Quote Originally Posted by Zigman View Post
I'm thinking of visiting next week, but I'm not interested in 3P at the moment. The thought of her being with two men, that situation doesn't look good.
I find myself strange, too.
One man doesn't bother me much, but two man, I'm bothered by that.
Two words: IT'S BUSINESS. The ONLY thing you should care about is how is she WITH you. What she does outside of that time, is Noneya -None ya goddamn business. Likewise, what you do outside of your time with her is not her business.

The providers are VERY astute. No offense, but with an attitude like that, you won't get any contact info. You're paying for a fantasy, with a set time: a beginning, a middle, and an END. Enjoy her for her, but her life, her choices, are NOT your concern.

And this is why I suggested you skip the punting for the time being. Go get some GF's, real GF's, have some REAL relationships. Then you can differentiate between fantasy and reality.

Quote Originally Posted by 11Bravo View Post
Seriously, my advice is don't. Plenty of time. Go out, have some IRL relationships. Spend your money on real dating. I've seen too many youngen's confuse sex for love if they don't have a SOLID foundation of REAL relationships. It can become a habit, an expensive habit. Why spend time trying to develop a real relationship (along with sex) when it's just all too easy to go out and pay for it. And, for some, it can skew their view of women. What's the big deal? It's just sex. So that real relationship crumbles because one doesn't want to put all the extra effort into it (with the rewards that go along with a real relationship). P4P is just that: a BUSINESS transaction. It's NOT real, and if you think it is, it just means she's good at her JOB. Live through a couple of real relationships, breakups, a heartbreak or two. Build a solid foundation, the house will stand.