That's easy.... Make her a deal she can't refuse. Probably have to handle the logistics yourself, but that should only make the fruit of your labor all the sweeter!Quote:
Originally Posted by imaragingbull
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That's easy.... Make her a deal she can't refuse. Probably have to handle the logistics yourself, but that should only make the fruit of your labor all the sweeter!Quote:
Originally Posted by imaragingbull
never given this any thought .. never quit never back down
Yes, but if you moved to a country which restricted your usual habits!Quote:
Originally Posted by doyouseewhatisee
Anyway, I'd like to think I keep up to date with Sydney's happenings with no temptation in the new city.
Monday & Tuesday should be a good finale regardless!
Don't think I'll overnight a ML session, 5hr part 1?
Which country ??
USA, Mr DDs!Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
At the end of May this year you mentioned in the overseas threads that you're moving to HK... Did that fall through or did you end up going? and you're moving to the USA now?Quote:
Originally Posted by imaragingbull
That's unfortunate as HK sounds like a punter's dream...
But punting in the US is not that troublesome, it may take a bit of extra effort but if you get the urge, nothing is too much trouble... LOL
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Originally Posted by imaragingbull
Ok, that's a different story, but not impossible !
I would imagine you are not going to California or Vegas as those places are not lack of punting opportunities, so which State are you heading if you don't mind sharing ?
New York.
In my mind, I'm done with it. Sydney was great to me, followed some trusted brother's tips and advice.
Last ML session was lacklustre, but maybe that's what I needed when going overseas.
Yes, I was looking likely to go to HK, but an opportunity can up in New York which I eventually took. Looking forward to it - guess I better just get used to the eye candy instead of the punting.
Thank you all - this is pretty much the raging bull signing off!
Thanks AHL - keep on doing what you do
Is That Johnny Farnham
New York City should be a reasonable punting ground - ain't cheap of course!
I've been to New York many years ago on business just a few days, the Chinatown over there was huge, along Canal St just off Broadway, pretty sure I saw some massage signages back then in Chinese. It's one of those older style Chinatown where Cantonese seemed to be the main language, probably overtaken by MLC by now but if I were you, I will definitely check out the local scene if I'm relocating there .
Good luck , farewell and all the best
Cheers
There are lots of punting/escort websites for NYC...
Just be prepared for the girl to 'screen' you (to make sure you're not a cop) when you book her.
Apparently this is how it works... A 'gratuity' as agreed is left in an envelope on the table and is for 'companionship' only.
What happens between consenting adults is not part of the companionship fee (apparently). LOL
Come to think of it... maybe this is a whole lot of trouble compared to sydney...
You should've stuck with HK mate!!! LOL
Wherever you go, there will be places that you can continue to punt but not on the same scale as in Sydney. As for HK, it appears to be a punter's playground with many girls from Indonesia, Philippines, China and other Asian countries looking to make extra money or to go out with guys.Quote:
Originally Posted by cato
Can guys give up punting permanently? It would be extremely difficult for many because once you have punted during your life, the temptation to give up punting is to difficult to follow through when you have an abundant supply of young Asian girls from overseas studying or working here. In addition, if we didn't have smartphones that provide easy access to sites like Aus99 or Wechat then the urge to checkout shop rosters, read ARs or girls' advertisements would not occur. On the other hand, if we kicked the punting habit out of our lives, we could save a considerable amount of money and put it towards the purchase of a motor vehicle, holidays or expensive designer label goods such as watches, suits or electrical equipment. In the end, there are pros and cons with respect to punting.:cool2:
I think it's not exactly a habit to give up.Quote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
To me it's cost. Punting is infinitely cheaper than trying to "game" / "seduce" girls.
Once gaming girls become on equal dollar value as punting then sign me up to dating girls lol.
Right now any guy with a brain can figure out that punting is the most rewarding thing to do compared to "gaming" girls.
What is all the money in the world and all material possessions worth without lots and lots of sex??Quote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
Some prefer the thrill of the chase and the validational aspect opposed to purely transactional nature of prostitution.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pussyhands
Though I even fool myself sometimes because the usually girls I see aren't 'professional sex workers' most are 'normal girls' on a working holiday.
I would consider myself sex addicted. Sometimes I don't even know why I'm punting but men have an inbuilt sex addiction or predilection if you will.
It all depends on the means of the guy we are talking about. Think Charlie Sheen. You give any punter the amount of money Charlie Sheen was making prime Two and a Half Men, he will probably end up fucking himself to death.
