I’ve had my fair share of experience dating ML’s. I’m certainly not a ML ‘sniper’ (haha this made me laugh) and don’t look to exclusively date or ‘hunt’ ML as such but over the past six or seven years I’ve had relationships with three ML’s, all Thai. My main reason for going to massage joints is due to a lack of time. Visiting a ML is relaxing and an easy way to get your rocks off so for me it’s a hell of a lot easier and time efficient than playing around with Tinder, visiting other online websites or hanging out in bars.

The first ML I dated was Natalie from Oasis (also Leichardt/Artarmon). We dated for about four months before I discovered sites like this and realised she was sucking/fucking every second customer she saw. I decided then that I’d just use the situation purely for sex (which was incredible), this lasted for about another two months. I then became aware that she was also using me and her sole motive was to find herself an Aussie bf so she could obtain a permanent visa and this was confirmed when she started to arrange for me to meet her family, was taking loads of photos and then wanted us to set up a joint bank account, all for Immigration purposes. When it got to this point I finally broke it off.

The second ML I dated was also from Oasis and was named Lisa. Lisa was middle aged, for a ML, had a fair amount of money saved so was working in a massage joint for a bit of spare cash but also the fun/exhilaration of it. She didn’t last long in the business maybe only five or six months. We started seeing each other and ended up having a casual sexual relationship for about a year and half. Lisa was an amazing girl to hang out, she became a great mate who just happen to also let me fuck her, it was the perfect situation for the both of us at the time. I miss those days. She went back to Thailand for a year and we meet up briefly for a drink when she came back but I was dating another girl by then.

The third ML I dated is still in the business so for privacy reasons I won’t reveal her parlour or name but she often gets mentioned on this forum. She was a lovely girl, really sweet in nature and came out to Australia following her siblings and due to her limited English skills and need to support the rest of her family back home became a ML. We dated for almost a year and appeared to be in love or at least I was. I’ve previously posted about the way it ended, which wasn’t good but at the time this is the girl I thought I could see myself having a future with.

I guess what I have taken away from these experience is that every ML is in the business for different reasons just like I’m sure there are many different reasons and circumstances as to why we visit rub and tugs in the first place. If you are going to date a ML my advice is to make sure you know what you want out of the relationship and make it crystal clear to the girl upfront. She may then tell you it’s not what she wants and ends it but you will avoid a lot of hassle down the road. It’s standard advice really. You also have to be comfortable with the fact that the girl makes her money getting guys off, with her being naked and felt up most of the time!

Apologies for the long post, feels good to tell my experiences though...