Thx for the info, I’d been to the one in commonwealth street with my GF previously and the place was ok. I’ll go check the one on parramatta rd.
Mate, there's been a few of these places over the years. A couple in Surry Hills used to hire girls to service the single guys who paid a hefty sum to get in. The problem is that they were filled with ugly bogans. Our Secret Spot blew me away - average age I'd say would be 30. Young, dressed up (in the beginning anyway) and well behaved crowd. Honestly, it's one of the best such places I've seen anywhere in the world.


Thx for the info, I’d been to the one in commonwealth street with my GF previously and the place was ok. I’ll go check the one on parramatta rd.




Great read. The Mrs doesn’t know I punt but she has suggested seriously that we go to a swingers club several times. I’m the one who pulls the plug - mainly because I’m not interested in seeing her get fucked by another bloke. Is it normal at swingers clubs to come as a couple and just invite girls to join? Also happy to just watch if the girl doesn’t want me joining (though that isn’t the preference). I was also worried about ages and whether it would be an older crowd or a sausage fest. For reference we’re in our early thirties.
I personally dont know why you are hesitating. If my wife went to this place with me more often I wouldnt be on this forum. In my experience the place was very professional and well run. Consent is clearly communicated. My wifey felt safe and had a fun time. You just go upstairs and fuck really. To me its a supercharged feeling fucking in amounst people, I dont care ifothers get involved with us or not. And I guess if you like the persons fucking next to you, and they like you, well you just join. Its not a sausage fest at all, almost 100% couples. Single men and only allowed on some nights and to be honest the ones that are there look to me like they work there ... they are part security / cleaners and just sit to the side unless invited. . One annoying guy was having a wank but thats it. Pretty broad mix of ages groups from 30s to 50s in my observation Downstairs are for people who like beating / slapping each other, if thats your thing.


"One annoying guy was having a wank". I have not been to this place but I remember 20+ years ago a house in Riverwood that was swingers, as single guy I paid to get in, they had hookers there to service us. I remember spit roasting and there he was squatted naked bedside, this Hairy Hamood (actual name, asked him) was violently jerking off to us, really off putting to say the least. I laughed at your remark in relation.


Bro, really hard pill to swallow. You need to be evolved in such a way that makes you impervious and not give a hoot. Watching some dude ball you old doll is not fun if you honestly love her, but you can find ways to soften it so to speak. Her letting you dog around, bring her friends over for your enjoyment etc but in the end it will be her turn and you have to be brave enough to deal with it. Took me 4 years and I admit, I still get instinctively miffed so to speak. I have mates that have happily let me blow load in their girls gob, but fuck man, it's a real walk through the dark alley so to speak. Shit comes up when you are drunk!!!! for me anyway. I see how the young ones are now, partner swapping is like giving you a sip of my drink or a bite of the sandwich.