Agree. Don't take it seriously. I've been out with a few ML's recently, you know, just for fun, nothing serious. See them for maybe 3-4 weeks and then the drama creeps in and I'm off.
Before that, I had a very long term relationship with an ex-WL. Fucking great sex for the first few years, thought I snagged a winner...but gradually dried up towards then end. Broke up with her a couple of years ago. Thought I could give her "a better life", but in the end not what she wanted. She started seeing someone almost straight after we split and then had a string of men thereafter....(many pump and dump situations I gather). I'm pretty sure she's gone back into the trade.
I've found most of them have some sort of psychological problem or personality disorder (NPD or BPD or both!), probably from childhood trauma/neglect. My ex defo had NPD (covert). She was abused by her mum and I think her step-dad fiddled.
It is true, too many cocks does something to them. My ex also said she did enjoy some clients (around 15%-20%) and went out with quite a few punters at the same time, so, keep that in the back of your mind.
If you do find one you think is actually interested in you or seems to care about, just remember it's her feelings for the moment. A woman is only loyal to her emotions.
It's right about the work thing. My ex tried to find normal jobs after we broke up, but she's back because the money's too good and easy work for her. Normal jobs are too hard.
Anyway, your decision, but it could fuck up your life like it did mine!!!!
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