Can a WL ever adjust to a normal life?

[Niceguy11]

Without a doubt they can but it depends on a number of variables.
Key is how they have managed the mental and physical impacts their WL life has imparted on them often by controlling their hours and roster frequency, time away recuperating etc plus importantly, compartmentalizing their WL life from their "normal life".
But probably, the key reconciliation they need to make in order to walk away, is accepting the big money days on their back are over.

Can be done and I know of one high end WL who is now leading a "normal" life.

Also, I think I mentioned way back in this thread a WL I met in 2019 ~ great punt, saw her a few times and on the last visit she announced she was finishing in 2 weeks time : as she put it she had saved enough for a certain apartment in Sydney and she was gone..

Yeah its a tricky situation for the girls. We all have motives in life and I'm sure they all have reasons for doing it.

I also think about punters and if we can ever adjust to normal life. Reality is, my life is not the same as it was pre punting. Hard to explain but life is just different. Meeting girls, dating girls, arguments, all that stuff with WL's.

How can we ever forget being a punter ? Just like the old saying for smokers. Once a smoker, always a smoker. Once a punter, always a punter. No regrets ever starting but sometimes I think it would have been better that I didn't start punting. I suppose everything happens for a reason.

[Hedonisticfun]

Yeah its a tricky situation for the girls. We all have motives in life and I'm sure they all have reasons for doing it.

I also think about punters and if we can ever adjust to normal life. Reality is, my life is not the same as it was pre punting. Hard to explain but life is just different. Meeting girls, dating girls, arguments, all that stuff with WL's.

How can we ever forget being a punter ? Just like the old saying for smokers. Once a smoker, always a smoker. Once a punter, always a punter. No regrets ever starting but sometimes I think it would have been better that I didn't start punting. I suppose everything happens for a reason.

Hiya Nice , seems like you have some regrets being a punter or more likely too much of a punter . I made my decision ages ago (about 7 years ago) , first had a bit of a dabble , then met a woman I was deeply involved in after years of being single but the more I got to know her the less likley this was the ONE ... too much her way . After that went back to punting AND with a vengenace and never looked back . Freedom , getting my rocks off , no arguments or hassles . Yeah , life might of been different , married , kids but didn*t happen and just accepted it

[mn69]

Yup definitely a place you should go at least once. Don’t get me wrong, most are there to have fun on their non working time, and mostly likely minority are WL/ML. You don’t want a slap approaching the wrong one lol. I reckon cheaper and safer to just book them through a shop.

I saw the private there with her “bf” so of course I respect her privacy life, didn’t do anything to suss the dude. Who knows maybe he’s that clueless on what she does for a living and genuinely thinks she’s a “normal” girl? Either way good luck to them all.

555 it should be okay. I heard alot of Thai girls, especially the ones who travel to foreign countries have been involved in the bar scene or sex industry in one way or another. Not all, but alot !!

They probably go to Mr B's after work to get more customers. Same way the Bargirls all go to ibar after work in Pattaya to get more customers for the night.

Her "bf". More like her "sponsor". He probably does know but just looks the other way. Same way the old bald fat Farangs romances the hookers from a bar in Thailand and even marries them. And all these hookers already have a few kids from a previous Thai man (To this day, I still dont know why anyone in their right mind would do this 555)

[mn69]

I know of a few old bald fat farangs that are supporting a few small villages in Chiang Mai (near a wild elephant park)

I believe the entire Thai economy is being supported by old bald fat Farangs 555

Especially all the villages in Isaan. From Buriram all the way up to Udon Thai

[Candy1234]

555 it should be okay. I heard alot of Thai girls, especially the ones who travel to foreign countries have been involved in the bar scene or sex industry in one way or another. Not all, but alot !!

They probably go to Mr B's after work to get more customers. Same way the Bargirls all go to ibar after work in Pattaya to get more customers for the night.

Her "bf". More like her "sponsor". He probably does know but just looks the other way. Same way the old bald fat Farangs romances the hookers from a bar in Thailand and even marries them. And all these hookers already have a few kids from a previous Thai man (To this day, I still dont know why anyone in their right mind would do this 555)

Mr B’s to me is like going bird watching, see how many Coco, Yaya, Lisa, Candy, Suki, Lucy and many more I can spot in their playing environment. Lol.

