Originally Posted by
VFlowers
Easy mate.....Personally, I'm happy to choose from whatever upgrade menu I'm offered.
But I can see how someone who is after a particular service would want to be reasonably sure that he isn't gonna waste time and money.
And herein lies the dilemma: Some guys want to choose the girl based on the treatments she offers. And I don't think that's unreasonable. You just gotta be smart with how you make enquiries - or how you answer to such enquiries.
It's a bit of a hypocrisy to be making by far most of the money from selling upgrades, but not wanting to deal with people who come specifically for upgrades, and would want some degree of certainty of what upgrades are available.
And, Mr BedWrecker and Ms Holly......be careful what you wish for. If all those guys who are looking for certain services started visiting legal establishments and privates instead, a lot of massage parlours would be disappearing rather fast.
That said, it's of course pretty unsmart to make upgrade-related enquiries over the phone, via open text or social media.
But discretely and politely asking a shop owner or manager for recommendations....I can't see what would be wrong with that.
Trying to hassle girls into providing what they are uncomfortable or unwilling to provide, once in the room, is of course totally unacceptable.
But as I wrote before.....hopefully the legislative changes will be allowing for more clarity on both sides.