Quote Originally Posted by Meng View Post
Even if she does break up with her BF and get together with you. What are the chances of her doing this again with another bloke? This time you'll be the BF who she's trying to hide texts from another bloke.
Exactly right. I know of countless ML's and WL's that have boyfriends and still hang out with punters outside the shop. One regular WL I know of has had 2 ex-boyfriends and a current boyfriend and all were/are customers. If she is willing to break up with one, what's to say she won't do the same thing to you ? Its 100% guaranteed.

At the end of the day, the relationship is purely transactional be it the WL is getting money, a roof over her head or other things, it won't last. I made the promise to myself to never get involved with a WL/ML again and that's been 4 years. Sure, be kind to them and chat with them on and off but keep it at that. Heading out for a coffee or going to the club is fine but again, keep it at that.

One popular WL from a shop was offering BB to customers without his knowledge despite her promising him she doesn't do it. I thought fucking hell, thank god we are not dating and that we were using a rubber the entire time.

Just my thoughts.