I’m of two minds about a lot of things but sex isn’t one. Men take control not the women.
If you go to a restaurant and order lobster do you only eat half and then look at it, kiss and caress it, talk to it then don’t go all the way and eat all of it?
Same with paid sex, if you’re paying for penetration then go forth and seek penetration.
I’ve never seen it written anywhere on a brothel wall that a guy cannot stick it in for the full 60 minutes or even 120 minutes if they so desire.
This is the problem, paid women don’t want that, they want the quickest outcome, the guy to be happy with his one hit wonder, given a kiss, a cuddle, perhaps a light nondescript meaningless time wasting token massage, some small talk a farewell peck on the cheek and sent on his way, preferably before the clock strikes “end of session”.
If Joe Average is happy with that then that’s his prerogative but it’s not mine.
I’ve been around long enough on both sides of the fence to see how it really is. It’s a song and dance routine with the longest song and the shortest dance.