I've never really been one to date girls for the past few years it's primarily been punting as the patience to meet girls, date and eventually have sex just hasn't been there.
I'm at the point now where casual sex with young cute girls is still pleasurable OF COURSE... but ultimately quite unfulfilling.
I'm sure many punters are proud of their exploits having had sex with 100+ different girls.
For me it's neither, it is what it is. Where to go from here...
U know my record was 3 girls in 5 days or so and at the end I swore I could not see another girl for some time. Of cause the urge came back in 3-5 days.
I think guys balls just keeps making the sperm so u have to bust a nut.
I think if u take the concept of punting out of it and imagine urself as a sultan with unlimited girls everyday - any normal guy would be fking like crazy.
I see sex addiction as something that is destroying ur life. Ur not paying ur bills, ur having very risky sex, your basically killing urself from the kind of sex ur having (eating bread and water only, stealing money to go punting - think someone addicted to meth and what they are doing to get high and put sex instead).
I dunno if ur addicted but yeah it's a very strong condition to have....
Maybe u want more than just sex... If it's unfulfilling..
Where to go? Brother u got some soul searching to do only u can answer.
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Originally Posted by illidanstormrage
I think it all depends on what sex means to each and every individual... And that can be world's apart!
But people having casual sex and punting should be careful if they're looking for fulfilment or emotional connections.
That can cause more problems than it could possibly solve.
And why taint a perfectly enjoyable experience by looking for things that such a transaction wasn't really designed to deliver...
But as they say... "fair minds may differ"...
The point was once you've slept with a lot of different women (paid for or not). Having sex with women isn't the biggest priority or the definitive thing anymore.
I know of guys who have kids or are in relationships that still punt because that is what men do... every healthy man wants to have sex at the very least once a week.
If his wife or partner isn't putting out then he's going to get that need met elsewhere if he has the means or options to do so. A lot of men don't, so they end up having a sexless marriage and certainly resent that fact.
I know there is much to said about looking for love in the wrong places. I'm guilty of that. Everyone is different I guess.
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No matter his moral code, a man’s biological drive to sow his seed widely still operates. Men with low notch-counts or low quality girls will never stop feeling that pull towards more/better. Considerable mental energy is put into suppressing this drive and rationalising it away (which is probably a good thing for civilisation). Rollo calls it “making a virtue out of scarcity”. When a player has 100+ YHT notches, this drive is mostly satiated. Just as a man is usually exceptionally clear headed in the ten minutes after sex, a 100+ player is equally clear headed day to day. His ego is already satisfied regarding winning the tingles, so he can see them for what they are – completely unrelated to virtue.
You make very good points. I think today's society women hold on the sex power like a Congo warlord. Total abuse of power. Hence why brothels are booming.Quote:
Originally Posted by illidanstormrage
Brothel is a silent equaliser and I am proud to be a part of it.
I've recently turned 23 and after an infrequent punting "career" ,that has cost me around $6500 since New Year's Eve 2015, I think I'm going to call it quits. Amongst many reasons there's just too much emptiness at the end of every session which leaves me depressed. I stupidly decided to share these feelings to two service providers who I frequented somewhat regularly who have now unsurprisingly decided to blacklist me. That was probably the straw that broke the camel's back for me.
You probably talked too much and made them depressed too ! ;) ;) ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by fjfan
Young man, not sure about your emotional state but feeling down and empty after being with WL or ML is not what its all about.Is it you are after a true girlfriend to connect with personally,if so you won't get it throughQuote:
Originally Posted by fjfan
paid services.....good luck and cheer up bro
How can they ban u unless you done something wrong ? Go to tinder and get some dates with normal girls
I read Allen carrs 'easy way to quit gambling' a few months ago and surprisingly it worked, but too well. I went completely clean from gambling because the book changed my mindset and I saw it for what it was, a dirty addictive habit with no fun at all.
Funny thing was my punting urges mostly disappeared as well. I realised I had a sex addiction which was a coping mechanism for stress or mild anxiety/depression. I've had one HJ and one fuck in 3 months which is a record low. The desire is just not there anymore.
As another brother noted I've had sex with enough women in my life that that part of my ego is satiated. It just doesn't do it for me anymore. Can move on to have time and money for more virtuous pursuits.
The triggers are still there which is why I came here to post but the impulse to act on the trigger is greatly diminished.