Mate, are you seeing the same privates? You described them so accurately hehe. I guess it is common if the WL/ML is around 40+. So, Farang? Is that a term for something? I understand the bald fat part though… kinder feel sorry for the dudes that in that set up. You know you shouldn’t be there but too addicted to walk away. I’ve seen the gifts coming from punters, damn you guys have deep pockets. Maybe another reason not to quit the hooking, free gifts left, right and centre.

[Digby]

I saw the private there with her “bf” so of course I respect her privacy life, didn’t do anything to suss the dude. Who knows maybe he’s that clueless on what she does for a living and genuinely thinks she’s a “normal” girl? Either way good luck to them all.

What’s the demographic of the BFs?

[GoldfishMan]

Mr B's is now even more happening after they opened their new nightclub Bolt. That area used to be the smoke n poke area.

Another great place to pick up is WAO Friday nights at Ivy. Seems to be the go to place for C WLs and uni students.

The side effect of having these clubs located around Sydney CBD is there's always eye candy along George St on Friday and Saturday nights. Back when OPM was the place to be, it was concentrated more around the casino.

[Thomas Crown]

I believe many do adjust to a normal life. Or at least they plan to adjust.

There is a popular girl currently working at one of Sydney's more popular shops who wants to build a small hotel in her home country. She showed me the plans -- 12-room boutique accomodation with restaurant and bar. Looked awesome. Work is due to start soon.

Another girl in another popular shop got a little cross with me one day (a discussion about how she invests her money) and she insisted on showing me her current bank balance. Tap, tap, tap on her phone and she turned the screen to reveal a balance -- in one account -- of $570,000. She had another account for day-to-day expenses.

She said: "Once I make a million, I am leaving this work. Maybe one more year is enough."

I wonder if she will be able to stop once she reaches 7 figures in that account. How tempting it might be to stay on for another year or so and bank another 500K. And if for another year, why not another 2 years and make it an extra million?

When is it enough?

[Candy1234]

What’s the demographic of the BFs?

Well just like mn69 said “Old bald fat Farangs” lol no offence but it’s what I saw. Mainly in the 60s, assuming they are most probably established in life with a home or many homes, coins in the bank. I don’t think they are interested in “younger” guys, already doing dirt in their own lives why come here to suffer some more with a young dude without anything that benefits them? Unless you’re fortunate with rich parents.

[mn69]

Mr B’s to me is like going bird watching, see how many Coco, Yaya, Lisa, Candy, Suki, Lucy and many more I can spot in their playing environment. Lol.

Mate, are you seeing the same privates? You described them so accurately hehe. I guess it is common if the WL/ML is around 40+. So, Farang? Is that a term for something? I understand the bald fat part though… kinder feel sorry for the dudes that in that set up. You know you shouldn’t be there but too addicted to walk away. I’ve seen the gifts coming from punters, damn you guys have deep pockets. Maybe another reason not to quit the hooking, free gifts left, right and centre.

555 these Thai girls are all the same.
"Same same" as they say in Thailand.

Farang from what I been told by Thai's. Originally it meant French/White Foreigner from the old days.

But now Farang can refer to anyone who is a Foreigner (Not Thai). And most Thai's pronounce it as "Falang"

Well just like mn69 said “Old bald fat Farangs” lol no offence but it’s what I saw. Mainly in the 60s, assuming they are most probably established in life with a home or many homes, coins in the bank. I don’t think they are interested in “younger” guys, already doing dirt in their own lives why come here to suffer some more with a young dude without anything that benefits them? Unless you’re fortunate with rich parents.

I wouldn't say established. Not from what I have seen. Generally these old bald fat Farangs are lower socio-economic class labourer-council worker class type guys. Lost everything from a divorce with their Western Wives. Their kids dont talk to them. And no, these guys do not look like David Beckham, Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth either lol

So they are generally far from established. Come on now, do you really think an established man with millions/billions of dollars will be settling for a middle-aged Thai woman with kids from a previous Thai man from a poor third world country 555

Trust me, these Thai women have young Thai lovers on the side. The Farang is mainly for money. In fact, these Thai girls would go to a Thai boy bar and pay young handsome Thai guys to sleep with them. *mind blown*

[Niceguy11]

Hiya Nice , seems like you have some regrets being a punter or more likely too much of a punter . I made my decision ages ago (about 7 years ago) , first had a bit of a dabble , then met a woman I was deeply involved in after years of being single but the more I got to know her the less likley this was the ONE ... too much her way . After that went back to punting AND with a vengenace and never looked back . Freedom , getting my rocks off , no arguments or hassles . Yeah , life might of been different , married , kids but didn*t happen and just accepted it

Yeah true. I would agree that I have been punting too much. Might be best to take a break.

