Delusional, This illusion that many guys have you need build and unlock services with loyalty and devotion like you building up points on a loyalty card to unlock services is insane.Originally Posted by Wineglass985
Whatever she does with you, she will do with anyone who comes through the door and puts money on the table for it.
no one is special to them, they don't care if some random guy comes in offers $250 or his gonna walk, whatever the hell she lets you do, she is going to bend over and endure from random guy off the street hiss getting the same dam thing aslong as he has cash, first time or not they don't care it's a job to make money, it's not a relationship.
Give it a month or two and you will be back in here crying about how this one suddenly blocked you as well.
Sadly, what you said is most likely the truth. However, my mentality has evolved into Enjoy the Moment. So far I enjoy my moments with my regular ML. If something happens to her, I will find another one who allows me to Enjoy the Moments. Fortunately, there is an endless supply of young and attractive MLs to fill the void here.
I wonder whether we get attached to the same MLs. ?
Some I've met are brilliantly expert at emotional manipulation. My regular has been manipulating me for years.
You gotta see it and accept it for what it is.
I've wasted untold amounts of time... lost in my limerent thoughts about various imagined future's with my cock-worshiping temptress.
She gives me what i need and continues to and for a while she was all i wanted but not anymore.
Take your power back.
Generally a frank discussion with the object of your desire will set you straight.
It's not worth it man..
My regular told me an hour before our appointment that she couldn't have sex because a customer with a big dick fucked her that day and she is in pain. Has anyone else heard this excuse? What do you make of it?
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Crazy you can pay to fuck who you want, but you have a regular 😴. Makes zero sense
Hey just wanted to say thanks for an excellent discussion and a solid reminder that no matter how special a guy feels when visiting a ML we are most likely just another number.
Sound sentiment about not getting emotionally attached because it’s just not real.
Appreciate it chaps
Correct, they may smile and be friendly but will get use to you and drop small things like cutting time short by showering in your session, or letting you help with cleanup.
So, you are just a customer, nothing more so enjoy it and change regulars if they underperform.
I don't mind if they want to pop a quick shower straight away I wouldn't want to put my clothes straight back on after sex, if I was covered in oil.
But only if they offer to go together, I don't often take them up on it, but it's just a respect thing them offering to go together, I don't like showering cause most shops showers are appalling, but have been dragged into a few and been scrubbed up and down, it's certainly not a bad time.
I do feel for girls sometimes they have bookings pile up back to back, shops don't even give them 10mins to take a breath have a drink and prepare, I was leaving a shop the other day and as she opened the door to let me out, another guy came charging through the door stood right between us like I didn't exist and and said to her im here for my 1pm booking, it was only 12:50, the guy just imposed himself roughly was so weird, I do feel for girls sometimes when it comes to time, I don't begrudge them a shower if they happy for us to join of course.
Depending on the mood and your state of mind, watching her shower on her own can also be quite the turn on
No issue with her taking a shower but take the shower at the end of the session not start of my session.
And yes, there should be at least a 10min break between bookings
Totally agree with you JJBeck,everytime I spend time with my ml and she has to have a shower she always plans it so it doesn’t interfere with her next client, so we finish 5 to 10 minutes early…
But when I have to wait for her to have a shower in my time after seeing the previous client…… well I think it’s disrespectful.
And before anyone jumps down my throat I understand that there might be a honest reason for it sometimes.
Just my opinion
Ok, I didn't even consider that it was a shower at the start of your session ive never had that before, that's so wildly out of pocket.
Thats straight up thievery.
Correct and that is why I do not see her anymore. Great person but she got to comfortable so time to move on and enjoy the other ml around
It's up to you, if you find a girl who has good service and you are interested you can become her regular customer for a short time and try new girls when you get bored
This thread resonates with me and has changed my mindset of the value of being a regular of a ML
Too often, being a long-term, loyal customer of a ML means you’re expected to be the one who’s flexible, understanding, and willing to shift around, while the “new” customers get priority, better availability, and all the effort aimed at converting them into regulars.
It sucks when it happens, but it’s a harsh truth, loyalty and the value of being a regular often feels one-sided.
It all depends.
We might be comparing apples and oranges.
Perhaps it would help if everybody could just clarify what they mean by 'regular'.
