Quote Originally Posted by Bed Wrecker View Post
You both seem experienced so should know better.
This isnt a legalised industry. If you want surety, go to a brothel

A- Some girls do everything with anybody for the right price
B- Some girls will do a certain level of service with everyone, but only do certain services with customers they know and trust or offer the right amount
C- Some girls only do certain services with customers they know and trust or offer the right amount
D- Some girls do not do certain extras regardless of how much they know or trust someone or how much they are offered.

Girls A and D are reasonably well known by all staff or management at a shop. Even customers
Girls B and C are harder to identify and some are real dark horses only offering certain services to a rare few.
I have seen many a dark horse cause I trust my abilities. Furthermore I gain background knowledge

No shop or receptionist or whatever wants to say things that cannot be certain.
In some cases ladies will take a real distaste to a guy and refuse to do services they would normally give anyone else.

You want every girl to be Option A. Tough.
Go to a brothel

The amount of times Ive heard ladies talking about the retarded folk asking on the phone who does blowjobs or full service is ridiculous. Some of these guys even try in person. If you find one ml who wont do a certain service, they almost always point you in the right direction. They dont want to see guys hassling them for services they wont do and are happy to palm you off

Easy mate.....Personally, I'm happy to choose from whatever upgrade menu I'm offered.
But I can see how someone who is after a particular service would want to be reasonably sure that he isn't gonna waste time and money.

Quote Originally Posted by HollyTT View Post
I’m just trying to tell you all that asking questions about treatments prior to asking a girl that you choose what treatments she does is not ok.
And herein lies the dilemma: Some guys want to choose the girl based on the treatments she offers. And I don't think that's unreasonable. You just gotta be smart with how you make enquiries - or how you answer to such enquiries.
It's a bit of a hypocrisy to be making by far most of the money from selling upgrades, but not wanting to deal with people who come specifically for upgrades, and would want some degree of certainty of what upgrades are available.

And, Mr BedWrecker and Ms Holly......be careful what you wish for. If all those guys who are looking for certain services started visiting legal establishments and privates instead, a lot of massage parlours would be disappearing rather fast.

That said, it's of course pretty unsmart to make upgrade-related enquiries over the phone, via open text or social media.
But discretely and politely asking a shop owner or manager for recommendations....I can't see what would be wrong with that.

Trying to hassle girls into providing what they are uncomfortable or unwilling to provide, once in the room, is of course totally unacceptable.

But as I wrote before.....hopefully the legislative changes will be allowing for more clarity on both sides.