The Darkside of Sydney's punting scene. Gambling/Drugs/Loneliness

[iphone5]

Lol just trying to help a brother seeing as how your poetry thread is subjugated to the netherworld where its only chance of reemerging to the front is another member making a comment or you yourself bumping to the front.

OD??? Dude I'm talking about things im experiencing and that everyday punters on this forum can relate to, not things you see in movies or in the news. Your context is highly exaggerated unless your that Indian neurological surgeon who's wl's od in his apartment from cocaine... but then again he isn't an everyday punter on this forum.

Sounds like your story was inspired by reading the article about the adventures of the neurosurgeon and his punting sessions. Maybe you've just adapted the story and this is your own version.
OR, maybe the whole story was designed to give you the opportunity to say 'Y.O.L.O' in one of your posts.

[greybeard_]

+1

Another big-noting, attention-seeking thread from Gucci.

Sounds like your story was inspired by reading the article about the adventures of the neurosurgeon and his punting sessions. Maybe you've just adapted the story and this is your own version.
OR, maybe the whole story was designed to give you the opportunity to say 'Y.O.L.O' in one of your posts.

[harmony]

These are very true words written by wise brothers
"You are a customer, not her boyfriend. She might like you more than others, but you still a customer"
"IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER"

Reality check: the line was crossed once drugs entered the equation
The risk is that you are addicted not just to the cheap sex, but the whole lifestyle

I have a girlfriend this year who wants me to source and try something on the seamy side, lets just say its not legal substance.
She is a good lady, with a respectable job in the government sector, she just wants to try something new
I toyed with the idea with her, but always in my mind the answer is a definite NO.
No way do I want to slide down that particular slippery slide to who knows where
And that would have been unlimited fun with a girlfriend, so no cost apart from the substance
Taking substance is never attractive to me
Life is already wonderful with the pure pleasures that nature already provides. No need to upsell to try to touch the stars, with fake substances IMHO
Of course alcohol is from nature, so is acceptable to me
But products from a chemistry lab is crossing the line for me
Never done it, and dont want to swim in that pool

As so many have said already, your instincts are right, your emotions are wrong

And as others have suggested - get out of her life for a few weeks, and watch how quickly you will be replaced by another "admirer"

Your fun times are shallow pleasure, but interesting pleasure nonetheless, so its easy to see how you can get hooked

But its time to get off the daily bustrip to Party Central, and make it a monthly bustrip instead, and watch how quickly you are replaced, is my humble suggestion

And its easy to see who will replace you - she just has to respond to one of her many admirers who are also sms-ing her regularly
She will take 5 seconds to send that SMS to get a new "best friend", and do it without blinking, on a whim, when you are not with her
A few of these guys smsing her will bring her a new substance to try, and so the descent continues, regardless of your best intentions or wishes for the lady

I think you already know, that you need to be by her side frequently, otherwise she will easily find another partymate to enjoy the cheap $100 an hour enjoyment, and so part of your addiction is not wanting to lose her

But what you will lose, which is a good thing, is the descent to dangerous places

Gucci2012, we all know you are a good man, and whatever choice you make, we support you

[iphone5]

These are very true words written by wise brothers
"You are a customer, not her boyfriend. She might like you more than others, but you still a customer"
"IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER"

Reality check: the line was crossed once drugs entered the equation
The risk is that you are addicted not just to the cheap sex, but the whole lifestyle

I have a girlfriend this year who wants me to source and try something on the seamy side, lets just say its not legal substance.
She is a good lady, with a respectable job in the government sector, she just wants to try something new
I toyed with the idea with her, but always in my mind the answer is a definite NO.
No way do I want to slide down that particular slippery slide to who knows where
And that would have been unlimited fun with a girlfriend, so no cost apart from the substance
Taking substance is never attractive to me
Life is enjoyable enough enjoy the pure pleasures nature already provides. No need to upsell to try to touch the stars

As so many have said already, your instincts are right, your emotions are wrong

And as others have suggested - get out of her life for a few weeks, and watch how quickly you will be replaced by another "admirer"

Its shallow pleasure, but interesting pleasure nonetheless

Its time to get off the daily bustrip to Party Central, and make it a monthly bustrip instead, and watch how quickly you are replaced, is my humble suggestion

I think you already know, that you need to be by her side frequently, otherwise she will easily find another partymate to enjoy the cheap $100 an hour enjoyment, and so part of your addiction is not wanting to lose her

But what you will lose, which is a good thing, is the descent to dangerous places

#enoughsaid

Next fantasy story please

[SmilingGiraffe]

Lol just trying to help a brother seeing as how your poetry thread is subjugated to the netherworld where its only chance of reemerging to the front is another member making a comment or you yourself bumping to the front.

OD??? Dude I'm talking about things im experiencing and that everyday punters on this forum can relate to, not things you see in movies or in the news. Your context is highly exaggerated unless your that Indian neurological surgeon who's wl's od in his apartment from cocaine... but then again he isn't an everyday punter on this forum.

