Why pay when it's free through dating sites, especially for young single men

[justincase]

The age stated is another, how often are they listed as twenty something and they’re older. I know Asian women can get away with it a lot better than western women but it’s like once they start posting online their age stops.

[secret0]

Make up should be illegal on dating sites?? Wtf???

ChadThunderrcock is the latest account of our old mate mn69, OldBaldFatFarang, 2000BahtLongTime, LuvKoreanPussy, JohnnySomali, and a whole multitude of other accounts (sometimes creating 3-4 at a time) that have all been banned.
Look up any of those accounts and you'll see just how batshit insane he is, and what he really thinks of women (especially Asian women) in general.
He's easy to spot: his usual comment includes some form of you have to be good looking for girls to like you e.g "unless you look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth".
There's also his hatred of 'old bald fat farangs' and his hatred of Thai women.

He has a habit of attacking shops and girls (Ginza, N5M, and Saigon Princess were his main targets).
He created a whole thread and spent a few weeks attacking N5M and its girls (https://www.aus99forum.com/showthrea...ville-bookings) because he had been cancelled on multiple times.
Other people gave similar experiences (including myself), and there were lots of reasonable explanations, but as time went on, his comments revealed that he was cancelled on *after* he had arrived, which begs the question, why did they accept his booking, but then cancel on him once he turned up and they saw his face? He never answered that question, but it certainly is interesting.

His best defense is "you've never seen me commit a crime", as though he doesn't understand the concept of object permanence.
He probably closes his eyes when he does something bad and believes because he didn't see himself do it, he didn't do it.

Saying something like "make up should be illegal on dating sites" would be a joke coming from other people.
But he probably actually believes this should be a real thing, which kinda points to just how insane and mentally ill he is.

I've seen lots of stupid shit said on this forum, because they are just stupid. I don't react to most of it because... well, no point arguing against stupid.
A lot of new users here might not know him, but just wanted to point him out, in case anyone is dumb enough to listen to his insanity.
But I will keep calling him out because he seems to be the only one (so far) actually out to actively attack shops and girls.

[GoldfishMan]

Here's another good reason not to use dating sites:
https://www.aus99forum.com/showthrea...26#post3417626

It's a jungle out there, full of scammers, extortionists, you name it. Why expose yourself to all that risk when you can just pay a few hundred bucks to get your rocks off?

[MDPorto]

There seems to be an unwritten rule for men from women on dating apps - it's called 'Triple Six':

Six Foot Tall
Six Pack Abs
Six Figure Salary
(we might as well make it Quad Six and say Six Inches Long as well)

This is, in fact, a very small subset of men - somewhere in the top 10-20%. To 80-90% of modern day women, this is what they are going for. The remaining 80-90% of men (outside of that top 10-20%) are virtually invisible.

Why is this invisibility the case?

The additional problem - a good chunk of us dirty minded men would happily bang a bag full of prawns from a dumpster out the back of a Chinese Restaurant if it meant getting our rocks off...

This means that a lot of average women on these dating apps (I'm talking 4, 5, 6 out of 10 on the attractiveness scale) still get a lot of attention (that they normally wouldn't get in the real world and plenty more so than men who are on the same level of attractiveness), and have had their heads gassed up so much that they think they are deserving of one of these top 10-20% 'Triple Six' men as well.

The 'Triple Six' bloke has a lot of options. All the women think they can be the one to steal his heart and make him commit. But he doesn't. They move onto the next 'Triple Six' bloke... and the same thing happens again. Eventually the women get frustrated with this, and then all of a sudden it's "all men are arseholes" instead of reflecting on their own choices to chase only the most attractive men.

Oh and you get a date - she's expecting more than just a coffee or a drink these days, and she's expecting you to pay for it, and "oh and I don't f**k until at least date number three".

The dating world in general is actually pretty messed up at the moment.

[HiredGoon]

There seems to be an unwritten rule for men from women on dating apps - it's called 'Triple Six':

Six Foot Tall
Six Pack Abs
Six Figure Salary
(we might as well make it Quad Six and say Six Inches Long as well)

This is, in fact, a very small subset of men - somewhere in the top 10-20%. To 80-90% of modern day women, this is what they are going for. The remaining 80-90% of men (outside of that top 10-20%) are virtually invisible.

Why is this invisibility the case?

The additional problem - a good chunk of us dirty minded men would happily bang a bag full of prawns from a dumpster out the back of a Chinese Restaurant if it meant getting our rocks off...

This means that a lot of average women on these dating apps (I'm talking 4, 5, 6 out of 10 on the attractiveness scale) still get a lot of attention (that they normally wouldn't get in the real world and plenty more so than men who are on the same level of attractiveness), and have had their heads gassed up so much that they think they are deserving of one of these top 10-20% 'Triple Six' men as well.

The 'Triple Six' bloke has a lot of options. All the women think they can be the one to steal his heart and make him commit. But he doesn't. They move onto the next 'Triple Six' bloke... and the same thing happens again. Eventually the women get frustrated with this, and then all of a sudden it's "all men are arseholes" instead of reflecting on their own choices to chase only the most attractive men.

