I once caught a married friend of mine at Ginzas reception. He is a 60 years old respected grandpa in our friend circle. He is at least 20 years my senior who sort of put himself in a position of authority in our group.

I don’t actually care because I am single and have zero consequences of getting caught. We never spoke about it but since that day he has been very shy around me. I kinda hope we spoke about it to compare notes. No shame in it in my opinion.

I was with my 21 years old niece in my car once and I asked her to grab something from the glove box but I had forgotten I had left a box of condoms in there. What followed was a very healthy conversation about safe sex. Later that day I got an uncomfortable phone call from my sister lecturing me about at least trying to hide my habits. She was fine though. Funniest thing was a group chat with my niece and nephew and my nephew said that uncle … life is the goal 🤣🤣🤣. There was nothing in the conversation about punting, only safe sex.