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    I never had an issue there but I noticed they added a lot of new staff when I've gone back so the transition might always have some friction. I actually had more booking & delay issues when I started going to Ginza, some girls cancelled, one time I had to wait 40min, etc, probably my luck at the beginning . But it's Much better now

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    Quote Originally Posted by 11Bravo View Post
    "as by the claw [we recognize] the lion". How you pronounce lion is up to the individual... Couldn't resist.

    I prefer “by their fruits so shall you know them”, but as with everything I say, it’s factual.

    Perhaps the receptionist was new and didn’t know the ropes or all the girls by name? Took a phone booking and double booked by accident? I don’t remember every providers name, do you?

    Once during a fivesome one of the girls started bleeding. So it was let her have a shower, have a rest, and later on she participated in other ways. But it was her call, not mine. Maybe she canned the next customer or even went home afterwards. Who knows?

    Spend enough time punting and anything can and does happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FangShoe View Post
    I don’t remember every providers name, do you?
    What are you, bush league?

    Names are easy. Too easy to have duplicates. When you play in the majors, by experience: Spreadsheet with name, place where met, contact number, and link to digital photo.

    You can't tell the players without a program.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Viktorius69 View Post
    I never had an issue there but I noticed they added a lot of new staff when I've gone back so the transition might always have some friction. I actually had more booking & delay issues when I started going to Ginza, some girls cancelled, one time I had to wait 40min, etc, probably my luck at the beginning . But it's Much better now
    Agreed, I only got cancelled once as they told me the girl's pussy was hurt and had to go home - they messaged me 2 hours before the booking which was enough. A while ago I saw the same girl in Ginza and after she moved to n5m, but I had to wait 30 min in Ginza (past booking time) whereas I didn't in n5m. I think both shops are just as good and easy to make bookings/communicate in my experience.

    OP said his bookings were at least 50% times messed/cancelled in other threads - I feel like what the other guy said above is probably happening to OP (some girls banned him but reception forgot till he got there/he was unlucky and girls wanted to cancel and go home JUST before his booking) as that seems way too frequent.

    No offense but calling them unethical seems a bit too far, as it seems like other punters aren't having too much issues. I guess any shops can make mistakes..

    The new receptions does seem in a bit of rush at times when it gets really busy there (sometimes all rooms are full and have to wait a bit) but they're quite accomodating, especially the young Japanese lady.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FIFO View Post
    I'll start off by saying this outright so people know my stance, this may seem like I'm defending n5m/42g but I'm really not. I think n5m/42g is so far inferior to Ginza, I see no reason for me to visit these establishments anymore.


    So to play devil's advocate, since you said you saw the girl you booked in the corridor, i see 3 reasons why the situation you described could have happened.
    1. The girl actually felt sick and wanted to go home right after the punter before you and cancelled (you were just unlucky)
    2. Reception accidentally double booked and made a random excuse, it happens, even Ginza does this sometimes (although very rarely)
    3. As you described, the girl saw you and didn't want to see you for whatever reason/she shadow banned you from seeing her and told the reception. The reception, didn't want to hurt your feelings said she cancelled because she is sick


    Again, i'm just playing devils advocate here, i don't actually know what happened but i find it unlikely it was some sort of unethical booking practice ( I do believe some shops do this, but prob not n5m).

    "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity"
    I just go whichever shop gives me good service and has girls who also give good service.

    I don't have a favourite shop. I just have "Interests"

    As an Australian, assuming No5 is a legitimate Australian Business operating in our country, one would expect them to operate with the level of Ethical Business Practice & Code of Conduct expected by Australians.

    So if there is a screw up or a mistake with the bookings, I was expecting some transparency and an honest explanation. I do not want compensation (this is not about money, its about time. And its about wasting customer's time).

    As alot of customers/punters may have planned around their bookings. Planned around their work schedule. Then to suddenly cancel bookings. Sometimes they cancel within the hour of your booking. Just because a girl changes her mind or doesn't want to see customers.

    Instead you just get a "Sorry, she cancelled" text.

    Whether she did cancel her shift or doesn't want to see customers, at least should explain that. And the reason. At least can try to resolve the issue or just book another girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    I just go whichever shop gives me good service and has girls who also give good service.

    I don't have a favourite shop. I just have "Interests"

    As an Australian, assuming No5 is a legitimate Australian Business operating in our country, one would expect them to operate with the level of Ethical Business Practice & Code of Conduct expected by Australians.

