Since it seems not all got the drift of my first post, I'll continue with the lyrics from the same song...
(Though the first line does not have a good ring on this forum

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That aside...
And not to confuse anyone that I in no way mean the OP with the reference, I think the post by OP was genuine, with genuine unease and compassion towards a pretty girl with a disability. A girl who probably should be doing something else, but has no options.
Life is tough and living is not easy for some. Not so most punters on this forum, just remember that.
And, food for thought... she did not have ulcers or bladder infection three months ago.
Where or from whom do you think she got those?
Mirror, mirror on the wall...