I treat the ladies with the utmost respect as i know they deal with some not very nice punters i have had a booking before when once into the room the wl got very upset i spent the hour of my booking with her crying on my shoulder getting alot off bad shit out of her head and off her shoulders when i returned the following week i got a big hug and thanks again and a session with a smile on her face and mine for helping out.
As for getting better at pleasing a woman i have learnt a heap as the ex was a starfish but i did not know any better (only second ever lover) so that has helped build the confidence to a degree but i guess im after something more long term.