Quote Originally Posted by garfield View Post
I check for several criteria:
1. First I would have established some good chemistry and happy to go out with her
2. I would have gotten indication already if she would be interested to meet up outside, first check if she is interested to text with you. Girls who just want you as a customer may text with you to get business but they won't be interested to text you just for friendship. Check her interest, what type of food, etc. Tell her how good the food was in certain restaurant, suggest she should try, etc.
3. Make the date sounds like a lot of fun so she can't resist, and that it would be worth her while.
4. Find out if she has a boyfriend or partner and what might be her boundary. Doesn't really matter but helps to know if girl would be interested or not, or whether the date needs to be more discreet for her, etc.
5. Don't seal the deal, like agree to have sex. It can be a turnoff, keeping t he mystery alive and excitement of unknown is much better. If she goes out with you, you can be pretty sure of the ending if you prepare well.
6. Once she agrees to go out, plan for the date, make it as romantic as possible.
7. A nice dinner to set the mood, followed by some romantic walk is good. Go to clubs or bars to have a few drinks. Make sure you have a program to make her stay late.
8. Ask her to come to your place whether it's your flat or hotel it's up to you to pre-arrange, but tell her you have a surprise for her. Usually I prepare some small gift, don't have to be expensive, but just an excuse to bring her to your place, second to set the mood for some intimate moments.
9. It's been a nice date, she feels good about you. Night is getting late, and what happens next is quite natural.
Isn't this same tip as for any chick you are trying to chase