I would say sometimes a BBBJ, contact or a kiss will give you herpes so it's a hit and miss when you punt
Printable View
I would say sometimes a BBBJ, contact or a kiss will give you herpes so it's a hit and miss when you punt
...BBBJ and DATY are definitly not the same risk as catching genital herpes as vaginal and penile contact. The risk is much lower transmission that way. There are two strains of the virus, HSV-1 and HSV-2. HSV-2 has historically be more predominate in genital herpes and is more aggressive in that regard being transmitted "down there".
Although herpes is obviously very annoying and can be very painful/embarassing, it is definitely not the worst STI. Yes you have it forever, but other then the symptomatic blisters it causes...it really doesn't kill you or do much else. Unlike alot of the other ones that well...can kill you or cause infertility.
As well herpes does not present with urethritis, that is more classically presented in STIs like gonorrhea and chlamydia. Like many have said, you need to relax and get tested. Once you get confirmation results, you can decide on the next steps appropriately. Getting random scares or reassurances from strangers on the internet won't help.
On the pussy slide comment, herpes is best transmitted via direct contact with an active infection (a visible blister). So yes, it is high risk if you decide to pussy slide with a girl who's got active herpes.
Get a test and see what you can do from there
pussy slide best done wearing a condom
maybe your gf is a WL?
or is your name Quagmire?
In terms of Herpes, soldier76 is actually correct. BBBJ can pass on herpes. This is the same as gonorrhea.
I’m no angel but always do a quick check via visual inspection before doing anything with a WL (make sure they have no cold sores, spots on pussy, weird smells etc).
Here is a link - http://www.abc.net.au/news/health/2016-09-16/cold-sores-and-genital-herpes/7537050
Amusing, but actually I have postgraduate qualifications (PhD) in biochemistry and molecular biology, and I'm much, much smarter than you. Try doing some background reading before assuming someone is stupid. You risk... looking stupid.
BBBJ/DATY are just as risky as BBFS for STD transmission for most intents and purposes for most STDs, and that's why sex health clinics advocate condoms and dams for everything. The reason why people aren't breaking out with STDs left/right and centre is that STDs are quite rare, approx 300 new cases reported each year per 10K people for the most common STDs (Chlamydia & Gonohorrea). Mouthwash may reduce the chance slightly but mouthwashes are 1) ineffective versus viruses, and 2) not actually very effective at killing bacteria either as the anti-bacterial agent is usually a quaternary ammonium-based antibiotic and most bacteria have long since become resistant to QACs.
If you are positive for HSV-1 and have no symptoms, the blood test result does not tell you whether you've got it in your mouth or gentiles. Most people got HSV-1 on the mouth, I think around 60% - 70% percent, they get it during childhood when being kissed by an adult or so, but not many have outbreaks.
If you did DATY with your girlfriend previously, you can say that you might have had a small cold sore at that time and didn't bother, it might of got transmitted that way to your girlfriend vagina.
I think this is the best excuse for you
Also, not everyone who contacts with Herps have an outbreak straight away, it might be possible that you or your girlfriend had it for months and years and just something triggered the outbreak recently, such as taking antibiotics or immune got weaken etc..
And, not everyones symptoms is the same, some peoples symptoms are very mild unnoticeable
Yea...BBBJ and DATY are definitely not the same risk. HSV-1 and HSV-2 are the ones that are going to give you genital herpes. Yea we can sit here and talk about the other strains like HHV8, but that doesn't give you genital herpes does it?
You are correct, traditionally HSV-1 presents in the mouth/lips but now the prevlance is roughly 50/50 on the lips/mouth and genitals between HSV-1/HSV-2 as oral sex has become such a common occurrence. In fact, most adolescents begin with oral sex before any penetrative sex.
