Can a WL ever adjust to a normal life?

[Spectra]

Not all farangs are old, bald and fat.

[JJBlows]

That’s actually quite sad to read, I’m not sure if you’re a real WL or just another creepy dude acting like one.

Ehhhh that vinnie got banned again just the other day and this is a fresh account so I'm sceptical.

[GoldfishMan]

Lolll, are you guys really that naive or you're just playing along to the roleplay? I can't tell.

[asnabc]

Lolll, are you guys really that naive or you're just playing along to the roleplay? I can't tell.

I've refrain myself from replying to these types of threads. I think some people on this forum are really that naive. lol.

[Abracadabra]

Lolll, are you guys really that naive or you're just playing along to the roleplay? I can't tell.

The bells were ringing loud and clear after the 1st paragraph......

[The giver]

Back to the question though. I did know a few women that did quit. One was a private WL, quit before 30, dated regular guys, became a PT and moved back to Thailand. Another one was a shop ML, not sure her age, but she went back to Thailand and was working at her family's farm. Another was a shop WL who was paying off her house when I saw her and I haven't seen her on roster for years, so I assume she did pay it off. Others have mentioned planning to quit and find a husband to settle down, but I don't know what happened to them. I also heard of a few from other WL who got addicted to drugs.

[vitamin]

Who believes sarahnguyen is an actual WL??
Common guys. WL doesn't create accounts and chat on these Forums unless they're mama san or receptionist.

[11Bravo]

Not to be mean but while ml/wl want rich guys, the reality is rich guys have many options and would rather have someone who is pure rather than knowing they did it with hundreds of people who are way older, unhygenic or ugly....

PURE !?!? WTF, how old are you anyway? PURE? And the view is the same in BOTH directions... that high class lady isn't going to be all the pleased that her husband was involved in P4P. Potential scandal waiting to blow up, food for the tabloids. PURE... FMTT

And to reiterate: the ones I still know, they've gone home, bought an apartment, kid's been put through a good university... One a very successful businesswoman, real estate holdings. If they're smart enough to survive the life, they're pretty damn smart. Certainly not all survive, but a number do; it's the mental fortitude to do what needs to be done. Certainly a disappearing trait in western life - where do I sign up for CentreLink?

[Niceguy11]

Back to the question though. I did know a few women that did quit. One was a private WL, quit before 30, dated regular guys, became a PT and moved back to Thailand. Another one was a shop ML, not sure her age, but she went back to Thailand and was working at her family's farm. Another was a shop WL who was paying off her house when I saw her and I haven't seen her on roster for years, so I assume she did pay it off. Others have mentioned planning to quit and find a husband to settle down, but I don't know what happened to them. I also heard of a few from other WL who got addicted to drugs.

A few WL's I use to see have left entirely. Some got into relationships that lasted and some that failed. One had a child then the relationship broke down and she's now working a normal 9 - 5 job. Another one has a massive gambling debt which she is paying off so she won't be quitting anytime soon. Most of these WL's are Chinese. I messaged a old regular last week and asked how she is going. She said she had a boyfriend and moved to Melbourne. I didn't get a response but did get one today saying she is back in Sydney as the relationship broke down. No surprise there.

For the J girls out there, I don't know if they have quit or are still working. My guess is that some have returned to Japan and continued working there. I think the strong minded girls will do it for a while, pay off their debts (university or other debts) then move on.

[Abracadabra]

I think it very much depends on the individual and their strength of purpose.
One well known WL I saw a few times before she retired in late 20 had a clear purpose of buying and paying off an apartment in Sydney.
She did that and promptly pulled up stumps, said goodbye and disappeared after a medium length WL career.
She had her purpose, knew what she wanted and how to get it and when she did she left and haven't heard of her in 4 years.

She was focused and smart.
Not all are like her.

I made this comment earlier in this thread and it focused on one WLs financial objective and the role she took on to achieve it and how her WL life finished once she got there....

But beyond the financial hooks, I've developed an interest in what mental and physical issues WLs must face if and when they break the financial ties and try to lead a normal life.

Specifically the impact on their identity, the cognitive, physical, and emotional aspects, likely leading to health problems and I assume problems in emotional management and interpersonal relationships.

One reg WL I have talks about resetting her mind regularly and one Ginza legend told me she leaves herself at the shop door.....

Despite their techniques it's hard to imagine how they move on past WL life, physically and mentally, after fucking and sucking me maybe 1000 guys a year...

[Brad-Pitt]

I made this comment earlier in this thread and it focused on one WLs financial objective and the role she took on to achieve it and how her WL life finished once she got there....

But beyond the financial hooks, I've developed an interest in what mental and physical issues WLs must face if and when they break the financial ties and try to lead a normal life.

Specifically the impact on their identity, the cognitive, physical, and emotional aspects, likely leading to health problems and I assume problems in emotional management and interpersonal relationships.

One reg WL I have talks about resetting her mind regularly and one Ginza legend told me she leaves herself at the shop door.....

Despite their techniques it's hard to imagine how they move on past WL life, physically and mentally, after fucking and sucking me maybe 1000 guys a year...

So what sort of mental and psychological issues do ex-SW's face? I would imagine same as any other job. Some good memories. Some bad

[Double_Adapter]

I made this comment earlier in this thread and it focused on one WLs financial objective and the role she took on to achieve it and how her WL life finished once she got there....

