I found myself confronted with a long lost daughter reappear as a WL. She is out of the game now with her house paid off and a husband and child. I got a call in the middle of the night asking me to pick her up from a place and when I turned up her and another girl had quit. I couldn't leave the other girl just standing there and so said can we give you a lift. My daughter and I drove the girl to her friend's place. This girl couldn't believe I was really my daughters father, that I knew what she did (I just found out btw) and still came when she needed me. That I wasn't screaming and yelling about it. It ended with her all teary wishing her parents still spoke to her. I felt so sorry for the girl. It was a slap in the face for me, but before my divorce I had told my daughter that she was living her life not me and that whatever she did she was still my daughter, (despite her mother's poison in her ear, she knew I still loved her) Plus I had in my younger days punted my way around SE Asia and Australia with the navy. I couldn't be on my high horse. But it brought home to me these women are someone's daughter, sister, mother even. They aren't there to be disrespected or looked down on. They provide a service we want of them, so we have no cause to get high and mighty. I treat all ML and WL decently and where in the past I've been a regular I and my money of course have been popular despite being fat, bald and ugly. I've been invited out back to share food, help with homework for the students, talk about tourist spots to see and even gone out for meals with them and their friends. I only punt now and then now but still get waves and hellos if I run into one of the girls.