You just be crazy if you think BBBJ/DATY has the same transmission risk for most STDs. That is...absolutely ridiculious. Certain STDs like herpes and pubic lice does have higher transmission rates but other STDs like HIV and gonorrhea have a much lower risk. Infact the transmission rate of HIV through recieving oral sex as a man is quite a confrontational subject, some studies shown such a low transmission rate, almost neligible (as noted by the CDC). Gonorrhea also yes can be transmisted by mouth but the rate is in the low single digits while female to male transmission of BBFS is about 40% per event.
While we're throwing around degrees, I guess I have an MD and I'm practicing
Ok so most of us love BBBJ I'm sure. Whats the likelihood of contracting any STD? Do you have statistics for different types of STDs transmitted via BBBJ from mouth to penis?
I ask because it is quite a serious topic and it seems to me that you know quite a bit :)
It's not hard to google some statistics on prevalence and transmission rate of different types of STDs. In general the risks of BBBJ are quite low, pharnygeal gonorrhea is amongst heterosexual interactions are quite low, and the transmission rate is not great. Other rates of STDs like herpes and HIV are even lower. However that doesn't mean there is no risk, with each exposure your risk obviously increases. It's just a probability game, eventually you're gonna roll the dice and hit snake eyes. So the most important thing if you are not protecting yourself at all times, and enjoying a bit more risky behavior like BBBJs is to get tested periodically, whether you have symptoms or not. I suggest testing every 3 months at your local GP or sexual health clinic.
Alot of symptoms with the common STDs (ie. gonorrhea, chlamydia, although trichomonas is creeping up) is very vague, even more so for women. So you can be contracting it from your favorite WL and they don't even know they got it. For men, it's still over about 60% of people not having any symptoms for up to 3-6 months with gonorrhea and chlamydia, the most common symptoms being some abnormal discharge and painful urination. The problem with not having symptoms is it can cause some serious long-term health effects. Unlike herpes that the OP is worried about (which mostly only causes symptomatic painful outbreaks and embarassment), gonorrhea and chlamydia can cause permanent infertility, pelvic inflammatory diseases and epididymitis (your balls become super swollen) requiring surgical intervention.
So TL;DR, BBBJ is "relatively" safe especially compared to BBFS but you should be getting tested every 3 months to make sure you are covered and not spreading diseases.
Jesus, instead of trying to argue who has a bigger dick here, you guys should actually be trying to respond to Bawal who started this thread.
None of you can match Mr Nejums in that department anyway.
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.ph...th-passing-out
I never see people said he got small dick , everybody said he is big but i dont think so , only 1 member here ever said he got small dick and i respect that . I can see big sometimes it is Soft cock lol ....
But I do have a big dick. Thick too. Thicc.
And I thought I already responded to the OP.
If its true you contracted and passed on Herpes or any STI to your wife you should be upfront and honest.
Its a low act to come up with an excuse.
If youve infected her its a life sentence not of her doing.
Sent from my SM-N950F using Tapatalk
Can you tell us where you usually punt OP so we can be a bit careful too? :(
The op should have test results by now. Wonder what the outcome was
We have all given in some input so I'm sure he'll come back to us
Thank you all for your support and advice over the last couple of days. It helped me in thinking through this issue.
But I'd like to especially thank both brother schingchang & krnboy in giving in-depth and professional advice on this specific topic.
My partner received the result yesterday and HSV-1 virus and blisters were detected on her female part.
I think that's bad, but also glad it wasn't HSV-2.
I will go and get myself checked out over the weekend. Beforehand, may I ask a couple of further questions:
1. Since my partner is now HSV-1 positive and if I'm not, we would like to have a family (involves BBFS) in the future. Does it mean this will not be possible without me being transmitted too?
2. If HSV-1 couldn't be detected on my dick, does it mean HSV-1 only lives in my mouth/lips? hence, I should avoid any kissing activities/sharing food etc. in the future to not spread this virus further.
I understand this virus won't kill but it's annoying. Up until now, I have not discovered any obvious symptoms or it doesn't bother me physically yet.
But now, thinking back, I wonder why I often have cold sores during winter. But warmer seasons are fine.