    So if there is a screw up or a mistake with the bookings, I was expecting some transparency and an honest explanation. I do not want compensation (this is not about money, its about time. And its about wasting customer's time).

    As alot of customers/punters may have planned around their bookings. Planned around their work schedule. Then to suddenly cancel bookings. Sometimes they cancel within the hour of your booking. Just because a girl changes her mind or doesn't want to see customers.

    Instead you just get a "Sorry, she cancelled" text.

    Whether she did cancel her shift or doesn't want to see customers, at least should explain that. And the reason. At least can try to resolve the issue or just book another girl.
    Seems like you personally dislike n5m a lot due to your experiences. Maybe you should just move on and stop going there as your bookings has been messed more than 50% of the times (and n5m loses business like you said/want).

    Sometimes the shops do not want to tell specific reason girl cancelled or why they banned you because the girl doesn't want it to be known (so there are times where you just get "shes fully booked" everytime you try to book a girl instead of "she doesn't want to see you anymore" lol). And I have been asked if I want to book other girls when I have been cancelled on (and one time got a discount as there was some issue) - so I never felt like they were trying to dog me at least. Although I do think Ginza takes more effort to make it up for you if something happens generally (especially when you had a dud punt they fully listen and try to solve it for you).

    If you feel that N5M is very unethical, you can file a report? If you translate posts on Catchgod, there are many dodgy/unethical stuff happening in other shops, even in the really big/popular ones. I'm not sure if you are unaware of that or you just really dislike N5m personally. One thing is n5m should take feedbacks like Ginza does, usually they just ask you "everything okay?" at the end instead of a detailed feedback (they do listen if you have a complaint though) like Ginza does - I even found out about this forum recently from Ginza receptions. As I would usually just say "yeah good" before heading out even if it was a mediocre session.

    But I agree that this is about time, not money, and it made you feel disrespected. At least on the bright side the girl prevented you from having a dud punt by cancelling instead of forcing the session lol.

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    Its not personal. For the other 50% bookings that do go through, its otherwise a good experience

    I don't know exactly what happens why some bookings are messed up or cancelled. I can just speak from what I saw. Maybe sometimes the girl is genuinely not there or sometimes she just does not want to see a customer

    I have drawn a conclusion that No5 Marrickville seems to have lost control. Its the girls that are running the show there. And alot of girls seems to pick & choose. And refuse to see customers...

    I respect that a girl has a right to choose who she wants to see. Lets get that out of the way...

    But what is the point of a girl working there if she refuses to see customers. She is just wasting her time, the shops time and wasting space there... and bad for the shops image and reputation too

    Girls at No5 seem to have developed a "Princess Syndrome" there. Where they pick and choose who to give good service to, and who they want to see...

    All my bookings with Ginza have been 100%.

    Ginza would not tolerate this bullshit bad behaviour from girls. They would re-train & improve their girls. And Ginza would fire girls who constantly behave badly, get complaints from customers and refuses to see their customers for no good reason. As its bad for their name, image and reputation. This is why Ginza will & always will be better than No5/42.

    No5 doesn't seem to be addressing any feedback or complaints from their customers. And if you complain, they never actually look into it or get back to you. Ginza on the other hand prioritises and puts their customers first.


    I'm not the only one it has happened to. If you read previous threads, happens to alot of other brothers & customers too. Girls at No5 refusing to see customers for no good reason


    http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread...411#post898411

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    never had a problem , actually they have been very helpful and accommodating ,

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    I've seen others punters on this forum receive a discount for bad service from N5M when they complained and myself got discount once because there was some issue some time ago.

    Maybe some girls banned OP as it seems like other punters didn't face as much issue as the OP. You said no good reason, but we will never know unless we hear from the girl directly.

    That thread is literally from 2016 and N5M is still in business... (I had to wait sometimes as all rooms were full) I guess good for them if they do what they want and it still works. If you don't like the way they run, I guess it's best to stop wasting your precious time and money on N5M and go elsewhere.

    You can read multiple complaints for all the popular shops on here. It's not just N5M. I encountered same, if not more, issues in other popular big shops as well. Translate Catchgod posts and there are many info out there..

    Not trying to defend N5M and I agree Ginza does a better job when it comes to accomodating customers, but honestly any shops I have been to had "unethical" issues like you say. IMHO just move on and let N5M lose your valuable money and time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    Its not personal. For the other 50% bookings that do go through, its otherwise a good experience
    Myself, I don't care how good the restaurant is, how good the cooks are. If they're screwing up 50% of my orders, I'll eat elsewhere. No problem. Besides, I like the roadside cafes, not the Michelin star places; hate crowds. I just prefer those Mom & Pop places - there's a pun in there somewhere.

