever you call it can screw with a guys head. A side chick should be just for the extra sex, a good time but when a guy can't live without his side chick and thinks of her all the time instead of putting his wife first his marriage is in jeopardy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by begov94 View Post
    When you already have a partner and having feels for another girl it's lust. I had an idiot for a friend once, he's married with two kids and was telling me he felt hurt being rejected by the girl he was having an affair with. What kind of person feels hurt being rejected when he's already married with two kids? The marriage itself isn't even falling apart, he's just egotistical because he thinks that his life should be easy without thinking of the consequences to others.

    https://experteditor.com.au/blog/thi...-realizing-it/

    Maybe Sean_lee should read this article and re-evaluate his life choices. I grew up accepting life's hardships because I didn't want the choice of suicide. I also understand that if I finally marry M one day our life isn't going to be rosy and filled with happy endings every day, but when evaluating M's personality compared to all my exes she's the one I'd rather live with in both ups and downs. Don't be surprised at how many people choose suicide as a way out of life, many successful rockstars ended their life because they can't find the satisfaction they needed even when they're banging groupies on a daily basis.

    If you want to leave your partner, don't leave her just because you have a "side chick". You need to do lots of inner works before you determine that the both of you are no longer compatible with each other, and if you have kids you'll also need to think of their welfare instead of selfishly thinking of your own.
    Lol. An affair is an affair.
    No one's going to leave anyone. For people whom choose to leave a marriage due to lust is ridiculous in my mind.
    If a person would leave a marriage no matter happy or unhappy for another lady, this means he will do it again for another lady.

    I know what's important for long term. This is always temporary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sean_lee View Post
    Lol. An affair is an affair.
    No one's going to leave anyone. For people whom choose to leave a marriage due to lust is ridiculous in my mind.
    If a person would leave a marriage no matter happy or unhappy for another lady, this means he will do it again for another lady.

    I know what's important for long term. This is always temporary.
    well I won't be leaving my mrs ever and am happy with my sugar side lady. My sugar lady told me she does not want a proper relationship she just wants sex so that works and no need for me to fall in love with her. But some other married guys in here seem to be in a bind with their minds fucked up cause they are totally infatuated with their lover. And they can't get their sugar ladies out of their heads. Some of these ladies seem to be very seductive and very good at what they do.

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    Sorry, was washing the car so couldn't reply ASAP. The weather forecast for tomorrow is rain again so I'm taking advantage of today's sunny day. Thinking about it, I didn't even have the time to head to the beach or the pools this week.

    If a man leaves his wife even when he's happy in the relationship, something is wrong with him. If he's unhappy, it can also mean that he doesn't see his wife as sexually appealing as she used to. But it is justified for a man to leave the relationship if the situation is so toxic that it may end up in homicide, but only after trying his best to talk it over rather than leave on a whim.

    Some single women don't really care about the man she's seducing as long as he has what she wants. Some won't even convince you to stay with your wife but instead give signals that you can chase her and leave your wife later. For me I'd rather stay away from such women even if they're work colleagues or a wife's friend.

    I guess in my current state of mind I don't have much left to achieve. It's been liberating to stop punting for 2 months straight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Percy1 View Post
    Do you ever wank while choking yourself?
    That would be awful. Where did you get that idea?

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    At times, an affair can get your penis cut and flushed in the toilet!

    https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/re...b5e91240ff2537

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    https://experteditor.com.au/blog/if-...-you-for-life/

    I had to learn things the hard way but at least I don't regret all my past relationships as it all led to M.

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    Quote Originally Posted by personaa View Post
    At times, an affair can get your penis cut and flushed in the toilet!

    https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/re...b5e91240ff2537
    That's actually very common in many third world countries LOL.

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    Can't imagine who would need this nutcase to reply "ASAP", ROFLMAO...

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldfishMan View Post
    Can't imagine who would need this nutcase to reply "ASAP", ROFLMAO...
    A bit suss, logging in for roughly 5 mins just to post this then quickly log out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by begov94 View Post
    A bit suss, logging in for roughly 5 mins just to post this then quickly log out.
    That guy, who’s been registered for 11 years and has 5000+ posts that have nothing to do with you in any way, shape or form, is probably related to the woman, who’s just trying to do her job, you’ve recently become obsessed with and are stalking with delusions of a relationship and future marriage. It makes perfect sense. She’s just been playing the long game, a decade before she met you the clever bastard.

    If you don’t already have meds, go to a doctor and talk about this. If you do, take them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScotPassingThrough View Post
    That guy, who’s been registered for 11 years and has 5000+ posts that have nothing to do with you in any way, shape or form, is probably related to the woman, who’s just trying to do her job, you’ve recently become obsessed with and are stalking with delusions of a relationship and future marriage. It makes perfect sense. She’s just been playing the long game, a decade before she met you the clever bastard.

    If you don’t already have meds, go to a doctor and talk about this. If you do, take them.
    Oh, you're getting really jumpy now that I started investigating people's login activities.

    May I suggest not being a prick? That way I can start MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS. Otherwise too bad, people's habits are now becoming my business to determine who they really are. I would also suggest that you take your anxiety meds.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Percy1 View Post
    Do you ever wank while choking yourself?
    Broo, this comment is just mean...

    But fuck me, it's fucking funny as 🤣

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    This whole thread is just fucking weird...

    Is the OP that weird guy that got banned not too long ago, along with Vincent??

    This whole convo about "M" this "M" that... is just getting too fucking old.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiki kong View Post
    This whole thread is just fucking weird...

    Is the OP that weird guy that got banned not too long ago, along with Vincent??

    This whole convo about "M" this "M" that... is just getting too fucking old.
    But its entertaining....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiki kong View Post
    This whole thread is just fucking weird...

    Is the OP that weird guy that got banned not too long ago, along with Vincent??

    This whole convo about "M" this "M" that... is just getting too fucking old.
    Nah, HamishAM has been around for a while. Appears to be pretty level headed for all intents and purposes. The thread just got hijacked by the mentally unstable, that's all.

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