Oh and you get a date - she's expecting more than just a coffee or a drink these days, and she's expecting you to pay for it, and "oh and I don't f**k until at least date number three".

The dating world in general is actually pretty messed up at the moment.

Sounds like the incel gospel. You like Joe Rogan right?

[11Bravo]

ChadThunderrcock is the latest account of our old mate mn69, OldBaldFatFarang, 2000BahtLongTime, LuvKoreanPussy, JohnnySomali, and a whole multitude of other accounts (sometimes creating 3-4 at a time) that have all been banned.

His best defense is "you've never seen me commit a crime", as though he doesn't understand the concept of object permanence.
He probably closes his eyes when he does something bad and believes because he didn't see himself do it, he didn't do it.

An intelligent analysis. "Object permanence" - I'll admit, had to google. Well said.

It certainly does get tiresome trying to relate the banned with the reincarnated. You know they're in that brotherhood, but the lines do blur.

[DannyMatov]

I tried the dating site route a while back, but honestly, it felt like too much effort for very little. Most chats just fizzled out or turned fake. I’ve had better luck with cam chat because at least you see who you're talking to right away and it feels more real and less like you're wasting time. Way easier to figure out if there's any vibe.

[urmumsurdad]

IMO, the sex is different. A lot of prosis are as close as it gets to fucking a pornstar. If I’m after vanilla sex then yeah I’ll just go chat a girl up or something.

[ChadThunderrcock]

Tried the dating apps for months, mostly time-wasters or fake profiles. This way feels more direct and less frustrating, especially if you're after something clear without all the games.

Dating apps only work if you look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth

If you are not super handsome, you're just average looking or ugly, you pretty much don't exist & are invisible to all those girls on the dating apps.

[HiredGoon]

Dating apps only work if you look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth

If you are not super handsome, you're just average looking or ugly, you pretty much don't exist & are invisible to all those girls on the dating apps.

Damn, I look like Austin Butler. FML

[dewayne]

Dating apps only work if you look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth

If you are not super handsome, you're just average looking or ugly, you pretty much don't exist & are invisible to all those girls on the dating apps.

I haven't been on the apps in close to 10 years now but I'm pretty average in every way and did just fine back in the day. Had a few rotational fwbs, a couple steady girlfriends for a time, and am still friends with a couple of the women I met. Good banter, a pleasant demeanor and an intellectual connection are far more important than a six pack or whatever

[MindTheGap]

I haven't been on the apps in close to 10 years now but I'm pretty average in every way and did just fine back in the day. Had a few rotational fwbs, a couple steady girlfriends for a time, and am still friends with a couple of the women I met. Good banter, a pleasant demeanor and an intellectual connection are far more important than a six pack or whatever

Totally agree. I’m on RHP and Feeld to mix it up and have met a few. Also dated and seeing some girls off hinge. Just not bothered about a full time thing. Prefer variety and happy to pay when I have spare cash.

[Sendmetheacti]

Obviously the value proposition isn't there, anymore. Most guys end up on these apps to meet someone and have some good sex.

I mean, you spend hours of your life swiping, and having meaningless conversations over text, to meet up with some mid-looking girl hoping for a spark, knowing she's seeing like 6 other guys at the same time.

Then if you get lucky, after years of this... after paying for her meal, and a few dates, to the tune of several hundred dollars and several hours of time invested, maybe youl'l get back to her place or your place, for a brief fuck.

Then youl'l either never see her again, or absolute best case, youl'l end up blowing several hundred thousand dollars on a weddings, dates, dinner nights, and houses you never really cared about... only to end up fucking her once a month (if your lucky), when she doesn't have a headache.


And then one of those nights as you're laying there after jerking off silently in bed next to her, youl'l do the Math.
Ginza.. $320 for an hour... I spent 200k all up on this woman over the last 10 years.... Including the house I never wanted to buy, the holidays I never wanted to go on...

That's 625 1 hour fucks with a different cute 18-25 year old japanese chick that happily blows you until completions, and fucks you in any position you could've dreamed of.

and.. then it hits you.

You probably haven't fucked your wife 625 times. She's definitely not as enthusiastic, definitely not as good looking, or atleast as much novelty. You got scammed.

Marriage and the whole dating and partnership thing made sense when the trade was; I work hard, and look after you. You give me sex whenever I want as your sacred duty + look after any kids that are produced.

Slowly that went away, and now all that's left is 'social shame' from stopping me from doing the clearly better deal; Just bang hookers.
It was a worse deal having to pay for it, when you could just wife up someone and get it on tap for the rest of your life. But that's apparently rape now;

and so.... Brothels literally are the best deal for this kind of thing.
It is what it is; No point complaining. You play the hand your dealt in the time and place your born in. And for us that's hookers by far.

[HiredGoon]

Obviously the value proposition isn't there, anymore. Most guys end up on these apps to meet someone and have some good sex.

I mean, you spend hours of your life swiping, and having meaningless conversations over text, to meet up with some mid-looking girl hoping for a spark, knowing she's seeing like 6 other guys at the same time.

