Regular taking advantage of me

[Joun23]

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.

1. She's getting more comfortable saying no, including some stuff she used to do before.
2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session. That means she went overtime with others but never with me.
3. Sometimes she said she's tired because the previous punter was rough and asked for cuddles. Why let other punters go rough, then make me pay the price?
4. Once I texted her beforehand to check if she was okay to meet, and she said yes. But when we met, she had pussy pain and I couldn't even stick a finger in. Why not let me know earlier?

At first, I just kept my head down. But after a while, I started thinking, what the fuck is this bullshit?
Anyone else faced this before? Is it common for regulars to become complacent? I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off

Go to the shop when she is on roster and ask for a line-up including her.
Then choose another girl for a refreshing session and make her upset.
I did it once a few years ago to a WL who texted me saying she wanted to see me next time, but I ignored and moved on. Those girls don't deserve your regular donations.
I'm keeping a close eye on two of my regulars at the moment who has kind of started showing the same issue but will give them another chance to improve before I move on

[forgotmyumbrella]

Go to the shop when she is on roster and ask for a line-up including her.
Then choose another girl for a refreshing session and make her upset.
I did it once a few years ago to a WL who texted me saying she wanted to see me next time, but I ignored and moved on. Those girls don't deserve your regular donations.
I'm keeping a close eye on two of my regulars at the moment who has kind of started showing the same issue but will give them another chance to improve before I move on

This is how you play it, they treat you like an ATM, you treat them like a condom. Once it's used up, grab a new one. It's just business
Those who catch feelings lose. That's the game.

[11Bravo]

It’s not a flex but a fact. Stating facts are allowed I presume? This one is most definitely living together material and when we’ve been out it’s really wonderful.

Have you ever thought about someone special or someone so unique that in your wildest dreams you thought one day you could have just that? The thought that’s been in the back of your mind for a very long time and then one day that thought becomes reality. Well that’s how she is to me. Before I didn’t respect her as she was a number, punt, date and burn.

Now my thinking is different.

Aren’t I entitled to another folly?

I’m the one who chases these women whilst you guys pay them then leave and of course I pay them initially but I use it as a filter for an end game. If the sex is good and they’re hot looking then yes I’m dating them.

You only have to go out with a hottie on your arm and see the looks you get and in fact this ML is a most definite head turner. In fact I’d walk her all around town just for the looks she gets from guys of all ages and other women.

Is there anything wrong with that?

How is it simpish or desperate and needy when I control everything? Whether they stay or go is entirely up to me and as I’ve written previously I have a propensity for dumping any of them on a whim.

Damn, well that tune quickly changed, went from "She's the one" to "Dumpable at any time".

That must be the trouble with an over-inflated ego, constantly needs to get pumped up. Like that tire with a slow leak, always having to stop and fill it up. You need approbation from the crowd... always looking around rather than enjoying the company you're with?

You're no different than the OP. The adults here know the difference between punting and dating. In the former, she's playing a role; in the latter, she's herself. With you, it's the same, just a change of venue. And that's your insecurity, never knowing the real person, what she's really thinking. Why you can never trust, always ready to bail. And the thing is, you know it.

You have to control everything? How BORING.

[11Bravo]

Go to the shop when she is on roster and ask for a line-up including her.
Then choose another girl for a refreshing session and make her upset.
I did it once a few years ago to a WL who texted me saying she wanted to see me next time, but I ignored and moved on. Those girls don't deserve your regular donations.
I'm keeping a close eye on two of my regulars at the moment who has kind of started showing the same issue but will give them another chance to improve before I move on

This is how you play it, they treat you like an ATM, you treat them like a condom. Once it's used up, grab a new one. It's just business
Those who catch feelings lose. That's the game.

What is this, high school. By golly gee whiskers, I'm gonna show that Mary Ann... I'm taking Peggy Sue to the prom.

Your fantasy:

After you pick another girl from the lineup, Ms Original will run back to the break room with broken heart.

The reality:

Ms Original goes back to the break room thinking, damn missed another chance at an easy payday. But he still thinks of me. Oh well, maybe he's finally gotten the hint.

And then, after Ms Alt gets back to the break room, Ms Original will clue her in on, if you return, how she can play you.

The adult play is to just walk away. Your barber doesn't give you the great service anymore, to show him up, you pick another barber from the same shop? Just go to another shop, using the Yelp (Aus99) listings.

Why do so many want to play games, seem to fail to understand, it's just BUSINESS.

You treat her like a person, she'll be a person. You treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice. IF she stops being a person, you simply walk away, no hissy-fit required.

[1inchguy]

What is this, high school. By golly gee whiskers, I'm gonna show that Mary Ann... I'm taking Peggy Sue to the prom.

Your fantasy:

After you pick another girl from the lineup, Ms Original will run back to the break room with broken heart.

The reality:

Ms Original goes back to the break room thinking, damn missed another chance at an easy payday. But he still thinks of me. Oh well, maybe he's finally gotten the hint.