Many folk these days are pre-occupied with demonstrating how strong their libido or sex drive is, i.e showing off their appetites so to speak.
Yet, I can assure that many a poet, including myself, have experienced a lot more than you - we have a greater breadth and depth of experience,
both humanist and sexual, which inspires, and is inspired by, the values & motivations of the poet. "Don't be telling your grandma how to suck eggs."
But good luck to you with your dilemma, as I said, the sensual aspects of the sex industry/netherworld can be quite seductive.

What did you think of my poem, by the way? The next one, a love oriented/semi-erotic piece, is coming on Saturday.

[CunningLinguist]

Many folk these days are pre-occupied with demonstrating how strong their libido or sex drive is, i.e showing off their appetites so to speak.
Yet, I can assure that many a poet, including myself, have experienced a lot more than you - we have a greater breadth and depth of experience,
both humanist and sexual, which inspires, and is inspired by, the values & motivations of the poet. "Don't be telling your grandma how to suck eggs."
But good luck to you with your dilemma, as I said, the sensual aspects of the sex industry/netherworld can be quite seductive.

What did you think of my poem, by the way? The next one, a love oriented/semi-erotic piece, is coming on Saturday.

This is what the troll said in plain english:
"I am better than you Gucci, and you are a try hard"
"Please comment on my poem I am desperate for anyone to comment as my self-worth is hanging on it"

[SmilingGiraffe]

This is what the troll said in plain english:
"I am better than you Gucci, and you are a try hard"
"Please comment on my poem I am desperate for anyone to comment as my self-worth is hanging on it"

Why are you still fixated on me CL - by all accounts you think I'm a talentless poet with low self esteem?
I'm hardly someone worth getting your knick knacks in a twist over, but you do keep at it don't you. Perhaps you
have very little else to do.......uhm, yes!

[wilisno]

Why are you still fixated on me CL - by all accounts you think I'm a talentless poet with low self esteem?
I'm hardly someone worth getting your knick knacks in a twist over, but you do keep at it don't you. Perhaps you
have very little else to do.......uhm, yes!

You should be very happy that CL replied to your posts, because attention is what you are seeking !

[Gucci2012]

Bro Gucci2012 the easiest way out in the world with any of these girls if you want an out that is, is to say you lost your job and don't have any money anymore. You'll be but a quickly fading memory to her in no time.

If you want to keep doing it, why not but just take it for what it is as being cheap sex nothing more. I am sure boredom will set in before too long and other girls will suddenly become not just attractive but too appealing to turn down. Good luck with it and you already know a girl that will appeal to you Bro!!!

Lulu and those E's look good right about now.

[CunningLinguist]

You should be very happy that CL replied to your posts, because attention is what you are seeking !

Any publicity is good publicity, he didn't realise it but I did him a favour!

[brotherfrancisofassisi]

Tell her the truth as you see it. Maybe it will upset her but it is your truth.

I'd say copious illicit drugs, gambling and selling your body for money has gotta be one of the worst combination choices in life. Though there are some high functioning drug addicts/alcoholics around - I am always amazed at that.

Hell if a guy or a girl is addicted to drugs even that is a high hurdle to jump. Can't imagine lumping that in with the rest.

Or maybe I am just a pussy really.

[BBBJ]

Ok Gooch,
My two cents (perspective):- You are lonely and take drugs.... and punt.....PROS. You and her have the same traits. 3 from 3 just like her. Punting is just a more agonising loss, but a loss just the same.
Forget her for now.... how are you going to get yourself out of it.... So you don't hurt your own feelings?

[Gucci2012]

Wow!!! did I miss something? So many scalps taken. RIP: greybeard, iphone5, smilingGiraffe.

[Gucci2012]

Ok Gooch,
My two cents (perspective):- You are lonely and take drugs.... and punt.....PROS. You and her have the same traits. 3 from 3 just like her. Punting is just a more agonising loss, but a loss just the same.
Forget her for now.... how are you going to get yourself out of it.... So you don't hurt your own feelings?

Lonely: no, I'm a social butterfly. Bored: yes. Curious: yes. She was offering something completely new that all my years punting have never had offered. Take drugs: no, that was her thing, i just went along for the ride, I'm more of once every 6 months, not a daily thing which is what she was doing. Punt: YES!! I love it. Feelings: yes I have them and I hate it, especially Guilt.

[Gucci2012]

#enoughsaid

Next fantasy story please

#enoughsaid

Next username please

[Gucci2012]

These are very true words written by wise brothers
"You are a customer, not her boyfriend. She might like you more than others, but you still a customer"
"IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER"

Reality check: the line was crossed once drugs entered the equation
The risk is that you are addicted not just to the cheap sex, but the whole lifestyle

I have a girlfriend this year who wants me to source and try something on the seamy side, lets just say its not legal substance.
She is a good lady, with a respectable job in the government sector, she just wants to try something new
I toyed with the idea with her, but always in my mind the answer is a definite NO.
No way do I want to slide down that particular slippery slide to who knows where
And that would have been unlimited fun with a girlfriend, so no cost apart from the substance
Taking substance is never attractive to me
Life is already wonderful with the pure pleasures that nature already provides. No need to upsell to try to touch the stars, with fake substances IMHO
Of course alcohol is from nature, so is acceptable to me
But products from a chemistry lab is crossing the line for me
Never done it, and dont want to swim in that pool

