i think its ridiculous and crazy.but i'm in love.
why not? she's human after all.
Would she quit being an escort if you marry her?
If not, can we experience falling in love too?
If you were actually in love enough to seriously consider marriage with someone you'd be thinking about her more as a person (aka a human you know) and not an escort (which is a job)
Is she in love with you? Will she quit escorting? Will you be able to support her financially? Prob 100 other things to consider before taking the leap.
A mate many years ago. he was hot for her and she claim the reverse.
She gave up the game and moved in with him as a defacto. He found her a normal job.
The actually had a living contract drawn up for 20 months.
At the end of those twenty months they sat down and went thru everything and decided they did love each other and wanted kids etc.
They went on normally with both families (who didn't know how they really met and her job at the time).
After 20 years together, they were both "itchy" and started to really explore their kinks and decided to open their relationship.
They are now stronger as a couple than ever before. the 25 year age difference has never been an issue and unless you knew, you would never guess.
I knew her background before the wedding (I was best man) and can say that they are probably more a couple than most married people.
Its probably rare, but they worked it out. Most guys think only of the sex and not of the "couple".
I also know quite a few where once they got the PR the next step was divorce. Yet all appearance weould say it was working, except it was deception.
Again the double standards , as if an escort who has paid sex with multiple partners for living is of a lesser person than a punter who pays for sex with multiple women. Same could be asked of a sex worker , would she marry a punter
100% you should marry her. Sounds like a keeper if she makes you feel all warm and fuzzy
im sure shes already married
it’s all about the income. If the income is good, the WL/ML mindset will still continue. Only smart girl would do is bank-in quick and invest with their savings into property, shares, business etc.
Otherwise it is just a hobby for them like us punters it’s hard to stop.
Once upon a time, when I was more naive, I'd have said "Why not? It's just a job." But now I know that it's not a job like any other. WL are exposed to way more violence, drugs, extortion and blackmail than the average woman, so it's going to take a lot of emotional work, commitment and discipline from both sides. Don't look for love in a brothel.
There is only really one WL that I could imagine ever settling down with, but frankly, she is way out of my league.![]()
Possible to be friends, but if and when times get tough she’s gonna GTFO there as quick as she can. Personally could never trust a whore
Foolish game to fall in love or consider a relationship with any woman that has worked in the industry.
The word trust plays a role, and no matter what, it eventually comes up and breaks relationships.
In the last 5 years, I have met 2 women on seeking dot com who I discovered were in relationships (one married, the other living with a guy for 4 years) ..... Asking them questions, they had stints before their relationships working in massage shops/and escorts. They then went "clean" and settled down, but then started the sugarbaby game because they needed the cash.
In the end, women getting paid for sex creates a massive trust issue for men.
I recommend you find a woman to fall in love with who has no past baggage in the game.
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Possible, extremely unlikely, but possible.
No rich, successful handsome man will even consider a WL/ML
Like I always say, only a very low value man would even consider a relationship or marrying a WL/ML or any girl who has been involved the sex industry. Very low value man
You will become a Cuckold like Cassie's current husband after hearing about all of her "Freak-Offs" with P.Diddy
I'd marry a WL for sure and would prefer her to keep working!
I have a kink and would love it more if the girl tells me all the dick she has to ride and all the stuff she has to do her customers.
Is Mary her name?