Then if you get lucky, after years of this... after paying for her meal, and a few dates, to the tune of several hundred dollars and several hours of time invested, maybe youl'l get back to her place or your place, for a brief fuck.

Then youl'l either never see her again, or absolute best case, youl'l end up blowing several hundred thousand dollars on a weddings, dates, dinner nights, and houses you never really cared about... only to end up fucking her once a month (if your lucky), when she doesn't have a headache.


And then one of those nights as you're laying there after jerking off silently in bed next to her, youl'l do the Math.
Ginza.. $320 for an hour... I spent 200k all up on this woman over the last 10 years.... Including the house I never wanted to buy, the holidays I never wanted to go on...

That's 625 1 hour fucks with a different cute 18-25 year old japanese chick that happily blows you until completions, and fucks you in any position you could've dreamed of.

and.. then it hits you.

You probably haven't fucked your wife 625 times. She's definitely not as enthusiastic, definitely not as good looking, or atleast as much novelty. You got scammed.

Marriage and the whole dating and partnership thing made sense when the trade was; I work hard, and look after you. You give me sex whenever I want as your sacred duty + look after any kids that are produced.

Slowly that went away, and now all that's left is 'social shame' from stopping me from doing the clearly better deal; Just bang hookers.
It was a worse deal having to pay for it, when you could just wife up someone and get it on tap for the rest of your life. But that's apparently rape now;

and so.... Brothels literally are the best deal for this kind of thing.
It is what it is; No point complaining. You play the hand your dealt in the time and place your born in. And for us that's hookers by far.

If all you want from a relationship is sex, and you're counting every dollar spent with them doing things you don't want to do, then yes, definitely go to a brothel and pay by the hour.

[RLC]

Brothels and MP are nice and easy and no hassle. Walk in, walk out and easy as that.

[Warriorking]

Are there any spots that don’t charge? Anything at all — like seriously, anything.

[Double_Adapter]

Obviously the value proposition isn't there, anymore. Most guys end up on these apps to meet someone and have some good sex.

I mean, you spend hours of your life swiping, and having meaningless conversations over text, to meet up with some mid-looking girl hoping for a spark, knowing she's seeing like 6 other guys at the same time.

Then if you get lucky, after years of this... after paying for her meal, and a few dates, to the tune of several hundred dollars and several hours of time invested, maybe youl'l get back to her place or your place, for a brief fuck.

Then youl'l either never see her again, or absolute best case, youl'l end up blowing several hundred thousand dollars on a weddings, dates, dinner nights, and houses you never really cared about... only to end up fucking her once a month (if your lucky), when she doesn't have a headache.


And then one of those nights as you're laying there after jerking off silently in bed next to her, youl'l do the Math.
Ginza.. $320 for an hour... I spent 200k all up on this woman over the last 10 years.... Including the house I never wanted to buy, the holidays I never wanted to go on...

That's 625 1 hour fucks with a different cute 18-25 year old japanese chick that happily blows you until completions, and fucks you in any position you could've dreamed of.

and.. then it hits you.

You probably haven't fucked your wife 625 times. She's definitely not as enthusiastic, definitely not as good looking, or atleast as much novelty. You got scammed.

Marriage and the whole dating and partnership thing made sense when the trade was; I work hard, and look after you. You give me sex whenever I want as your sacred duty + look after any kids that are produced.

Slowly that went away, and now all that's left is 'social shame' from stopping me from doing the clearly better deal; Just bang hookers.
It was a worse deal having to pay for it, when you could just wife up someone and get it on tap for the rest of your life. But that's apparently rape now;

and so.... Brothels literally are the best deal for this kind of thing.
It is what it is; No point complaining. You play the hand your dealt in the time and place your born in. And for us that's hookers by far.

This right here is the cornerstone and the very essence of why punting exists. In theory, married life should come with a steady supply of blowies, CIM, rimming, DATY and passionate animalistic sex (in multiples positions) and on fucken tap. But let’s be real: that’s often more fantasy than fact. For many, marriage eventually drifts into routine and a chore, with romance replaced by friendship and companionship.

If you want amazing unadulterated sex, become a punter and explore the brothel and RnT scene. If it’s loyal companionship you’re after, get a dog.....after all they are called man’s best friend for a reason.

Sure, there are wonderful and amazing chicks out there who break the mold, but finding one is about as rare as spotting a unicorn on your morning commute to a punt.

[MindTheGap]

It’s not all bad. I’ve had a number of decent FWBs of RHP and AMM. Hinge is better than tinder I find. Usually have sex on the first or second date. Best girls I’ve had sex with are not in the industry. Escorts and WLs are more a fantasy for me.

[Sher1888]

When datings app were not getting greedy. I was getting sex with different girls every week precovid. After covid just different. I think punting cost less, you take a girl to dinner like 3 or 4 or more dates over $120 per date less hassle.

[HiredGoon]

Marriage and the whole dating and partnership thing made sense when the trade was; I work hard, and look after you. You give me sex whenever I want as your sacred duty + look after any kids that are produced.

Lol. And there's your problem. Would you want to be in her position? Sacred duty