Quote Originally Posted by flamejob View Post
I think you do need to be careful because there are certainly scams that are built on this. You could try to build a relationship that's not just sexual. see how she is just talking general shit - still enjoy the sex if it's on offer, lol. Sex is always a good lure of course. the one i spoke with also wanted me to visit and in fact, to marry her. she seemed genuine and was able to chat about stuff other than just sex. also maybe test her patience. if she is still there in 6 months maybe there is more chance she is genuine. the girl i knew would often call me out of the blue just to say hi, even 12 months after we first met. i don't think you can ever truly prove their motives without actually meeting them though so i guess it comes down to how trusting you are.
Thanks Flamejob, appreciate your advise.
Yes, we normally talk other general shit, but often conclude talking sex things lol. She seem genuine but i won't rush. I spoke to her on phone too, but i will hold back. Marriage me be on her mind, thats possible. However she has expressed she wants safe sex.