But beyond the financial hooks, I've developed an interest in what mental and physical issues WLs must face if and when they break the financial ties and try to lead a normal life.

Specifically the impact on their identity, the cognitive, physical, and emotional aspects, likely leading to health problems and I assume problems in emotional management and interpersonal relationships.

One reg WL I have talks about resetting her mind regularly and one Ginza legend told me she leaves herself at the shop door.....

Despite their techniques it's hard to imagine how they move on past WL life, physically and mentally, after fucking and sucking me maybe 1000 guys a year...

They don't bro! Do they move on physically and financially, yes but mentally and/or emotionally, hell no!

A chick that has sucked 2000+ cocks, has been pounded, groped, slapped, spat, fingered, stalked, harassed, asked to do kinky and weird shit by hundreds of blokes, man handled and threatened by dozens of creepy icky and disgusting indians, middle eastern and Caucasian animals, and short changed by scrupulous punters, shop owners, pimps, and other WLs etc has gotta take its toll on these chicks.

PTSD is widely acknowledged as a common consequence of working in risky environments eg armed forces, police, ambulance, and emergency services. But when it comes to the sex industry and the sex workers, it’s fucken conveniently swept under the rug and ignored.

These chicks eventually pack their bags and go back home to lead 'supposedly' a normal life, the PTSD is never reported, diagnosed and/or acknowledged here...and I highly doubt whether their home country will acknowledge it either.....its fucked!

[Niceguy11]

They don't bro! Do they move on physically and financially, yes but mentally and/or emotionally, hell no!

A chick that has sucked 2000+ cocks, has been pounded, groped, slapped, spat, fingered, stalked, harassed, asked to do kinky and weird shit by hundreds of blokes, man handled and threatened by dozens of creepy icky and disgusting indians, middle eastern and Caucasian animals, and short changed by scrupulous punters, shop owners, pimps, and other WLs etc has gotta take its toll on these chicks.

PTSD is widely acknowledged as a common consequence of working in risky environments eg armed forces, police, ambulance, and emergency services. But when it comes to the sex industry and the sex workers, it’s fucken conveniently swept under the rug and ignored.

These chicks eventually pack their bags and go back home to lead 'supposedly' a normal life, the PTSD is never reported, diagnosed and/or acknowledged here...and I highly doubt whether their home country will acknowledge it either.....its fucked!

This is right on point especially the first paragraph.

WL's always have the option to walk away but the financial hook is far too enticing.

[Double_Adapter]

This is right on point especially the first paragraph.

WL's always have the option to walk away but the financial hook is far too enticing.

If yoda was a Jedi punter he'd say '“Strong with this one, the force of money is.”

[Abracadabra]

They don't bro! Do they move on physically and financially, yes but mentally and/or emotionally, hell no!

A chick that has sucked 2000+ cocks, has been pounded, groped, slapped, spat, fingered, stalked, harassed, asked to do kinky and weird shit by hundreds of blokes, man handled and threatened by dozens of creepy icky and disgusting indians, middle eastern and Caucasian animals, and short changed by scrupulous punters, shop owners, pimps, and other WLs etc has gotta take its toll on these chicks.

PTSD is widely acknowledged as a common consequence of working in risky environments eg armed forces, police, ambulance, and emergency services. But when it comes to the sex industry and the sex workers, it’s fucken conveniently swept under the rug and ignored.

These chicks eventually pack their bags and go back home to lead 'supposedly' a normal life, the PTSD is never reported, diagnosed and/or acknowledged here...and I highly doubt whether their home country will acknowledge it either.....its fucked!

Sadly you are right with the vast majority.

I hadn't considered the PTSD angle, having associated it with first responders, armed forces and other stress invoking occupations, but again you're right given what a WL endures.

And it's unlikely their PTSD is identified and even more unlikely a WL would seek or be encouraged to seek out counseling or other treatment options.

[Fezco]

https://theconversation.com/a-soldie...ave-ptsd-71464

Would be much less prevalence of PTSD in decent shops who look after the girls than street workers and privates. That's why it's important that sex work is legal and regulated.

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-06-...work/101060804

[Double_Adapter]

Fucken animals!!!

Cunts like this should be castrated, locked up and given a Roman shower.
It's a wonder why PTSD among sex workers is the highest across all the industries - circa 60%-80%

https://the-riotact.com/trial-starts...brothel/848744

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-02-...ourt/104959410

[Candy1234]

PTSD? Yeh I think it’s real. I’ve been out with a few of them. At times, I can see in their eyes that they popped in and out of reality, the sadness, the regrets what ever it was it is kind of hard to witness. Oh well I am part of the equation so I can’t really give advice 😅 hopefully they all can solve what ever issue they have and move on to a better place.

[Niceguy11]

Found this interesting article about 244 Paddington. This story was posted last year sometime.

https://www.ucanews.com/news/the-dar...n-japan/105172

[priapus1966]

One girl I know did it privately at a dodgy apartment in Burwood. Lasted about 6 months, then realised people found out and then quit.
She finished her juris doctor and started as a paralegal for a Chinese law firm without PR.

WL one day, Lawyer the next - now that's a tragic fall for a woman.