Quote Originally Posted by rooter View Post
I am really struggling to understand why you guys go through all this stress and research and disappointment and scams just to get a fuck.
Why not just go to an established brothel or a reputable escort agency.
Stop kidding yourself, it is the same thing, you are paying for sex, you are fucking a young hot girl who if you were not paying would not even look at you.
I thought the whole point of paying for sex was to not have all these complications and stress.
Just pay and have sex with with a young hot chick, cum in her mouth and fuck off.
But you guys want to have coffee and dinner and shopping and the zoo and the aquarium and Luna Park and fuck knows what else.
It seems to me like you are in a lose lose situation - you are paying for sex but there are still strings attached (actually it more like ropes or steel cables attached) and you get all the shit that comes with a relationship but you are paying for it. WTF? It makes no sense at all to me.
Anyway maybe it's just me. Enjoy whatever you are doing bros. We are all punters.
Just maybe take time out to think about what you are doing.
When I found mine years back it was about having a regular girl for sex forget the dinner date tho sometime we have lunch together, we don't do the dating crap she knows I am married. So we hook up for sex weekly but I PPM her $250 I guess cause I known her so long she never upped her price on me and sometimes doesn't want payment. These days an SB is like $500-$800 plus hotel so I tend to agree with rooter you could just go to a brothel for less money. But the result is with a long term private situation there is often a connection that you can enjoy, where as a brothel is fuck and forget most of the time. Tho some guys find a connection in a brothel and think they are in love.

So why we go through the stress of looking for an SB. A long time secret friendship with a girl you make love with every week is better than a gal in a brothel you have zero connection with. For some its even more than that when they can take the SB out on dates and have a good time and make other plans to see her. You just can't do that with a regular WL. A long term SB is like a secret sexual relationship with no commitment. Your going to get laid every week and enjoy the sex, as long as you can afford to do so. These SBs appreciate guys with their own house, car etc. Brothels can be a problem if you get a WL who turns out to be a dud.