There seems to be an unwritten rule for men from women on dating apps - it's called 'Triple Six':

Six Foot Tall
Six Pack Abs
Six Figure Salary
(we might as well make it Quad Six and say Six Inches Long as well)

This is, in fact, a very small subset of men - somewhere in the top 10-20%. To 80-90% of modern day women, this is what they are going for. The remaining 80-90% of men (outside of that top 10-20%) are virtually invisible.

Why is this invisibility the case?

The additional problem - a good chunk of us dirty minded men would happily bang a bag full of prawns from a dumpster out the back of a Chinese Restaurant if it meant getting our rocks off...

This means that a lot of average women on these dating apps (I'm talking 4, 5, 6 out of 10 on the attractiveness scale) still get a lot of attention (that they normally wouldn't get in the real world and plenty more so than men who are on the same level of attractiveness), and have had their heads gassed up so much that they think they are deserving of one of these top 10-20% 'Triple Six' men as well.

The 'Triple Six' bloke has a lot of options. All the women think they can be the one to steal his heart and make him commit. But he doesn't. They move onto the next 'Triple Six' bloke... and the same thing happens again. Eventually the women get frustrated with this, and then all of a sudden it's "all men are arseholes" instead of reflecting on their own choices to chase only the most attractive men.

Oh and you get a date - she's expecting more than just a coffee or a drink these days, and she's expecting you to pay for it, and "oh and I don't f**k until at least date number three".

The dating world in general is actually pretty messed up at the moment.