As so many have said already, your instincts are right, your emotions are wrong

And as others have suggested - get out of her life for a few weeks, and watch how quickly you will be replaced by another "admirer"

Your fun times are shallow pleasure, but interesting pleasure nonetheless, so its easy to see how you can get hooked

But its time to get off the daily bustrip to Party Central, and make it a monthly bustrip instead, and watch how quickly you are replaced, is my humble suggestion

And its easy to see who will replace you - she just has to respond to one of her many admirers who are also sms-ing her regularly
She will take 5 seconds to send that SMS to get a new "best friend", and do it without blinking, on a whim, when you are not with her
A few of these guys smsing her will bring her a new substance to try, and so the descent continues, regardless of your best intentions or wishes for the lady

I think you already know, that you need to be by her side frequently, otherwise she will easily find another partymate to enjoy the cheap $100 an hour enjoyment, and so part of your addiction is not wanting to lose her

But what you will lose, which is a good thing, is the descent to dangerous places

Gucci2012, we all know you are a good man, and whatever choice you make, we support you

Lol i dont think you read my original post, no where in my posts did I say I wanted to save her from her situation or be her boyfriend. I have done numerous punts over the years(I have done numerous AR's to match) so I know my place as a customer I've never had any other illusion of what the situation really is. As for the drugs, I am accustom to it and been in and around it my whole life. My sacks didn't shrivel up and I didn't get nervous the first time she mentioned drugs I just went with it so I could live in the moment.

My point is that I had a good time and now I want out but I want an out that doesn't hurt her or me. I'm not worried about being replaced she has loads of wanna be boyfriends...She let me message them on her behalf.

If I was addicted to cheap sex all my AR's would be about 12 Bellevue and not Ginza, MyOutcall, 647, Bluemoon. I am addicted to this specific situation. Cheap price, cbd location, no rush, good service, beautiful-funny-smart girl, easy booking system, element of danger, new experience etc...

I know I'm a customer I wear my customer hat proudly.

[Yakesoba]

When people post these 'what should i do?' stories on this forum, which usually involves: hot women, free/cheap sex, and then the usual drama about the lady's emotional instability/family situation/personal habits etc, I automatically conclude that the thread is only an excuse to fish for approval or make them feel better about themselves.

I wonder if I m the only one on the forum who has this thinking ??

[AHLUNGOR]

These are very true words written by wise brothers
"You are a customer, not her boyfriend. She might like you more than others, but you still a customer"
"IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER"

Reality check: the line was crossed once drugs entered the equation
The risk is that you are addicted not just to the cheap sex, but the whole lifestyle

I have a girlfriend this year who wants me to source and try something on the seamy side, lets just say its not legal substance.
She is a good lady, with a respectable job in the government sector, she just wants to try something new
I toyed with the idea with her, but always in my mind the answer is a definite NO.
No way do I want to slide down that particular slippery slide to who knows where
And that would have been unlimited fun with a girlfriend, so no cost apart from the substance
Taking substance is never attractive to me
Life is already wonderful with the pure pleasures that nature already provides. No need to upsell to try to touch the stars, with fake substances IMHO
Of course alcohol is from nature, so is acceptable to me
But products from a chemistry lab is crossing the line for me
Never done it, and dont want to swim in that pool

As so many have said already, your instincts are right, your emotions are wrong

And as others have suggested - get out of her life for a few weeks, and watch how quickly you will be replaced by another "admirer"

Your fun times are shallow pleasure, but interesting pleasure nonetheless, so its easy to see how you can get hooked

But its time to get off the daily bustrip to Party Central, and make it a monthly bustrip instead, and watch how quickly you are replaced, is my humble suggestion

And its easy to see who will replace you - she just has to respond to one of her many admirers who are also sms-ing her regularly
She will take 5 seconds to send that SMS to get a new "best friend", and do it without blinking, on a whim, when you are not with her
A few of these guys smsing her will bring her a new substance to try, and so the descent continues, regardless of your best intentions or wishes for the lady

I think you already know, that you need to be by her side frequently, otherwise she will easily find another partymate to enjoy the cheap $100 an hour enjoyment, and so part of your addiction is not wanting to lose her

But what you will lose, which is a good thing, is the descent to dangerous places

Gucci2012, we all know you are a good man, and whatever choice you make, we support you

Hi brother Harmony,


First of all, you are in good form mate !

Secondly, still waiting for that first review of yours ! Btw it doesn't have to be a punting experience , happy to read about your romantic encounter with your girl friend too !


In regards to your post about sex and drugs, I like to share one famous movie line with you:

In Basic Instinct when Katherine first met Nick , Sharon Stone asked Michael Douglas :

Have you ever fucked in cocaine ??


Now try to answer that !

[waynekerr]

The hallmark of a troll, numerous posts and no review.

WayneK.

[Shamy]

Yes I agree. Just leave the country or go on a holiday