Reply With QuoteCan be both mang no think so much just don't smoke her crack pipe if she offer u be right else u gona run up a drug habit
[QUOTE=whoiam;835995]In that case, yes, I'd say she wants to be your friend. Why else would she invite you?Originally Posted by Alan86
In simplistic terms, generally:
If you are middle aged and have nothing in common with her - she sees you as a punter
If you are young and or/ have things in common with her/ can connect with her - she sees you as a punter / friend
If you are young and or/ have things in common with her / can connect with her , and she sees you outside the shop - she sees you as a friend ( if also inside the shop then punter / friend)
If you are young and and or / have things in common with her / can connect with her , and are handsome / attractive otherwise - she sees you as a friend with benefits / sexual partner / punter (if also in the shop)
This is in simplistic terms what I would think would generally apply.
Of course, only a ML etc could truly answer this question
Can be both mang no think so much just don't smoke her crack pipe if she offer u be right else u gona run up a drug habit
I would call it more of an acquaintance
definition: a person one knows slightly, but who is not a close friend.
I agree with most of your post but could you really handle knowing that your SO had fucked 500-5000+ other guys?
...but yes we are almost always just customers.
A friend of mine has had relationships with a couple of WL's. He is married and it has complicated his life immensely. He is reasonably well off and the WL's he has these relationships with are at the end of their career so to speak. There has to be some ulterior motive in these WL'S actions. He plays along with it and gets the benefits of BBFS (if you consider that a benefit)...he gets a few freebies here and there and has even got gifts from WL'S for his birthday.
We both visit the same shop. We were working together one Saturday. I had arrived at work and got a call from him from the shop saying he will be late because he had extended with th WL. He called me from the room and i could here her giggling in the background. I said 'say hi to xxx for me'. He showed up later on and was showing me a whatsapp chat he was having with her. She had told the WL i had been visiting what happened and she wanted my number. I passed it on and not long after i had got a message from her saying 'hi i am xxx remeber me? When you come see me'.
I have been pretty much been punting with her since. I have seen 2 other WL's in that time, one was in Melbourne. Whilst we do know a bit about each other on a personal level, she is really only treating me as a regular customer. She is really only interested in when I am coming to see her next. I like her service but now i have seen her 7 or 8 times the excitment is waning a little. It is time to move on and find another WL.
In response to the Ops initial question 'are we friends or customers' i say we are customers first. We may get to a level of friendship of sorts but do you really want that from the WL you are seeing? It can complicate your life even more than just hiding a puntimg habit and if it does go to the next level with a WL, what are they seeking from the arrangement?
Anyone ever got a contact from a WL and was told to not see her in the shop but you hang out outside of the shop?
Recently, I came across two WLs in the city. I have seen both girls a few times because they were always friendly and chatty during our sessions. Guess what? They ignored me! To answer the question again. We are CUSTOMERS and not friends !!!!!!!!!!!!!
She offers to pay and does pay for her drinks or my food. Even offered to pay for my taxi/uber home lol.
Lucky you!
Many WLs will outright ignore customers when they see them in the street. They are very scared that you will mention the shop and others will find out their secret.
In my case, both girls were from the same shop and knew each other. No secret between them. LOL
It's their standard MO, don't take it personally. If they were to start talking to you, you might mention the shop, and a passer by might overhear, whom They know.
Once I saw a ML in the street, and the next day I visited her shop and booked her in for a session. I told her I'd seen her, and she said I should have come over and said hello! That was odd.
Although I was thinking of this topic today. A shop owner always acts like a friend to me. He then asked if I was married, and I told him no, cause I'd give up punting after marriage. He then tried to convince me that punting was good to keep my marriage healthy! Not sure how much of a friend he was if he was trying to give me the wrong advices which would suit his business?? Or did he really believe that??
I still chat with one of the MLs I met a few years ago. She drove me crazy in bed... afterwards she returned to China then came back (has citizenship here). We don't fuck anymore but chat every few days, she's genuinely a friend now. Of course I'd still bang her at the drop of a hat but I wouldn't even ask now lol. She was one of those girls who'd get really really wet when getting her nipples licked. At the time she worked she wouldn't fuck in the shop (even though the other girls there were doing it) no matter how wet I got her, but I got to pay extra and visit her overnight a few times, get BBFS for a few mins then she'd want the condom put on which I went with. But she was so easy to get over the line, every time it would only take a few mins to make her cum once or twice while making love.
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