    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    I have drawn a conclusion that No5 Marrickville seems to have lost control. Its the girls that are running the show there. And alot of girls seems to pick & choose. And refuse to see customers...
    Oh my God, WHAT heresy is this!?!? The employees have a say in how the business operates. Bring in the goon squad - or maybe they're there already, the ones that are having all the troubles...

    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    I respect that a girl has a right to choose who she wants to see. Lets get that out of the way...
    Well, thank God for that, but it DOES sound a bit like lip service... Certainly seems to be a lot of "refusing to see customers" in the post... There's that outright entitlement, and then there's that tinge of entitlement.

    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    But what is the point of a girl working there if she refuses to see customers. She is just wasting her time, the shops time and wasting space there... and bad for the shops image and reputation too
    Her time, seems to me, how she uses it is up to her. It seems, for some, the concept of "not worth it to me" (she was, oh my God, 27, had to pass), might be the same the other side of the coin; not worth it.

    And if she's not seeing customers, how is she wasting the shop's "space and time" (damn, snuck in some science speak there); she's not occupying an operating room, it's still available for other extractions.

    My GUESS is a shop makes a calculation as to her earning's contribution in total, not for each customer (as in can alienate come customers while landing others). Even if she was drawing a base salary, if she's not bringing in more than that base, I'm sure the shop's not carrying her out of charity. Maybe she does the laundry...

    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    Girls at No5 seem to have developed a "Princess Syndrome" there. Where they pick and choose who to give good service to, and who they want to see...
    Princess? OMG. Seems some other royalty is offended by those upstarts...

    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    Ginza would not tolerate this bullshit bad behaviour from girls. They would re-train & improve their girls. And Ginza would fire girls who constantly behave badly, get complaints from customers and refuses to see their customers for no good reason. As its bad for their name, image and reputation. This is why Ginza will & always will be better than No5/42.
    Right - send them for re-education. Nooo Maasa Baht, nooo Maasaa baht, not the woodshed...

    Solution, to me, anyway, is pretty simple (just like myself): Shop at Ginza, not at No5. Would that be "no on 5", or "#5, you #10"...

    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    No5 doesn't seem to be addressing any feedback or complaints from their customers. And if you complain, they never actually look into it or get back to you.
    Hmmm, that might also just be saying something about that customer's worth to that shop. Or they're too busy processing satisfied customers.

    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    I'm not the only one it has happened to. If you read previous threads, happens to alot of other brothers & customers too. Girls at No5 refusing to see customers for no good reason
    Refusing for no good reason? Seems a perfectly good reason to me: she doesn't want to. No better reason than that. She IS the FINAL arbitrator, after all.

    BTW: by your handle, can I assume you've been to Thermae? What do you do when a girl won't talk to you? Complain to the bartender, "Throw that uppity no-good out!!! I'm a customer here, and she won't handle my business. She's taking up YOUR space and time (more science talk) in a way that doesn't suit ME. Or in any Nana or Soi Cowboy bar? That dancer is NOT earning bar-fines for you (well, let's be honest, the bar-fine you'd pay), you should chuck her out. Yea, those FL's can be so frustrating, bringing gods (lowercase G) down to earth. Frustrating. The gnashing of teeth, the rending of cloth, the WHINING...

    Seems that the lip service of "she can choose who she wants to see" is all well and good UNTIL it comes (or not cums) to you. I'm leaning towards hypocrite here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Viktorius69 View Post
    Nah bro I'm gonna have to disagree with you here.
    I don't discount the fact that some punters can have issues with N5M regarding bookings, girls Etc but calling girls not wanting to see certain customers bullshit behaviour to be condemned is just not respectful. I was just with one of my regulars at N5M and she was telling me how there's a guy on the same day that's been trying to raw dog her for the entire booking, telling her 'no one is here to see it', trying to sneakily remove the condom during sex & forcing it in etc. I don't judge whoever wants to risk raw but I don't condone forcing that on the WLs who clearly saying no. Or another that hurt her and she was crying and wanted to go home. I actually think it's management's task to protect those girls from such clients if they specifically know who they are. I'm not saying you're doing this (or that you don't, I don't know you ), but they should have the choice. We use them as service providers but they are humans bro.

