If you're paying the shop fee by card, you should wait until the EFTPOS machine indicates the payment is accepted.
Howdy all,
Have been frequenting for a while now however I'm still not certain when the best time to gets "handsy" with the lovely ladies.
I've always been hesitant to when to initiate, like should I be going straight into a leg rub/ass grab, do some girls like straight when we go straight into the golden passage?
Let me know yall thoughts and tips lads!


If you're paying the shop fee by card, you should wait until the EFTPOS machine indicates the payment is accepted.


It’s different with different ML’s some give you a hint by grabbing you hand and putting between their thighs, slow is fast.



I never touch until extras have been agreed on, unless she initiates. And then move gradually to the good bits. Never go straight to sticking your finger in. I feel if you keep them in their comfort zone, you will get better service.


For a new ML I wait until the TT starts, then I start gentle. A brush or stroke of the leg, and if that is well received then proceed slowly. How far? It all depends on the vibe. I recently had my second massage with a new ML and was one knuckle deep before part one ended, and she certainly wasn't resisting. I didn't push that far on our first encounter, but I gave her a good rub through her panties before we even talked about extras. The second encounter we didn't even discuss extras, just launched into it when the time came.
As Puntersclub mentioned, watch for those hints. Let her make the first move. You both know what you're there for, but be respectful and you'll find you might get far. I also firmly believe that if they enjoy themselves they will put in the extra effort to make sure you do too.
Happy punting!
Would you guys approach it differently with a regular you see? Just want to see if its right to set the vibe early and get things a bit steamy!


Depends on the regular, but yeah, sometimes they will meet you with a hug and a grope. Sometimes you start with the ending and finish with the massage. Sometimes they're horny and make it obvious. Sometimes it has been a slow day and they want that cash and might try to upsell you if you don't normally ask for top tier. Maybe you occasionally give them an extra lobster or pineapple on top of the standard fee, but not always, so they know that if they give good service they'll be rewarded.
If they are a regular and you can't read them then they are not really a regular. Or at least they are not my regular. You get to know each other and you build a relationship. It's a transactional relationship, and you need to keep that in mind and not develop feelings, but it's still a relationship.
Lets cut to the chase.
These are sex workers. They want your money. You want their bodies.
Some are new, some have seen every dick in Brisbane.
If they waste too much time on massage or leaving the room too often, dont bother with extras.
Tell them they didnt allow enough time. Some girls only leave 10-15 minutes
Or initiate things yourself. Some guys initiate immediately. Some want their massage.
They want the session to go as easy as possible for them. They could be seeing 10-12 dicks that day. Less at quieter shops.
If you get the vibe of a time waster or the extras are going to be average or worse, cut your losses at the shop fee.
Throwing money at her and hoping things will improve is a road to wasting a lot of money.
Do not fondle them without permission. Discuss extras when you are both comfortable and make sure you are both on the same page. Plenty of mls in Brisbane if the vibe is wrong.
My MO is to sit on the edge of the table, towel wrapped, when the lady (aka sex worker) comes in, bring her in for a hug and a chat. The conversation usually goes two ways
Version 1
She : "so what would you like today?"
Me: : "what would you suggest?"
this leads to her giving you her menu and you choose, action starts
Version 2
She : "lie down and I'll give you a massage"
Me : "you know I didn't really come for a massage today"
She : "so what would you like today?"
Me: : "what would you suggest?"
this leads to her giving you her menu and you choose, action starts
of course there are other variants and it doesn't always follow the script.


a long long time ago, there was a korean regular i saw. Half the time it was me doing the massaging from the start lol but definitely VFM GFE, don't know where she went now.
but to answer the OP question, usually after the TT have started, and a bit earlier with a monthly or bi-monthly regular.
I always inaccurately describe the times and dates of my visits

Never had a girl who stood at my head who wasn't happy to be touched, (sometimes they initiate it) but they don't all stand at that end of the table and I don't touch them if they don't.
If they do stand there it's usually a green light, to make sure start slowly, fingers stroking legs, then build. Keep in mind they want you horny to guarantee the extra up-sell so from their perspective having their ass groped all but guarantees more money. Though less experienced girls may not go for this until after extra has been paid.