Currently abstaining because it is way too easy to get addicted. I’m not good at moderation.



Usually guys ruin it by being themselves. At first people can put up a front and act cool but after a few meets all that drops and the girls see into our souls and they find nothing there but emptiness and darkness. The ones that also have the same emptiness inside confuse it for kinship or fate and they start developing feelings but both hearts are made of recycled cardboard... And we all know what happens to cardboard when it rains.
Hey brothers,
I can honestly say I was hooked to punting for 15 years at least. Going every one to two weeks. There’d be periods when I had a girlfriend and went less, but i was addicted for sure. Now in my early 40s, I just don’t feel the need to go as much any more. I have some regulars who know what I like and do a good job and I see them occasionally. Not sure if this gradual pull back happens to many blokes. Now at my age I know what I want and i do my research or go off recommendations before spending the money. I’m more cautious parting with money now despite making more than I ever have. It’s weird. Maybe it’s just maturity.
I was hooked and addicted to punting but have rarely punted over the past 2 years. Had maybe 2 - 3 punts since January 2025. It just doesn't appeal to me anymore. I still check rosters, get excited for 5 seconds then lose interest. Have saved a tonne of $$ despite hanging out with friends and going to social events.



Had my period of lack of appeal for about a fortnight before I got back into it , just needed to taper off a bit .. I still have hobbies , active social life but relish in the fact I have a stable of regular MLs and WLs that provide the services I want without all the hassle of dating and time wasting / buildup to get sex which is a given certainty . Same $$$ which would have been wasted on a girlfriend / wife and ending up with manogamous , repetitive and / or limited sex . To each their own
Not anymore, I stick to a a single handful of regulars now. I can't risk trying out new experiences given how expensive this shit is.
I had good regulars but just got to the point where I lost interest. Maybe it’s old age or boredom. I have no idea. It might sound cliche but hanging out with friends and having other hobbies have helped me quit punting.


This is a breath of fresh air and both enlightening and encouraging to read.
Thanks to the summer months with sunlight and longer daylight there are great movies and concerts to go to, good books to read in the park, fishing and sport to indulge in etc etc. Anything and everything to help us beating the devil we know what it is.
It's a healthier and more fulling life. Not to say more money to save for raining days and for tougher days ahead.
Thanks for starting this thread.
I would agree with this and confess. When I was in a relationship with a widowed milf for a few years, there was zero punting. As soon as we called it quit, I walked straight back to the nearest AMP. What a fucken idiot I was!
Every time I walk pass a decent looking Asian milf with sizeable melons on the street, my mind starts to wonder which AMP I should pay a visit then and there to satisfy the urge. It's just becoming so distracting, time consuming, and very costly. To me it is like going to a pub for a fag and a drink after work. I'm grateful I managed to stop this crappy habit a while ago especially the smoking part.
I too have had my fair share of dud punts and sessions at some very mediocre cum dumps over the years that I am not proud of and regretting. I also started to find the deed less and less appealing, but then as soon as I read someone's review of a decent visit at a parlour on this forum, the feeling starts to get the better of me again. I think I should get some help.
My latest thing is to see a Viet milf/gilf ML. The drive and time it takes to visit one in Cabramatta or Warwick Farm have been the deterrent so far. I should go and get it over and done with soon and enjoy the year end festivities.


Wait Giz, that doesn't make sense to me. I'd say all of us are punting with post tax funds. If you have too much disposable income (post paying tax), and you are paying too much tax, then are you claiming punting as some sort of business expense to offset on the tax you have to lower the tax you pay? That is a great rort if you can do it, but I was not aware that the ATO, especially under Albo and Chalmers, are allowing paying for sex work as a legitimate business write off?
If you have some special insight, I'd love to try it but I run a business with my wife, so I even if the ATO did allow it, I would not be game enough to try to claim that as an expense, even if I say, it wasn't me, it was the client that wanted to go and I waited in the waiting room


I think i am... i use to do it get my rocks off but now i go for the emotional/mental value... probably need to get out and meet people Been going through the same rotation since i dont want to risk duds, maybe its so easy since its within my budgets but i could realistically save a lot more
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