ROMILLY
Should we vote?
COOPER
If we’re going to vote, there’s
something you need to know. Brand?
~~She says nothing~~
He has a right to know.
BRAND
That has nothing to do with it.
ROMILLY
What does?
COOPER
She’s in love with Wolf Edmunds.
ROMILLY
(to Brand)
Is that true?
BRAND
Yes. And that makes me want to
follow my heart. But maybe we’ve
spent too long trying to figure all
this with theory -
COOPER
You’re a scientist, Brand -
BRAND
I am. So listen to me when I tell
you that love isn’t something we
invented - it’s observable,
powerful. Why shouldn’t it mean
something?
COOPER
It means social utility - child
rearing, social bonding -
BRAND
We love people who’ve died ...
where’s the social utility in that?
Maybe it means more - something we
can’t understand, yet. Maybe it’s
some evidence, some artifact of
higher dimensions that we can’t
consciously perceive. I’m drawn
across the universe to someone I
haven’t seen for a decade, who I
know is probably dead. Love is the
one thing we’re capable of
perceiving that transcends
dimensions of time and space. Maybe
we should trust that, even if we
can’t yet understand it.
Great scene from the movie Interstellar. There are two kinds of love to me one is chemical (Oxytocin?).
The reaction in your brain that makes you feel a certain way for members of the opposite sex the whole "fell in love" scenario.
Which eventually fades out and if you don't have any kind of friendship to back it up you are looking at a breakup or divorce.

Then you have the intellectual or romantic kind of love which is idealistic.
Men are the much more romantic sex and most of the time try to project or impose their ideal of love onto women and that is why many fail in that area.

They call it the mating game for a reason. You can't trick girls into genuinely liking you either they do or they don't and A LOT of that is based on genetics or more specifically your looks. Women do seem to favour certain behaviour highly but don't come at me with the whole "looks don't matter at all".

I think a lot of people take it too personally when a girl doesn't like them. I used to be that way until I realized a thing called "NEXT". I see so many girls I'm attracted to every single day.. and the first thing I think of is what would they look like naked and how good it would be to fuck them. A mans mind is always attuned to this, well mine is at least.. always scanning sometimes you aren't even actively thinking about it half the time, you are just checking hot girls out as a matter of fact, your eyes are just there it's like a automatic response.

I enjoy my time with women (some refer to them as WL's) tremendously. I don't wish to possess or have any of them exclusively. You could say I love them even when I'm here at my keyboard, though there isn't that feeling of being deeply in love. I remember writing in one of my earlier AR's that Kiki is a gift to be shared and I still stand by that and nearly every other girl I've seen at Ginza and other shops. I'm not sure most punters would feel that way about their favourite girls which is why many don't post after reports. I don't harbour any illusions about WL's liking me but while you are both together in that moment be it over 30, 45, 60 minutes. Not much else really matters.

If you love a flower, don’t pick it up.
Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love.
So if you love a flower, let it be.
Love is not about possession.
Love is about appreciation.”
-Osho
I have a video also:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTqRY67VVys&t=140

Watch that starting from until 4:54