[Revenant]

Trust me, these Thai women have young Thai lovers on the side. The Farang is mainly for money. In fact, these Thai girls would go to a Thai boy bar and pay young handsome Thai guys to sleep with them. *mind blown*

Of course they pay young guys to pump them because the shoe is on the other foot now. They are the punter! Tell me, how many women have full time relationships with guys ten, twenty, thirty or fourty years younger than them? If you were a young handsome guy would you live with an old boiler? How long would it last? Let me guess, as long as the money lasts.

Same same but different.

[Riff888]

I believe many do adjust to a normal life. Or at least they plan to adjust.

There is a popular girl currently working at one of Sydney's more popular shops who wants to build a small hotel in her home country. She showed me the plans -- 12-room boutique accomodation with restaurant and bar. Looked awesome. Work is due to start soon.

Another girl in another popular shop got a little cross with me one day (a discussion about how she invests her money) and she insisted on showing me her current bank balance. Tap, tap, tap on her phone and she turned the screen to reveal a balance -- in one account -- of $570,000. She had another account for day-to-day expenses.

She said: "Once I make a million, I am leaving this work. Maybe one more year is enough."

I wonder if she will be able to stop once she reaches 7 figures in that account. How tempting it might be to stay on for another year or so and bank another 500K. And if for another year, why not another 2 years and make it an extra million?

When is it enough?

Tell her to be careful with that much money in banks without being able to show a proper source for that money.

Remember this?

https://www.9news.com.au/national/un...7-9d564064b214

[stallionmachine123]

How much are these girls making ? If you pay the shop 50 for half an hour how much is the ML/WL getting?

Most of the chicks I see only work one day a week and no where else.

[11Bravo]

Just like us.

• Some never retire, they are the job.
  
• Others keep working because they have to, never had a pension fund, never had an investment plan, never kept money in the bank.
  
• Others retire, but consult every now and again. Kills some time, picks up some pocket money.
  
• And others retire, NEVER look back. Throw the alarm clock (dating me) in the trash. Other things to do with their time and money.

Two sides, same coin.
YMMV

[Revenant]

It’s whatever makes you happy and the moment you stop being happy change it.

[mn69]

Of course they pay young guys to pump them because the shoe is on the other foot now. They are the punter! Tell me, how many women have full time relationships with guys ten, twenty, thirty or fourty years younger than them? If you were a young handsome guy would you live with an old boiler? How long would it last? Let me guess, as long as the money lasts.

Same same but different.

*just a disclaimer though*
Not all Thai girls are like this. The ones with Farang "BF's/Husbands" are usually the poorer low class ones from Isaan. Wealthy upper class "Hi-So" Thai girls from Bangkok, are usually Chinese-Thai & almost never go out with Farangs. They stick with their own, or at most only date other Asians. Especially Handsome Korean guys coz of the K-Pop influence now.

Yes of course @Revenant. I was just explaining to brother @Candy1234 that these Thai girls arent physically attracted to old bald fat Farangs for their looks. Its transactional, for money. Then they use that money to satisfy their own need by paying young handsome Thai guys with 6 pac Abs

You cant blame them. If you seen the Farangs they are with here, and the Farangs sitting in the bars in Thailand, faaark. No offence but I have never seen so many ugly men concentrated in one place. They all look the same too & look like exact clones of each other. Old, bald and fat 555

[Niceguy11]

Tell her to be careful with that much money in banks without being able to show a proper source for that money.

Remember this?

https://www.9news.com.au/national/un...7-9d564064b214

Good point Riff. Also, banks have to comply with KYC / AML legislation.

[11Bravo]

*just a disclaimer though*
Not all Thai girls are like this. The ones with Farang "BF's/Husbands" are usually the poorer low class ones from Isaan.

While the majority might be Isaan girls, it doesn't mean that all Isaan girls do. But that attitude is prevalent, unfortunately, especially when she's working overseas. Too many guys assume she's obviously there to work and the harassment can be severe, both at work and outside of work.

[Revenant]

You cant blame them. If you seen the Farangs they are with here, and the Farangs sitting in the bars in Thailand, faaark. No offence but I have never seen so many ugly men concentrated in one place. They all look the same too & look like exact clones of each other. Old, bald and fat 555

I had to google 555, it means pity?

People are a “product of the sum total of their ancestor’s DNA and experiences” hence a Falang can be found anywhere.