Quote Originally Posted by kayofa View Post
Your 7 pages of replies have been contradicting your own statements. If you're not desperate, "in control" of your own life and living the "dream" then why are you still unhappy?

You're a prisoner of your own fantasies. Like it or not, you're stuck in a loop that you can't get out of because you've been chasing your own tail. It's not the women's age, it's the validation you're chasing from someone you perceive as "popular" just because you perceive yourself as somewhat "popular" amongst other girls.

And the problem is that you're fucking with the relationship like a dick entering and exiting a vagina multiple times. You think that retaliating and then charming her back is going to "teach" her a lesson to not piss you off when the fact is that you didn't realise you're the reason why she pissed you off in the first place. She didn't run for the hills becoz she had hoped you would show her your softer side. You behave as if you're the Godfather because all these while you've had people feeding you so many compliments your ego got too inflated.

Do her a favour and leave her be. If she's moved on with another guy, trust me that guy is doing you a favour. Imagine the headaches she's raining onto that guy, you never want to be him.

That's all from my honest opinion.
Good summation and advice. However, the issue here is that this story is made up.