Reply With QuoteYou guys sound like you're talking from experience. Must've been involved with a few WL's before? Maybe you can give a young player some advice about these things.Originally Posted by Niceguy11
If she claims she is pregnant, how do you even prove its not yours until she gives birth. I'm guessing most guys will just take her word for it and continue to support her (financially)
You guys sound like you're talking from experience. Must've been involved with a few WL's before? Maybe you can give a young player some advice about these things.
In hindsight Stay the fuck away lmao.
It's like playing with fire, you have fun till one day you get it wrong and then you get burnt
I just don't buy all this !!! This OP joined yesterday and has racked up 12 posts!!! What BS question is that??? Can't be so naive.
Also , just look at what he has posted to date. Chasing for 50 posts ???
I just don't buy all this !!! This OP joined yesterday and has racked up 12 posts!!! What BS question is that??? Can't be so naive? If he is a young bloke , there is no way he is unaware of these sort of things. Must have been asleep in school. Lol
Also , just look at what he has posted to date. Chasing for 50 posts ???
Seeing quite a few baby members popping up .
I don't fantasize 'bout free sex on tap with a " lady" . I fantasize about my wife letting me sit down and enjoy a morning coffee with my guitar on my one n only day off without getting into my ear.
He offloaded her after 6 months and I didn’t ask anything about their living arrangements or where she went as I was glad to palm her off. In fact we never discussed her afterwards.
So now another one has just popped up and this morning she lied to me about something. I actually thought she was honest given the fact I’d been honest with her. I took it on face value her whole story but she slipped up. If they tell one lie they’ll surely tell another, not that I’d ever have a relationship with her and I’ve had plenty of opportunity but why saddle yourself to a potential liability?
Sooner or later they all want to give up work and be supported. Let’s face it, percentage wise how many can successfully retire?
It’s very easy to catch and release so why ever be committed?
Vinnie 🤦
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Jesus fucking christ, is that how it ends up for all you married folks?
'fraid so .............
Well for me, I met one, dated her, she immediately wanted to leave the game, so she spent her own money to retrain, and we bought her a shop that she runs, and she makes plenty of money. With her business and my business, we managed to buy some property and we have it pretty good. We're married now.
I definitely know smart ones that are in the game for a purpose but know if and when you find someone you can't go in in that industry. Equally I know girls now on the wrong side of 40 who have been in it too long and have never made the transition to do something else, and I wish they would.
If you don't mind me asking - how old was she and how long had she been in the game before quitting?
Mid-30s, and 3-4 years?
I think there's 2 types of girls who do it - those who have a purpose and don't let it get in their head, and those who can't find a way out.
It will always get to her head. Different girls deal with it differently. I had one somewhat long relationship with a WL. It didn’t work because of lack of trust not so much on my side but on hers.
She did not want to go back to her previous life. She had saved a nice amount of money but not sufficient to retire. I was banking her and I did not have a problem with it. I told her to keep her money.
The problem we had was the fact that she met me in a brothel and that could not leave her head and caused us to go our separate ways. We had long conversations about it. It is very ironic because one can say that once a WL always a WL so I should be paranoid about her but that is not a true comment in my experience and it is only skin deep.
She had a deep mistrust of men and unfortunately i don’t think that any amount of counselling can ever solve.
My lesson and strong advice is to pay, fuck and leave. That is better for everyone involved.
Not always, but for us who are punters it is more likely to be bad. The fact that we punt means that we have a higher sex drive than people who don't. Then any little thing that could deprive you of sex at home would become a big problem.
Eg. Wife getting old, lack of sex drive, doesn't want to have sex that often because she's not that into you, etc.
Not only that, YOU could lose interest in her as she gets on with age. This is the biggest problem I reckon.
It's all about sex for us, whereas for normal folk it could be maybe only a 20% factor. Their marriages could still work without that 20%.
That's why I always say, do your best to choose the right girl to get hitched with and hope that you were lucky with the choice.
A few things can't go wrong, other things are more about luck. Her age must be at least 10 years your junior because this makes it aligned with the male and female biological clock. If you're 40, you marry a late-20s to 30 yo girl. By the time she gets to menopause at around 50, you'd be in your 60s. Your own sex drive would've slowed considerably, and you would've had 20 odd years of great sex at home with her. That's a great thing, no?
Looks, body shape, etc... of course always go for the girls who suit your taste to avoid yourself losing interest in her.
If you get all these things right, you'd still need a bit of luck for the other things that could go wrong.
Bro . You could not have summed it up any better!!!
I had uncle who gave me this piece of advice, that 8 years is about the ideal age gap . Thought it was a joke as he gave me no reasons . But how wise he was wise for the reasons you stated. Lol.
Some of us punt. Others choose to have affairs . The more decisive ones end their marriage and move on. That's life.
If I had to decide to marry again I'd make sure the lady could drive or had the confidence to learn.
I’m of the opinion that a man only needs a casual sex partner and a housekeeper.
Yep for sure.
Moral of story - never trust a WL/ML. I would say 90% have basically sold their soul.
It just never ends well.
You attract what you use to impress.
If a chick uses her body to impress, she will attract blokes interested in her body only ie until they catch the feels for the chick then start posting threads about falling in love with a WL/ML.
If a bloke uses money to impress, he will only attract chicks interested in money, so don't expect the chick to discover or appreciate any of your other hidden talents and attributes.
It's that fucken simple! be careful with what you show the world or what you show or do to impress chicks in a RnT or Brothel. The only thing chicks should be impressed by is the size of your cock and how you wield the sword.
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