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Wanking is important if you don't have a very active sex life like sex once a week with your wife is not enough. The other days your cock is limb so you need to watch some porn or something every couple of days. Maybe you should punt for a threesome and see if that excites you?
There are pros/cons to excessive wanking. I do believe there is a huge lose of sensitivity with CFS especially if you wank too much or used to going raw with a gf/wife.
Admittedly, what would excite me is BB, but there is no way I'll take those risks.
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Me personally I’ve set my standards higher will not surrender to so called higher prices and will not go out of my way just to punt. It’s working
Been a couple of months and enjoying the savings to spend elsewhere and or save
No don't do BB with a random WL that's far to much risk. I would only do BB with a private situation where you know the girl is not doing every guy on this forum and other guys.Quote:
Originally Posted by asnabc
but if your not punting eventually your minds going to be telling you its time to punt again. Its a hard itch to get rid of when your mind is telling you to go punt. You can still find the right prices just don't pay over $350 for an hour fs.Quote:
Originally Posted by Veets
I’ve yet to be in a position where I’ve got a fistful of cash at the right place at the right time and the right girl is available. 99.9% of my punts I set my sights and organised my time and $ and effort to be there purely for the punt
Agreed. Having very high standards is a good method of reducing the frequency of your punts. I've seen the Ginza/kyoto line up over the years and majority of the time, I've found most of the girls just average in my books. Booking girls is a hit/miss for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Veets
Once a punter always a punter? Probably holds true. The longest I've been without a punt is 4 years, that is because I had this HOT model like euroasian during my business trip in Canada. She was so good that I've found some of the pricier privates just average looking and not worth the $800+ hr asking fee, so I simply didn't bother to punt for awhile. Alas, look where I am now.Quote:
Originally Posted by JSteel96
Depends on your wanking technique. If you use your hands most of the time that's a surefire way to lose sensitivity, especially if you don't use proper lubrication.Quote:
Originally Posted by asnabc
The best way to relieve yourself without losing too much sensitivity is by using silicone masturbators such as Tenga or Fleshlight. And use a proper lubricant as well, something with the consistency of a Nuru gel would be the best.
When you're used to having raw sex, condoms will definitely make you lose a little sensitivity but it depends on the brand and material. Personally Skyn is the best brand for me as I can still feel everything and almost cum prematurely. I'd say it's a 2-3 minute delay from BB than the typical Four Seasons condom that would make me last 5-10 minutes longer than BB.
No average WL is worth $800 for an hour in private no matter how good they think they are you can find just as good for $250-$300. Don't over pay for average service. We have to start boycotting these expensive WLs.Quote:
Originally Posted by asnabc
Get really sick of how it makes you feel in the long term and have a desire for self-improvement. Also try the thing where you imagine yourself in a tornado staying still. And not just giving in to your cravings. I feel like it took me a long time to get to this.
Make your disposable income less accessible or locked up, this will either stress you out to the point that you question should you spend your hard earned dosh or take out a personal loan to continue with your naughty endeavours
Get a wife haha or only watch porn to tire yourself out
The trick is quality & not quantity in order not to become blase or dissatisfied with it all.
Play the long ( decades ) game & you'll have both a happy & satisfying personal & punting life.
as you grow older, and less horny, you will find yourself less and less inclined to waste money on punting.
Why quit? Unless you have a stalker/desperate side to your personality, punting is just an enjoyable hobby.
It keeps me fit because i need to workout to keep up with the girls. It keeps me sane in a busy world. I can look at sweet office girls without drooling cos i've fucked someone just like her recently. Win, win, win.
But like any hobby, it can't be the primary thing in your life. If it is, then take steps. Slap yourself, take a break, whatever whatever. Do not break the punters rules.
The rules:
1. Punt within your means
2. Don't fixate or fall in love
3. Treat it as a hobby
4. Be respectful
5. Big head always in charge
Quitting is for quitters :)
I like looking at all the escort sites, brothel and massage rosters, but keep telling myself to refrain from doing it. Is this kinda just like looking at soft porn?
I’ve only just begun my journey and am feeling as though I am heading down a slippery slope in reading all the awesome reviews. It takes a lot of restraint not to do it on a daily basis.
Oh no don't punt on a daily basis.Quote:
Originally Posted by Johny77
Your dick will shrink a milimeter everyday banging the wall of a girl's pussy.
Sibon, as much as I would love to, I am not in the financial position to do so lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sibon
Get caught by the wife - but forgivenQuote:
Originally Posted by Johny77
Valid points bro for sure. As much as I would love to quit, I honestly don't think I will. This week alone, I have been to Ginza 4 times. The financial cost is not a issue but when I feel my punting is getting out of control, there's no real to stop it. J Girls are like drug addiction and I can speak from experience. The more you have, the more you want.Quote:
Originally Posted by DayMan69
I dunno. Quitting is like the light at the end of the tunnel. You can see it but its getting further away.
Thats definitely true.I have those types of hobbies and punting is also one of them. I treat it like a thrill sport. Jump out of a plane one day, root the next.Quote:
Originally Posted by legitl
Create a spreadsheet. Enter in the cost, not just the direct cost, but also the incidentals, e.g., transportation costs. EVERY punt. At the end of the month, sum. Then consider what you remember of the past month, and then, what you could have done with the money you spent on those fleeting moments. Could that money have been spent on something more permanent? Or even better memories, like travel. Even if it's travel to say, BKK, Indonesia, Philippines... Where you definitely want to get out of the bar scene and enjoy the country... perhaps those memories every year would curb the desire for more temporary ones.
Or buy that 98" OLED state of the art TV plus the latest sound system and totally immerse yourself...