I would say make sure your neighbours don’t see her come in/out - in case they might mention to your roommates hahahaha
A few weekends from now my housemates will be traveling and I'll have the place to myself, and was thinking of texting and inviting my ATL ML over for a few drinks and dinner and a couple good deep dickings after hours, fully compensated of course. (I've known her for years and trust her and all that)
But I was wondering if anyone here had done anything similar and how it turned out? Positive or negative, and would you do it again?
And before you ask, it's not a catching feelings thing, it's an "I want to fuck her brains out a few times, unrushed, in the comfort of my house" thing
I would say make sure your neighbours don’t see her come in/out - in case they might mention to your roommates hahahaha
I have done it with 2 of our lovely Asian WLs. One of them in particular I met outside the shop coincidentally and we became good friends. She stayed at my place many many times and I have been to her place as well.
In my experience, they need to trust you. These girls have a low level of trust as they perceive that we want to fuck them for nothing outside the shop. So getting them to your place I think is a matter of trust on her part.
Did it go bad for me at any point? No. She has asked to come to my place at times but never showed up without prior communication. She also offered me to stay at her place when it is convenient to me. It is a fantastic experience to be friends with a WL and know her outside the shop. It made the sessions in the shop super extra special.
I’d encourage you to do it but you need to trust her as well. Only you can know that.
Enjoy
Remember you’re not paying them to fuck you’re paying them to leave.
Mate just book a hotel room, done it plenty of times. Why bring worker into your home and private life.
It might backfire big time. Invite only girls to your home who are likely to be romantic partners, not paid sex providers.
There is a huge difference between the two.
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I wouldn't do it.
You don't know how many trouble exe's she has. How many crazy customers/stalkers she has. You don't know how crazy she is or if she has any drug/addiction problems.
Bringing them into your personal home & life is just asking for trouble. And a disaster waiting to happen.
Just see them in the shops. At least you have the safety of the shop/management to speak to if any problems arises with her
Done it a bunch of times, never any problems. You gotta use your judgement though, no ice smokers etc. I've had ginza girls stay over lots of times, they just want someone to hang with, eat with, sleep next to and have sex with like any other girl. And then after a few weeks or months they fly back home.
But yeah, choose wisely.
Don't do it mate!
I've done a few times without any harm but had this one thai girl go crazy.... Came banging on the door in the middle of the night many times as she remembered the address.
Ice addict that was definitely not visiting me for a fuck! Wanted money and somewhere to stay.
Was a bad situation as I always felt uneasy when not at home.
Luckily she moved away i was told and fingers crossed 🤞 never see her again!
I will never take this risk again!!
Booked a hotel for few hours and organised one of my regulars for a day of swimming, sauna, lunch and of course main menu.
Hotels in Sydney CBD can be booked using cash and don’t ask questions website Dayuse.com .
Much safer than getting caught by neighbours.
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Assuming the OP is single and unattached ? you don't have a lot of assets or with a high paying job on a senior position ?
Can't speak about SYD, but offshore, back in the day, it was the SOP. Never had a problem.
My advice? I'd ask her if she'd be willing to cook as you'd like some authentic [fill in the nationality] food. Next time you see her beforehand, if she's willing, say you'll buy the food AND the spices. Give her $20-$30 for the spices up front as she'll have to go to one of her markets to find those. Tell her you'll take her grocery shopping on the day, letting her pick the vegetables. Let her know what you want for the main course (for the spices), and she and you will pick whatever up on the day. If she wants to use her market for the veggies, no problem.
Advantage? Makes her feel like a person, not an orifice. Some of the best times I've ever had.
This is assuming that 1)she knows how to cook, and 2)you have a decent kitchen with utensils (I had to spend extra to buy a rolling pin for the scratch dumplings and noodles; that rolling pin was used for years by various chefs).
This is a great SOP and I can attest that it works.
I like to be "coached" on new techniques so I've been able to learn a few different Thai and Phillipino dishes, including desserts. They'll usually enjoy playing the boss and telling you what to do. Just be sure the Papaya salad doesn't have too many fresh chillies before she kicks off the BBBJ.