    For what's it's worth I did have some bad punts there as well, when trying some new girls that got lined up and I gave my feedback (I'm sure others have too) and they didn't come back on the line up. So they do listen. Ofc they are less proactive at that than ginza from what I've seen but they're not tone deaf like some way worse shops you can find around town. I wouldn't put them in the same league as ginza but they are up there and running a shop that works
    Yes I hear what you're saying. I had good times there too. I'm not here to defend one shop, trash talk one and talk up another. I am just posting what I have personally experienced at No5

    Trust me, I am not just some random punter/customer off the street who just went to No5 a few times. I have been going there at least 10+ years, I was even there since the days Jesse (who eventually moved to Ginza) and Christmas was managing the joint. No issues then. I have alot of regulars there who I have been seeing for years (the Thai girls, Jay, Uee just to name a few). They are always happy to see me still and no issues.

    That customer you're talking about trying to raw dog your girl without permission and saying "no one is here to see it", that's the type of scum behaviour that should be banned.

    I actually never do anything out of what is advertised unless I have her permission (some girls will give extras to their regulars that is not advertised). I even ask permission before I do the advertised services (DFK, BBBJ, DATY and so on) to ensure the girl is comfortable with it

    That's why I am surprised that recently, so many booking cancellations. And if its because a girl "banned me" or does not want to see me, I do not actually get told that is the reason. and why she decided so. There is no answer from their management team. But I'm guessing she does not want to see me as I see her working when I go in later on for a line-up, after they told me she "cancelled" and did not come to work

    Its been happening I noticed more in the last 1-2 years. I don't know if its the current crop of new girls or the new management.

    I let it go the first few times, but when it started happening more, that's when I decided to post this up and call them out on it

    And I am not Indian by the way... so that is not the reason why..

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    I agree that Ginza is just far superior to every other shop at the moment and it is for this reason i pretty much only go to Ginza nowadays. I would say my ratio of Ginza:Non-Ginza is something like 20:1.

    However it is not because of the reception/Non-WL staff. I think it's because of the girl quality and service levels is just much better.

    In fact my top 3 worst booking mishaps have all been at Ginza (i guess the more shots you take, the more likely a miss will happen). I once had to wait 45-50mins inside the room for my girl to come in GE, i even got a parking ticket because of it (The one and only time i have ever gotten a parking ticket while at Ginza).

    I guess the establishment itself has a lot to do with it, Ginza is a lot more focused on quality control and as a consequence, will be a lot 'stricter' on the girls. Stricter boss = more well behaved girls right, which i guess ties into what you were saying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    Yes I hear what you're saying. I had good times there too. I'm not here to defend one shop, trash talk one and talk up another. I am just posting what I have personally experienced at No5

    Trust me, I am not just some random punter/customer off the street who just went to No5 a few times. I have been going there at least 10+ years, I was even there since the days Jesse (who eventually moved to Ginza) and Christmas was managing the joint. No issues then. I have alot of regulars there who I have been seeing for years (the Thai girls, Jay, Uee just to name a few). They are always happy to see me still and no issues.

    That customer you're talking about trying to raw dog your girl without permission and saying "no one is here to see it", that's the type of scum behaviour that should be banned.

    I actually never do anything out of what is advertised unless I have her permission (some girls will give extras to their regulars that is not advertised). I even ask permission before I do the advertised services (DFK, BBBJ, DATY and so on) to ensure the girl is comfortable with it

    That's why I am surprised that recently, so many booking cancellations. And if its because a girl "banned me" or does not want to see me, I do not actually get told that is the reason. and why she decided so. There is no answer from their management team. But I'm guessing she does not want to see me as I see her working when I go in later on for a line-up, after they told me she "cancelled" and did not come to work

    Its been happening I noticed more in the last 1-2 years. I don't know if its the current crop of new girls or the new management.

    I let it go the first few times, but when it started happening more, that's when I decided to post this up and call them out on it

    And I am not Indian by the way... so that is not the reason why..
    Didn't you say you were Mexican/Hispanic on mn69 - maybe you have a bigger size compared to other customers and for some girls it was too big?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Viktorius69 View Post
    Nah bro I'm gonna have to disagree with you here.
    I don't discount the fact that some punters can have issues with N5M regarding bookings, girls Etc but calling girls not wanting to see certain customers bullshit behaviour to be condemned is just not respectful. I was just with one of my regulars at N5M and she was telling me how there's a guy on the same day that's been trying to raw dog her for the entire booking, telling her 'no one is here to see it', trying to sneakily remove the condom during sex & forcing it in etc. I don't judge whoever wants to risk raw but I don't condone forcing that on the WLs who clearly saying no. Or another that hurt her and she was crying and wanted to go home. I actually think it's management's task to protect those girls from such clients if they specifically know who they are. I'm not saying you're doing this (or that you don't, I don't know you ), but they should have the choice. We use them as service providers but they are humans bro.

