Experiences inviting a ML to your house?

[dewayne]

Can't speak about SYD, but offshore, back in the day, it was the SOP. Never had a problem.

My advice? I'd ask her if she'd be willing to cook as you'd like some authentic [fill in the nationality] food. Next time you see her beforehand, if she's willing, say you'll buy the food AND the spices. Give her $20-$30 for the spices up front as she'll have to go to one of her markets to find those. Tell her you'll take her grocery shopping on the day, letting her pick the vegetables. Let her know what you want for the main course (for the spices), and she and you will pick whatever up on the day. If she wants to use her market for the veggies, no problem.

Advantage? Makes her feel like a person, not an orifice. Some of the best times I've ever had.

This is assuming that 1)she knows how to cook, and 2)you have a decent kitchen with utensils (I had to spend extra to buy a rolling pin for the scratch dumplings and noodles; that rolling pin was used for years by various chefs).

This is fantastic advice, thank you

[Double_Adapter]

WTF! You're there to root the chick not fucken put on a master chef show. Next thing some bloke will invite the chick to clean his house.

[11Bravo]

This is fantastic advice, thank you

As Nike advises, Just Do It.

If you don't have an apron, offer her one of your old (CLEAN) T-shirts to use while she's cooking. Appreciated by BOTH parties - her to save her clothes, you when she strips before putting on the T. Nothing like seeing her standing on tip-toes, leaning over to reach the back burner, the T rucked up, showing her T...

The biggest problem I ever had was trying to convince her (multiple) to just put the dishes and pans in the dishwasher rather than do them herself.

WTF! You're there to root the chick not fucken put on a master chef show. Next thing some bloke will invite the chick to clean his house.

IME, that's an inherent auxiliary service that's often included... Very nice when you consider the why...

[justincase]

I’ve had a WL I was a regular with move to two streets away from my house only a month ago. I just don’t know if she did it on purpose. Anyway after she did that I backed way off and never contacted her again.

There never was any intention on my behalf of going any further than punting her as she slipped up once and started txting me as Steve… which is not my name and no doubt it’s one of you guys… who cares, right? Obviously she was playing the field and that put the nail in her coffin.

[Jack Hammer]

I’ve done this with 3 different birds over the years. Had been to see them in their shops many times before we did it. Ended up having great relationships with them. They probably were seeing me hoping for love, marriage and visas and I obviously had my intentions.
I really enjoyed these times and so did they. I didn’t even pay them, it was just 2 people hanging out. The relationships fizzled out over time but we had a ball together.
Well worth it. As old mate said about Nike “just do it”

[jackdaniels]

I only to go the ML's residence, never under any circumstance the other way around.

[daibintai]

I have done it with 2 of our lovely Asian WLs. One of them in particular I met outside the shop coincidentally and we became good friends. She stayed at my place many many times and I have been to her place as well.

In my experience, they need to trust you. These girls have a low level of trust as they perceive that we want to fuck them for nothing outside the shop. So getting them to your place I think is a matter of trust on her part.

Did it go bad for me at any point? No. She has asked to come to my place at times but never showed up without prior communication. She also offered me to stay at her place when it is convenient to me. It is a fantastic experience to be friends with a WL and know her outside the shop. It made the sessions in the shop super extra special.

I’d encourage you to do it but you need to trust her as well. Only you can know that.

Enjoy

very well said and analysis

Definitely alot of trust needs to be taken into consideration