Quote Originally Posted by thunder545454 View Post
Totally agree can romance your wife into sex, if you disappear the kid, treat her like a first date dress nice, buy a new cologne take her out spin her around, when you get home she will rape your cock off totally agree.

But thats not the issue, the issue men want to fuck their wifes 2-3 times, you can romance her once or twice a month into bed, but what do you do about the other 10 times a month you need to release the poision.

Ive been married in my 30's with a kid and wife went from sex twice a day 5 days a week, pretty much open for sex anytime anywhere, to drier than a desert after a kid.

In my 40's dating women, who are in their 30's without kids, it's back to anytime anywhere any reason get your cock in me as much as possible.

You cannot disagree that the stark difference there is very painful for a man in his 30's who goes from anytime anywhere to zero interest from now till death pretty much overnight, majority don't want to divorce due to financial reasons, so they go for relief via ML.

These are sane men, put in an insane situation doing the best they can, no woman can understand a man sexual desire, if they did they wouldn't brgrudge them going for a jerk off, when they don't want to do it.
Thank you for being open.
Lets start with a key point
Ive been married in my 30's with a kid and wife went from sex twice a day 5 days a week, pretty much open for sex anytime anywhere, to drier than a desert after a kid.
Was the birth traumatic?
Or natural birth no tearing, no interference, no damage?
Was it a cunty kid wanting a lot of attention?
Did you honestly expect to have wild fuckathons after a kid?

The woman is doing 90% of the child stuff in almost every situation. That takes a lot of time and energy. You go from #2 on her priority list, behind her, to shit on a stick way down the pecking order.

Did you talk to her about your sexual needs and try and find a compromise solution?
Did she know you had a permanent erection and wanted to fuck 24/7?
She feels like shit, fat, ugly and tired. No wonder sex isnt high on her priority list.
You may have to wank a little more, but if she is physically and mentally unscarred from the birth she is likely to be up for it.
Especially if she knows others have their eye on you. She will fight like a tiger if she knows another bitch is hunting her man.

Or you married a cunt if she just flicked a switch and fucked you over after your sperm donation. The cunt was in full display to your friends and family. You just ignored them cause the tail was great.

Honestly how many men do EVERYTHING possible to resolve issues before resorting to massage shops?
How many just crack the shits, say fuck her and mount Miss Japan?

There is fault in relationships on both sides.
The man for not discussing like an adult and working to a compromise in most situations and not understanding a womans massive life complications following a child.
The woman for not understanding the mans needs and his lack of ability to express himself and sudden grouchiness.

Going to a massage shop is the easy out. If you genuinely love the bitch, you will do everything in your power to find a solution that doesnt involve immigrant dick sucking.