
Originally Posted by
Phaser74
why am I (phaser) here paying women for sex?
Without being too specific, my lovely wife has severe physical and emotional trauma at the hands of two rapists. One a blood relative, one a fellow university student. Despite us having three adorable girls, sexual intimacy is a challenge. These may never be solved. As she is also of Korean descent, I am not allowed a girlfriend, but can look after myself as I see fit. She knows my allegiance is with her, forever and always. Our aim is to raise our daughters to be strong, independent woman and fiercely protect them from the environments they will one day walk into.
Everyone has their own situation and why we do this. I would prefer not to, but know I have my own issues in dealing with this from my end. My job is to not allow this to interfere in my life with my queen and princesses.
Why do I (phaser) fail my significant other?/Why do I (phaser) not have an significant other at Christmas?
We all fail our significant other, those of us here. If we have one. This is not the place for healthy minds to congregate.
Life is unfair sometimes. Tough. Work out a fix or band aid solution if necessary. Get the mind healthy. A happy life flows from a healthy mind.
get comfortable with the fact that you have descended into the dregs of society and that 'society' would see you are arguing your superior position within the layers of dregs.
I got comfortable with it years ago.
I do not let my environment define me. You may be comfortable doing so.
I love turning chicken shit into chicken salad.
There are many punters who are decent people. They do not post here with some exceptions.
There are also punters worse than what congregate here. The rapists, the runners, the dead eyes.
From my observation, you seem to post a lot but don't actually seem to 'visit' a lot of girls. In my outdated ways and language we would have called you (and I still do) "full of shit".
Is 25 visits in the 3 months, september to november a lot or too few?
That’s about 2 a week.
3 were to Ruby at Yimi, 1 each was to Kate at Darra Station, Kyla at Fresh Day Spa, Sydney at Dreaming Heaven and Fairy at Acqua. All reviewed. Another was for a suggested review, but it would be highly negative and of no interest to most punters.
7 of the 25, 8 if you count the dud…..for the forum.
6 were to a long term regular which included a visit to her apartment, four hours in hotel, four hours in a shop and 3 regular one hour visits
14 visits so far
7 others were to 3 other regulars who i indulged with visits upon their request at times that suited me
21 visits.
The other 4 visits were to check on ladies as a favour to friends to determine the mls lies, truths and limits.
These were of no benefit to me.
25 visits.
You?