did you end up seeing her today or when is your next meet up? Bring her a box of chocolates woo her with gifts. I recommend you catch this girl, just the sex alone will be amazing with a good gf friendship with her.
And this guy might end up reporting with yet another breakup because he realises that either she's a narcissist or he just couldn't handle a girl with avoidant personality.
Avoidant attachment type personalities are cute if you know how to deal with them.