Quote Originally Posted by dewayne View Post
A few weekends from now my housemates will be traveling and I'll have the place to myself, and was thinking of texting and inviting my ATL ML over for a few drinks and dinner and a couple good deep dickings after hours, fully compensated of course. (I've known her for years and trust her and all that)

But I was wondering if anyone here had done anything similar and how it turned out? Positive or negative, and would you do it again?

And before you ask, it's not a catching feelings thing, it's an "I want to fuck her brains out a few times, unrushed, in the comfort of my house" thing
Can't speak about SYD, but offshore, back in the day, it was the SOP. Never had a problem.

My advice? I'd ask her if she'd be willing to cook as you'd like some authentic [fill in the nationality] food. Next time you see her beforehand, if she's willing, say you'll buy the food AND the spices. Give her $20-$30 for the spices up front as she'll have to go to one of her markets to find those. Tell her you'll take her grocery shopping on the day, letting her pick the vegetables. Let her know what you want for the main course (for the spices), and she and you will pick whatever up on the day. If she wants to use her market for the veggies, no problem.

Advantage? Makes her feel like a person, not an orifice. Some of the best times I've ever had.

This is assuming that 1)she knows how to cook, and 2)you have a decent kitchen with utensils (I had to spend extra to buy a rolling pin for the scratch dumplings and noodles; that rolling pin was used for years by various chefs).