    For what's it's worth I did have some bad punts there as well, when trying some new girls that got lined up and I gave my feedback (I'm sure others have too) and they didn't come back on the line up. So they do listen. Ofc they are less proactive at that than ginza from what I've seen but they're not tone deaf like some way worse shops you can find around town. I wouldn't put them in the same league as ginza but they are up there and running a shop that works
    Think most all agree that those actions deserve a blanket ban. But to the point in question, immaterial.

    The point is, she doesn't want to. 'Nuff said.

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    Didn't you say you were Mexican/Hispanic on mn69 - maybe you have a bigger size compared to other customers and for some girls it was too big?
    If it's smaller than a baby's head, it'll fit. That's just a polite way of saying, in WG speak, "not with you".

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    Quote Originally Posted by username1 View Post
    I've seen others punters on this forum receive a discount for bad service from N5M when they complained and myself got discount once because there was some issue some time ago.

    Maybe some girls banned OP as it seems like other punters didn't face as much issue as the OP. You said no good reason, but we will never know unless we hear from the girl directly.

    That thread is literally from 2016 and N5M is still in business... (I had to wait sometimes as all rooms were full) I guess good for them if they do what they want and it still works. If you don't like the way they run, I guess it's best to stop wasting your precious time and money on N5M and go elsewhere.

    You can read multiple complaints for all the popular shops on here. It's not just N5M. I encountered same, if not more, issues in other popular big shops as well. Translate Catchgod posts and there are many info out there..

    Not trying to defend N5M and I agree Ginza does a better job when it comes to accomodating customers, but honestly any shops I have been to had "unethical" issues like you say. IMHO just move on and let N5M lose your valuable money and time.
    I am not after a discount. I have money and I don't need money. Its not what I am after

    As I said, this isn't about money. Its about honouring and keeping bookings. And not wasting customer's time. And to stop with the dishonest excuses for cancelling customer's bookings

    All this is, is just feedback for management. I hope No5 management is reading this. Maybe they need to better improve quality control of their girls, services and bookings. And to be more honest and upfront with their customers

    As an Australian, I am only used to dealing with people who are honest whenever there is a stuff up or a mistake. Its how were were born and raised in any Western country. We are ethical & moral people here

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    Quote Originally Posted by username1 View Post
    Agreed, I only got cancelled once as they told me the girl's pussy was hurt and had to go home - they messaged me 2 hours before the booking which was enough. A while ago I saw the same girl in Ginza and after she moved to n5m, but I had to wait 30 min in Ginza (past booking time) whereas I didn't in n5m. I think both shops are just as good and easy to make bookings/communicate in my experience.

    OP said his bookings were at least 50% times messed/cancelled in other threads - I feel like what the other guy said above is probably happening to OP (some girls banned him but reception forgot till he got there/he was unlucky and girls wanted to cancel and go home JUST before his booking) as that seems way too frequent.

    No offense but calling them unethical seems a bit too far, as it seems like other punters aren't having too much issues. I guess any shops can make mistakes..

    The new receptions does seem in a bit of rush at times when it gets really busy there (sometimes all rooms are full and have to wait a bit) but they're quite accomodating, especially the young Japanese lady.
    Funnily enough, this is the same bullshit text message No5 gave me for some of their cancellations. "Girls pussy was hurt" and had to go home. The only difference between you and me, is that I actually ended up going there after their "cancellation message". I did a line up. And that's how I saw that the girl who they said had to "cancel" because of a sore pussy, was actually there still working when I saw her in the corridors

    This is how I caught out No5 management with their unethical behaviour, dishonest excuses and bullshitting us customers....

    And by the way, this is not the first time I caught out No5 doing this. Happened few times already



    Who knows how many other countless customers they do this too. So whenever No5 cancels your bookings, always keep this in mind. They are not always honest about it...

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2000BahtLongTime View Post
    Funnily enough, this is the same bullshit text message No5 gave me for some of their cancellations. "Girls pussy was hurt" and had to go home. The only difference between you and me, is that I actually ended up going there after their "cancellation message". I did a line up. And that's how I saw that the girl who they said had to "cancel" because of a sore pussy, was actually there still working when I saw her in the corridors

    This is how I caught out No5 management with their unethical behaviour, dishonest excuses and bullshitting us customers....



