Quote Originally Posted by Milhouse View Post
I would like to believe this but 1) I think if someone really liked you they would go out with you no matter if it's after work or not, and 2) this was the second time I asked, so if she had really changed her mind about me after the first time she would've been eager to accept.

Guess she was just after attention after all.
If you do believe it, that is your downfall. The girl is tired, she has probably had dozens of patrons chatting her up, you are just another one with the same dumb approach. The last thing she wants is to have to be nice to some guy she thinks just wants to bed her after a cup of coffee.

She doesn't want to go with you, so it seems to me she doesn't really like you.

Turning up with obvious WLs just reinforces her opinion of you.

Time to move on.