Just need to quit this forum. Then you'll be free forever
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Also think about all the shit punts you've had and the regret afterwards, how many other cocks your favourite WL/ML is sucking, who else's cum you might be lying on the table, the mamasan who trapped you into staying along with small head regretting life choices afterwards, how much value a proper legit massage is giving you and cheaper it is, what you might be catching in the shower (how much other bro juice is on that tap and soap pump), does she have an STI u can catch.
That'll do it
This will 100% do it for me. (Un)Luckily it never happened to me.
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Originally Posted by Erik Shaun;###
Those saying to have a few shit punts will turn you off punting is bullshit whenever I have a shit punt I’m trying to have a great one asap.
Only you can stop this habit go see a counsellor or turn to your faith.
Set some financial goals such as topping up super or paying extra into mortgage, paying off debts etc.
Why call it quiting anyway? You can exert self-control and cut it right down to as little as needed. This is a great hobby for some release once in a while as a treat to yourself. Just control yourself and don't go overboard.
I've managed to cut down my punting rate right down to 2 Ginza punts and 2 RNTs in the last 9 months. I did it by keeping the money spent front and centre whenever I even think about punting, and I spend the money I would've spent on punting as soon as I can.
For example, I typically spend around $500 for a single J girl punt at Ginza based on current pricing. Instead of going, I use the money to buy my kid a new iPad instead. I instantly see the effect of saving the money from not punting, it's something real, not just some money in the account that I could easily spend on something else equally as useless as 1 hour of pleasure for myself.
There are other examples. Buy yourself a nice phone, watch, car. Make it real, every single time. And the great thing is, you don't have to keep doing this. After a while, it becomes a habit, you'll be holding yourself back from punting as soon as the thought comes into your head.
Good luck bros!
I used to punt twice a week to once a week. Now twice a month.
You'll just have to set priorities and stick with it. You don't have to be hard strict by it. Dont have to go cold Turkey. We are humans after all. Small steps count.
Yeah good point. Its just hard bro because the sight of a hot Asian (Chinese, Korean or Japanese chick) just makes me want to visit Ginza and drop $$$.
I guess moving forward I'll shift my focus to socialising with friends more and punt less. Anything to get the mind off punting. In all honesty, Japanese woman are gods gift on this earth.
I went cold turkey and only go on very special occasions but it helps to keep yourself occupied with a hobby/sport.
Well said. Money could also be invested in the intangible stuff too, like education, 1:1 mentorship, etc. Even a 1hr punt per week at Ginza/No5 is 15k, not exactly a small expenditure but it's all relative I guess. For myself once a fortnight is the sweet spot.
1 hour of pleasure for $500 at Ginza- you must be going for all the extras too? Haha
One good way to start quitting punting , at least as an initial step, is to isolate yourself from forums such as this!
Do what most men do.
Find an attractive woman, marry her.
Then wait till she stops having sex, doubles her weight, develops a self opinionated bitch attitude, doesn’t work, oh hang on she never worked, support her, support her lazy obtuse extended family, learn to tolerate her online circle of fat ugly lazy pig woman dog loving friends and then have nothing to do with her till she attempts to take you to the cleaners. At that time you destroy everything you’ve ever built in life by burning it all through the lawyers then leave her and yourself with nothing then start all over again by YOURSELF.
Make sure along the way you delete any method she can ever contact you or sponge off you.
By this time you’ll have no money to punt.
Punting problem solved!
Then:
Work hard and get ahead and hopefully you’ve learnt your lesson to never trust anyone except yourself and restart punting.
Yes, all the extra toppings on top, lol... No point in going if I wanted to save money!
It's great if you can do something more productive with the money but I reckon that may require too much self discipline. You're going from spending $500 bucks for instant selfish gratification, to forking out the same for completely nothing and having to wait possibly years for something to show for it. On the other hand if you spent the money on something more immediately effective, it might help you get the ball rolling easier.
Don't set the hurdle too high for yourself that's all I'm saying...
Like what others have said, best thing is to put the $$ in perspective. What can you buy instead of a punt? Fancy dinner etc… Finding a hobby or passion is also a good way of helping with putting the $$ in perspective, I.e what can you spend your money on instead? Great tennis racquet, nice new outfit, bitcoin! Etc.
not going to lie lie, $300-500 is a lot of money to spend, even fancy dinner doesn't cost that much. You can buy a new ipad for every session.
also be careful with extras. Extras add up quickly, do the math and you'll see yourself, it's +50-80% of the normal rate, which means if you normally spend $15k with extras it becomes $24k, crazy right? almost doubled. also health aspect you're playing with russian roulette. I'd rather keep it minimal and safe.
Yeah I've also done the buy something for someone else with that amount of I get the urge. I have sometimes bought the gift and then punted. Sometimes you just have to get it out of your system, or a bad run in like getting STI
i think its purposely not being near said venues. not taking vices that might weaken your resolve like alcohol. and giving your location at all times to your partner ... and keeping yourself busy af and accountable to others so you barely have time. i agree with above coming back here and looking again is weak and i should get busy again doing something else....
I bought a Meta Quest 3 and a Handy autostroker and I think it might get me to quit punting lol
By discontinuing my testosterone injections, that will kill off my sexual drive. Sorted!
Most important question ... WHY ??? Jokes aside , yes , thought I was addicted but then not so much addicted but more as a pastime like a hobby . Just back from Shanghai after spending a week there despite only having 2 sessions with Chinese friend , wasn*t too concerned whether sex occurred or not . Planning for Europe after next week for a month , already searched for possible bonks but not really worried if it happens or not . Cut it out completely ??? No way , plus hopefully once back with a tan and summer here will be going full throttle MLs and WLs
Delete all forms of temptation, and distract yourself with other activities/hobbies.
I don't plan to quit soon, but this theme seems to be consistent with all the approaches/solutions listed here.
If as a man you’ve done everything else in life then why not punt?
There are meds that slow down your testosterone levels. You won't feel keen anymore to put in the effort to drive out there especially in winter.
"Should i go punting??"
Before: Fuck yeah
After: I can't be fucked