    Who knows how many other countless customers they do this too. So whenever No5 cancels your bookings, always keep this in mind. They are not always honest about it...
    Tbh i think you are taking it a bit too personally, I also prefer honesty. But I can totally understand it from a shop's POV, they are way less likely to hurt your feelings if they say something like:

    "the girl had to cancel because her pussy is sore"

    as opposed to
    "the girl doesn't want to see you because of [reason]" or
    "Hey sorry we accidentally double booked, my bad"

    You were more offended because you think you caught them out on a lie. I think this was a harmless white lie, think about it, you weren't going to see that girl that day because of [real reason] anyway. Let's say the reception told you the real reason for the cancellation, what difference would it have made? You still wouldn't have been able to see the girl anyway. So the reception told you what they thought would offend you the least, which ultimately backfired as you ended up going to the shop anyway. (Of course the real reason probably would have stung less, but the result is the same).

    I see no 'unethical' behaviour here, the reception didn't try to deceive you out of malice. Remember they are a business, what they did i would argue means a money loss for them as they cancelled your booking with no replacement and didn't try to 'cheat' your money in some unethical way.

    Real unethical behaviour would have been the reception didn't even bother to message you about the cancellation, when you arrive at the shop they take your money, send you to a room and send a different girl instead.

    Also, i believe every reputable shop would do the same thing, even Ginza does this for example.

    I had a booking with a girl at 5pm, at 4:56pm they messaged me this exact message when i was already outside the shop.

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    Of course seeing a message like that, i'm a bit concerned, so i message the girl directly (privately) if she's okay. She was confused, because she was in the shop working at the time and did not go home.
    Turns out, the shop accidentally double booked, and i lost the coin toss and wasn't able to see her. The girl had no idea the whole time and was just going through her bookings as normal, she would have never known had i not told her.

    So in the end, i think every shop does this even the best. However, i was never offended or anything, mistakes happen. Of course i was a bit annoyed at the time as i had travelled all the way over to the shop already, but shit happens man.

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    First of all, when did I say this is about money? I was only saying it's easy to see other punters received discount from complaining as you said N5M NEVER listens to complaints and NEVER does anything about it.

    Also the guy above has said already but 1. she may have banned you and she asked reception not to let you know for privacy/safety 2. she said she wants a break within her shift for food etc there could be many reasons. Whatever reason it is, I think it is more "ethical" and more "western country/Australian like" that they listen to the girls and not force them to work?
    If it already happened to you few times& more than 50% times your booking gets messed (which didn't happen to others in this thread) maybe you have a larger size (I guess Mexicans would be larger than Asians) and some girls banned you. After all, we only know one side of the story, not N5m/Girls side that cancelled on you.

    If some girls say they don't want bigger guys, the shops sometimes don't let you book the girl (even if you haven't seen her before) as they know both sides won't be happy with the session. I feel like this is the case as you said you are very respectful in the room.

    When I was seeing this girl for a number of times in Ginza, I was told that she cancelled like an hour before the booking which I was fine with (this was few months back though). I asked her why she cancelled out of curiosity during the next session and she said she never cancelled and kept asking me if I am not confusing with some other girl (I'm not) lol. But I don't take it personally as receptions/Ginza are humans as well. She was a bit harder to book girl and didn't work long hours, so IDK what happened but maybe they just messed the bookings.

    Honestly I think you already have your conclusions drawn (and I get it that it would be quite annoying/offensive when you see the girl at shop and feel deceived - but think of the other side, they're doing their best to protect the girls which is the most important part). I understand but the more you think about it the more stress you will get as you can never know what really happened... best to move on for your own good. I'm just trying to share my view/experiences to help!

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    Also even if they do read this, I don't think it is very likely they will change drastically if they have been operating the same way since the 2016 thread and still surviving. IDEK if they even want to grow more as they already run out of rooms frequently whenever I visit... probably just their way of doing things as they are a bit smaller shop compared to Ginza with like 27 rooms and multiple buildings. Best to either move on and never return or just understand them (and they honestly would have no harm against you - they're literally talking/texting to probably hundreds of people daily while managing girls at same time, they probably wouldn't even remember I was there by the end of the day LOL) I guess.
    Also think in N5m (or any other shops) shoes, of course they would want the girl to serve you and make you happy and make another loyal customer, but they can't force unwilling girls unfortunately (which is totally ethical).
    Last edited by username1; 02-02-2025 at 11:17 PM. Reason: typo

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