What are your ML dating experiences

i never dated any ML, but got close to 5 (exchanged contacts and met outside shop etc.)

except for the first ML, when i was totally inexperienced in this game, i never had any illusion of winning their hearts.

The first one taught me a cold lesson: saw the girl 5 times in all, knew her real name and phone#, yet she left the shop without even bothering to tell me. When i searched and found her social media postings, i quickly realized the huge gap between us and the absurdity of falling fot her.

the 4th one actually liked me a lot, and pretty much said she's willing to waitfor me. I told her it's going to be a long process. we still keep in touch.

the 2nd, 3rd, i should have been less emotional and saved money for the real deal.

the fifth, i wish i'd savored her body more than her mind.

should i have the good fortune to meet another ML that is GF material, i'll definely spend more time to enjoy her body rather than talking Talk is cheap

See my first post upon joining this forum, and my most recent one, for how hard it is to learn the lesson to not fall for a ML/WL. Haha, no but seriously, first time around I learnt a lot and the relationship very well could have succeeded, were it not for some extenuating circumstances for both of us... the philosophical question that I've often grappled with is whether there would ALWAYS be extenuating circumstances of some sort in these relationships, or whether it might have worked with this one if we fought for it. I usually come back to no.

I learnt a lot from the first time, but around mid last year I caught feels again for an ML after swearing I wouldn't. After a few shitty weeks for me, we are now pretty good friends, texting often but with clear boundaries - that she set. I am in a relationship (same as before), but if this was 4 years ago I probably would've ended up fighting harder to get her - I am pretty certain if I did then it would've ended the same way as last time. Having said that, I would've had 6-12 months of a really good time!!

The major difference this time around, is that whilst I acknowledged the feelings, I didn't really energise them all that much. Sure there were some sleepless nights but I never really considered leaving my relationship as I did the first time. If anything it made me philosophise about why I do this to myself haha

The fact that so many people engage with this question despite its frequent occurrence on the forum, means that we are not all as depraved and unfeeling as BC, fucking BB in Western Sydney brothels and never giving a second thought :shout: Ehehe, just jokes but it's obvious to me that a lot of us (including myself) are sensitive guys and easily find ourselves in prickly situations with working girls.

There's no teacher as good as experience, so I say go for it but be prepared that it may end in heartbreak for you! I don't think it's about being 'burnt' by the girl so much as the difficulty in making these relationships work long term.

Yew, go forth and let us know how it goes

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Originally Posted by Basil22

See my first post upon joining this forum, and my most recent one, for how hard it is to learn the lesson to not fall for a ML/WL. Haha, no but seriously, first time around I learnt a lot and the relationship very well could have succeeded, were it not for some extenuating circumstances for both of us... the philosophical question that I've often grappled with is whether there would ALWAYS be extenuating circumstances of some sort in these relationships, or whether it might have worked with this one if we fought for it. I usually come back to no.

I learnt a lot from the first time, but around mid last year I caught feels again for an ML after swearing I wouldn't. After a few shitty weeks for me, we are now pretty good friends, texting often but with clear boundaries - that she set. I am in a relationship (same as before), but if this was 4 years ago I probably would've ended up fighting harder to get her - I am pretty certain if I did then it would've ended the same way as last time. Having said that, I would've had 6-12 months of a really good time!!

The major difference this time around, is that whilst I acknowledged the feelings, I didn't really energise them all that much. Sure there were some sleepless nights but I never really considered leaving my relationship as I did the first time. If anything it made me philosophise about why I do this to myself haha

The fact that so many people engage with this question despite its frequent occurrence on the forum, means that we are not all as depraved and unfeeling as BC, fucking BB in Western Sydney brothels and never giving a second thought :shout: Ehehe, just jokes but it's obvious to me that a lot of us (including myself) are sensitive guys and easily find ourselves in prickly situations with working girls.

There's no teacher as good as experience, so I say go for it but be prepared that it may end in heartbreak for you! I don't think it's about being 'burnt' by the girl so much as the difficulty in making these relationships work long term.

Yew, go forth and let us know how it goes

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Thanks for the wise words. Hitting a similar situation myself at the moment.
My first one this bad really. Should be interesting to see how it goes.....:cry:

I have dated a couple. The first one was an indonesian WL in Bali. She wanted me to marry her and leave my then "real" girlfriend. Long story short. It did not end well. Second one thai ML. I really liked her but she went back to her hometown Ubon Ratchatani and got married with local thai man and then we lost contact. I usually like chicks with dark exotic skin but now my taste has change a little bit and I am into this young chinese wl. I found that her shyness and soft voice very cute and appealing.

Saw a rather pudgy, bland faced cacausian bloke, who basically looked like he still lived with his mum and arranged his childhood action figures in meticulous pornographic poses in his free time, who was lugging around luggage for this tight bodied, ample perky titted asian lass, with black shoulder length hair in Cleopatra style, glasses, red lipstick, black tights on, midriff showing black sleeveless top.

Was difficult to stop checking her cleavage out as she went up the stairs (her and catch of the day was behind me) it wasnt half obvious since I had to turn back everytime lol. But managed to pull it off because the dude was tailgating me so hard he could probably have given me DD (think he didnt realise because he couldnt see past the lugagge) so I just pretended to keep an eye on him 😂

I chuckled, no way this cant be an example of one this forums favourite questions.

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Originally Posted by F0x

ample perky titted asian lass, with black shoulder length hair in Cleopatra style, glasses, red lipstick, black tights on, midriff showing black sleeveless top.
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Wow such Poetry...😁