No worries BobbyJ, I sense what you are in need of and I'm almost certain it's not Killy.

Unfortunately, the last BDSM WL that I could really 'fly' with in the capacity of domming may have quit, at least she didn't respond to an email I sent, but it had been a while.
However, she does still have a profile up on Dakota Dice (Reianna Li).

Hope you find what you're after, may take time/effort but worth it.