I was thinking more of the WLs rather than MLs ahlungor, but yes language may be one of the factors for such a use. I came across such MLs and went back since as you say the massage was really good.
That being said, I can only talk of my experience with MLs which results in my conclusion aboveI have come across those darling/honey WLs who say yes to your questions as in "yes darling", "yes i offer that honey" etc and then in the room suddenly start saying no no no etc. very very annoying..
I take the honey/darling use as more of a signal of how professional rather than amateur the WL is. I prefer amateurs, as professionals are also professional at many other things that include time wasting etc..![]()