Confessions of a Soyboy

[mongerloid2]

Hey mate.

First things first. If you have a bit of sexual anxiety with women especially a girl you really like. Not getting hard...

In terms of rapport, don't get too worried about it. Small talk is small talk..

Tipping them a little extra or seeing them more than once is likely going to make them like you more...

Again as with majority of the lads here on this forum, it's punting. Don't get involved or even consider making a relationship.

Re: the pill. Yeah I have some sildenafil and tadalafil in my medicine cabinet in case. I've got a few of each, but will try ordering from https://www.ozmedsdirect.com/ when that runs out.
Re: rapport and tipping. Yeah makes sense. I'll keep the tipping thing in mind if I have a few sessions with an ML/WL where the service is consistently good.
Re: relationship. Famous last words from a newbie, but I don't think I could properly fall for a girl who I can't properly communicate with. And also, there's a few things I look for in a woman for a serious relationship, and it seems super unlikely that WLs will meet those.

Thanks for sharing good intel. Good homework done before visiting and investing hard earn dollar.
I normally settled my pee before walked in the room to eliminate unnecessary hassles.
Agreed with Rainyex, Punt for fun no relationship

You can tell I'm an overthinker, which is why I spend time doing homework 🤓

Pee before you leave, never a bad idea to stop in at the pub nearby if you had a long commute and pee again.

With regards to building rapport, try your best to ask some direct questions...

Can I address this issue you have with your self image too? Soy as fuck means what? You may have had limited experience or negative experiences in the past. But so what. You're on a journey to improve yourself and gain experience. Every experience with women both in and out of shops will build confidence and capability over time. Your AR above showed that you learned a lot about the punting game and yourself in just one session. Why go into this with a negative expectation of how you will perform, what will happen or will this be like sometime in your past. Fuck that, be in the moment and enjoy yourself.

I appreciate the words of encouragement 🙏
I know cognitively that I should just chillout, relax and just enjoy the moment, but the bad mindset still lingers somehow. You ever meet someone who was afraid of dogs? Even if they know dogs are safe, and even if every person around them is chill with the dog, there's still something that activates in that person's nervous system when they see a dog. It's a bit like this for me with getting intimate with a woman, but instead of fear, it's more like nervousness, shyness and self-doubt. Rationally, I know it's silly to think these things but intuitively/emotionally it just happens to me in those situations..

Apparently exposure therapy can be pretty good for this. Punting will be my exposure therapy. Wonder if I can get NDIS to subsidize my punts 🤔

I eat soy almost everyday (plant based diet) and I'm a fuckin stud lol.

On a serious note, just be yourself and relax, if you need to pee just go pee, you're a grown man If you try to hold it in you'll feel uncomfortable, and if you feel uncomfy or tense in anyway you won't be able to enjoy or release. In the end just try to enjoy yourself buddy...generally the more sessions you do the easier it gets.

Re: plant based diet. Hell yeah brother, me too! I have TVP basically everyday. But punting may reactivate my desire for flesh 🐺
Re: being a grown man and peeing. Fuck, you're so right. I blame decades of school for drilling into my brain that I need to ask permission to go take a piss.