And then, after Ms Alt gets back to the break room, Ms Original will clue her in on, if you return, how she can play you.

The adult play is to just walk away. Your barber doesn't give you the great service anymore, to show him up, you pick another barber from the same shop? Just go to another shop, using the Yelp (Aus99) listings.

Why do so many want to play games, seem to fail to understand, it's just BUSINESS.

You treat her like a person, she'll be a person. You treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice. IF she stops being a person, you simply walk away, no hissy-fit required.

This.
Who wants to play games with wl/ml?
Plus the whole point of the game is to see them naked and fuck them anyway. So if you're already paying them and seeing them as regular whats the point?
The only explanation is wanting freebies?

[Double_Adapter]

Some blokes out here treating a business transaction like a fucken romance novel, going full Romeo and Juliet; and instead of whispering under Juliet’s balcony, they’re at the brothel balcony professing eternal love to an Asian sex worker who’s probably mid-session getting railed by some old bald fat farang....Meanwhile, her phone is blowing up with dm's from random thirsty, needy, clingy and desperate simps spamming her with shit like 'good morning, sweetheart', 'I miss you baby', 'would you like to meet for coffee', 'love you', 'you busy/free now' ad nauseam

It's all fucked!!!.....

[11Bravo]

The only explanation is wanting freebies?

Nah, it's the little boy hurt ego; I'm gonna SHOW her... Like driving for the basket, slam dunk... when the other team and the crowd have already gone home (and the slam dunk bounces off the rim...).

[11Bravo]

Some blokes out here treating a business transaction like a fucken romance novel, going full Romeo and Juliet; and instead of whispering under Juliet’s balcony, they’re at the brothel balcony professing eternal love to an Asian sex worker who’s probably mid-session getting railed by some old bald fat farang....Meanwhile, her phone is blowing up with dm's from random thirsty, needy, clingy and desperate simps spamming her with shit like 'good morning, sweetheart', 'I miss you baby', 'would you like to meet for coffee', 'love you', 'you busy/free now' ad nauseam

It's all fucked!!!.....

Wait a minute, wait a minute, WAIT A MINUTE... You mean, when I'm sitting in my barber's chair, he asks me how I'm doing, he's just making small talk, REALLY doesn't care? When I'm sitting in the dentist's chair, she asks me how I'm doing, and I say, "Mngh gxocyu hmrcty", she really doesn't care? Say it ain't so, Joe!!!

Guess some just think that by gracing her with their presence for an hour, once, twice, few times a month, it'll be life changing for her... Proves that maturity is not a direct function of age. And education IS expensive.

[Double_Adapter]

Wait a minute, wait a minute, WAIT A MINUTE... You mean, when I'm sitting in my barber's chair, he asks me how I'm doing, he's just making small talk, REALLY doesn't care? When I'm sitting in the dentist's chair, she asks me how I'm doing, and I say, "Mngh gxocyu hmrcty", she really doesn't care? Say it ain't so, Joe!!!

Guess some just think that by gracing her with their presence for an hour, once, twice, few times a month, it'll be life changing for her... Proves that maturity is not a direct function of age. And education IS expensive.

Whoa-whoa-whoa bro....This shit is spreading faster than a bad haircut; barber shops included.....Didn’t you get the memo?

https://youtu.be/gScIyQrGWys?si=zGYx0p4j463nb0fj

[11Bravo]

Whoa-whoa-whoa bro....This shit is spreading faster than a bad haircut; barber shops included.....Didn’t you get the memo?

https://youtu.be/gScIyQrGWys?si=zGYx0p4j463nb0fj

No, didn't get the memo until you provided. LOL. How true.

Still, I'm sure some will think "Whoa, that player showed that bitch what was what, he crushed her".

Now, how about the dentist?

[justincase]

Some blokes out here treating a business transaction like a fucken romance novel, going full Romeo and Juliet; and instead of whispering under Juliet’s balcony, they’re at the brothel balcony professing eternal love to an Asian sex worker who’s probably mid-session getting railed by some old bald fat farang....Meanwhile, her phone is blowing up with dm's from random thirsty, needy, clingy and desperate simps spamming her with shit like 'good morning, sweetheart', 'I miss you baby', 'would you like to meet for coffee', 'love you', 'you busy/free now' ad nauseam

It's all fucked!!!.....

I’m of the opinion if the women look hot and sexy and you’ve punted them and had a fun time why not go further and date them? I’m not talking about love or romance as that’s for fools but doing everything else.

She’s hot, you already know she’s good in bed so why not date her? Who cares if she’s acting as long as your perception and your experience is good then why not?

I’m selfish but it’s all about me and I’d just spend money on her to keep her happy. For a lot of people “money is the currency of love”. Even if it’s all a big act on her behalf does it matter?

Sugaring but with hard sex.

No kissy loving I’ve gotta go down on you to get you wet foreplay but here’s the lube and let me jam you kinda lovin’ and after I’m happy I’ll take her out and show her a good time.

Sounds like punting but it’s dating.