To some that might mean seeing a particular ML 2 times a week and others might mean a ML they've seen more than twice in two years....
Bro, I totally get where you're coming from. Wanting stability and emotional consistency is part of who we are — it's not something to be ashamed of. But when it comes to MLs, we have to remind ourselves again and again: this is a business.
You’re right — the emotional investment is very one-sided. We might visit them weekly, think we’re building a bond, but to them, we’re one of dozens they see every week. You’re not wrong to feel hurt — your feelings are valid. But the hard truth is, most MLs are trained (or have learned through experience) not to get attached. It’s a survival mechanism in their line of work.
As for the incident, it sucks that one mistake — even if unintentional — can end everything just like that. But in their world, one red flag is enough to move on. No closure, no second chances.
So should you see MLs regularly or not? Here's my take:
If you're the kind of person who forms emotional connections easily, don't try to turn any ML into a "regular". It sets you up for heartbreak. Instead, keep it casual, spread your visits around, and remind yourself what it is — a service, not a relationship.
If you truly crave emotional connection, then maybe try looking outside the industry, or at least separate the two worlds clearly in your mind.
You're not alone in this. Many of us have been burned when we tried to turn something transactional into something emotional. Stay strong, learn from it, and protect your heart next time.
One can win small occasionally, lose big often, and maybe once in a lifetime win HUGE, but the emotional pain on you falling in love, lust or whatever one calls it with a WL or ML is huge and requires someone who can trust the juxtaposition between emotional connection and physical/intimate turmoil.... and I mean real PAIN in your BRAIN.
1. Does the WL contact you to see how you are and show interest in you
2. Does the WL even remember you or what you have told her
3. Do you know her real name and background and indeed do you want to know about really nasty stuff or some family info and nice stuff
4. Are you centered enough to deal with a lady fucking as many as 15-20 men a day as her job and deal with her cumming with other men and being intimate with others
5. Can the WL adjust to a normal job at $30/hr in lieu of a relative easy $300+ / hr on her back and still love you... even tolerate you (I'd say its like 5 in 100 may be able to).... are you happy to support the WL extreme spending habits or look after her family etc (this is real and you will come 2nd 99% of the time as many WL do it for other people, some are married, or pimped out by BF or for juice drip (drugs) etc
I can go on and on and on
I have dated pornstars... (huge no no), dated strippers (worse than WL, ML and PS), dated normal girls who actually were semi pro tour or on the full PGA WL Tour, have had young WL hit on me and tell me they love me (some are real but how do you know).... on and on
One needs to be very grounded and realistic to deal with this... if you are serious, tell the lady you are serious but you will take it slowly.... a big test is to cut off contact and see if she shows interest in you... this is also a real thing with normal sheilas...
If you have $$$$$$ and they know this is even tougher... or if you are older like me it is tougher... if you are good looking there is always someone hotter, if rich someone much richer, an asshole there are bigger assholes, sensitive, more sensitive... you get the drift.. big dick there are bigger, ugly, uglier on and on
In all the straight and WL and strippers... PS I have met.. I can count on 2 hands those that really cared and probably only 3 WL who really were serious with me about me and then ..... anyway you get the drift. Young WL are a big miss etc
Go slowly if you like any woman. I never hit on anyone unless they do it first and then I have little tests in my own mind how they respond. A big thing is communication, communication and farkin communication. Does the lady send you a terse "I'm busy, I'll call" message and then never does... seen this 3 times in the last year... "Nem ertum" ... see you later.. this is the true fuck off... it means I am farking some random filthy dog for $300 and yes you care about me but I am too busy farking said pig dog and have no time for you... so she is saying fark off... $$$$ before you always
if you do find a true gem, they are a unicorn and they do exist... just tread lightly and softly and give her room and she will show her interest..... really serious interest and then the boot is on your foot... do you want to commit... hmmm
If not, remember, "Love is state between lust and boredom"
I met a nice lady recently FWIW and am going through this in my own mind again.... swings and roundabouts
Oh and see the same girls again if they are good until there is a hiccup...... I am easy to please but if a lady takes the piss once... move on
There are 1000s of girls in Sydney and 99% will be no good for an emotional connection but you are paying for sex not for a romance
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