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Thread: Couldn't get hard. 3 times. WTF is wrong with me?

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    Happened to me when I was tired after work or if the girl doesn’t click.
    If the girl doesn’t click I’ll try and use more imagination, but it’s a bad idea to punt when tired. All the comments about not wanking is very true for me too. Likewise for hard wanking…Wet pussies aren’t as tight as your grip.

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    Quote Originally Posted by themort View Post
    I dunno how old you are but it happens and the worst thing is when it gets in your head.

    I have sort of the opposite problem with retarded ejaculation and it that gets in your head you are toast, and for the girl this is probably worse.

    If you're over 40, I don't think your doctor would blink an eyelid to give you blue pills, and even if you don't actually need them, they are a wonderful blue placebo that will get it out of your head.

    I do agree with posters above, jerkin off to porn is like studying for an exam stoned, if you're not stoned when you turn up for your exam, you can't remember shit. State dependent learning is the phenomenon. Go easy on the jerkin the gherkin.
    Im only 20 bro do u think i should take cialis? I dont even know what that is

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    Quote Originally Posted by iikaannn View Post
    Im only 20 bro do u think i should take cialis? I dont even know what that is
    I experienced some performance issues in my early 20’s as well.

    Theres so many contributing factors as to why.
    It’s tough to get over the performance anxiety and constant thinking “Will i actually get hard this time”

    I cut back on porn/masturbation and made sure i was actually getting enough sleep as i would normally get a few hours a night.

    To ease the anxiety i ended up getting a script for Cialis and it definitely helped… A lot. Just don’t overdo it. The effects last 72hrs, strongest in the first 24. You won’t be walking around everywhere with an erection but you’ll find it incredibly easy to get one.

    Think of Cialis as Viagra’s little brother.


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    It's probably just a mental thing of some sort, don't reach for the pills at 20. Worst case you need to go see a Dr. to get a couple free therapist sessions.

    But yeah, also stop jerkin the gherkin for a bit, then try again to rule that out.

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    I agree your cocks like a dog you have trained it

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    Mental thing does come in play. When I have distractions (e.g. if I am filming) or I am with a super beautiful girl and have high expectations of performance, I get limp.

    I was rock hard when I saw J Ivy. She makes me pressure free and I was like releasing the beast...

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    Different Perspective

    Quote Originally Posted by iikaannn View Post
    Im only 20 bro do u think i should take cialis? I dont even know what that is
    You're 20. Like I thought, young and immature (just a fact of life). What are you doing looking at P4P? You should take your time, your money, your energy and be out at the bars, clubs, events, looking to date, to score. You don't have to have a gf, just some who are also looking to have some adult fun. Those are much more fun than P4P as they're real, not business. You go to school - check your classmates. Work - your colleagues. Mix, hit the events.

    Prostitution might be legal, but there is a societal barrier to patronizing. Why we use handles, why so many are interested if a shop has a back door, is too public.

    Seems you're not ready to cross that line, your brain telling your body "no". I'd listen. Once you cross that line successfully, it can become all too easy to continue; it's no longer that big a deal (never was, but you know, social conditioning has some reasoning...) IMO, you need real life relationship experience to give you a foundation so later on you can keep sex and relationships in perspective. Horny gives you energy, courage, to break out and extend yourself. It's just all TOO easy to take that extension to a P4P shop rather than taking ego risks ("The Agony of Defeat" making "The Thrill of Victory" all the MORE sweet). And with too much P4P as a base, that real relationship, too hard, too much work, just make a booking. Bad habits hard to break.

    Some providers are damn good actresses (that's what they're paid for), and without real life perspective, some punters lose track of reality. You're a train, rushing down life's track. Without past relationship experience ties, those rails can come lose, and off the track you go. Not saying it'll happen, but you're missing some great things in life by taking the easy way.

    You've got your whole life ahead of you. No rush for anything.

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    When I was 20 the less sexual experience the girl had, the more I desired and wanted her, whereas the bicycles really turned me off. Was totally a mental thing. Maybe subconsciously you know 746 penises have already been there so there's no conquest to be had.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iikaannn View Post
    Im only 20 bro do u think i should take cialis? I dont even know what that is
    Younger is more prone to anxiety and like I said once it's in your head it's all over.

    As other people said - no jerking, go a week without punting, find a girl you like and relax, don't be tired, don't be dehydrated and all that.

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