Quote Originally Posted by rage_face View Post
I agree that this may have happened in my case. However, I would like to think that if the roles were reversed, and I realised that I no longer was interested in the girl, I would cut off contact and not give her false hope. In my case the girl kept coming out with me which gave me false hope.
well, that's the thing, in my opinion it is precisely because this girl's feeling can change over time that, unlike those of us who think in black & white terms ("Yes, I'm interested so I'll keep pursuing", or "No, I'm not interested so I'll stop all contact with her"), she may have stayed in the picture in order to see what else she liked about you.

Harmony: yes, having money and a direction in life helps, but just as that is no guarantee being rich and/or successful would mean your wife will never divorce you, it goes to show that relationships are "alive", and require constant work to keep healthy. Besides, I'm sure we all know girls who would actually be turned off by someone in a showy car!