My wife has 0 to no sex drive anymore. We always end up arguing about it when 3 months has gone by and I feel like absolute shit / feel like she doesn't want me.

Apart from that relationship is great.
First let me say, I've always used protection, not willing to roll the dice on that unless I decide I'm going out with a bang!!

Started going to brothels which led to privates (more bang for buck). Now privates are starting to ask too much vs establishments. Recently visited massage parlour, not expecting / realising there were more options than a HJ.

Value for money, easy to access and an actual massage.

Win win