Looking forward to OP's next adventures and successes.
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Looking forward to OP's next adventures and successes.
As always not meant to be an AR but more a report on how things are going with my "issues". Not necessarily the best punt so don't really want to write an AR but people in the know can probably imply who the WL is from the title alone but feel free to PM me if looking for intel.
#7, Petite Mute C WL
Prelude:
Not too much to elaborate on this time. I was feeling alright after my last punt (#6) but a bit apprehensive my issue was not fully resolved and it might have been a fluke. I thought it might be a good plan trying to pick a smaller WL and therefore smaller/tighter pussy. I was also looking to visit the much better regarded N5M and check out the establishment. First choice was booked out first day I tried making a booking. Second day trying to make a booking first choice was booked out again despite contacting mamasan within an hour of roster release (must be popular!) so went with 2nd choice who also is also very small, has some decent reviews and good looking photos/profile. Booked an hour during lunch period. 4 nights since previous punt.
Arriving at N5M; seems pretty busy! Ran into 4 other customers while I was there: one entering at the same time, one inside the corridor (working something out with mamasan) and another entering whilst I was leaving. Mamasan showed me and the other customer to (separate) waiting rooms then a 15 min wait before I was shown to a room. The rooms seem much nicer (and newer) than 479 Ginza.
The Girl:
Age: Early 30s appearance. Not particularly old looking but not that young either.
Face: 5/10. Chinese, not my type, kinda wide and flat but maybe to the liking of others.
Figure: 6/10. Very short <150cm. Very short legs and extremely small feet. Not the best proportions. Tummy a tiny bit flabby and stretched. Photos seem either fake or heavily shopped but they didn't really show much anyway.
Boobs: A 6/10. Small but still a little deflated looking.
Ass: 5/10. On the small side, a little lumpy and flat.
Communication: 6/10. Her being unable to speak or hear was more of a barrier than I anticipated. Having to stop and pull out a phone or otherwise try get her attention and make gestures really didn't help the flow but was able to manage still
Service: 7/10. Pretty good service overall though. Not the best but still quite good.
WL comes in and my first thoughts are: hmmm that face isn't really my type, looks a bit older and wow she is really short. Sitting down a bit of introduction/small talk via google translate then into the shower. Going into the shower I was fully hard but while messing around with the shower and waiting for her I lost my boner. She helped give me a wash and brought the mouth wash, pretty average shower service. I did a bit of DFK. She then also gave me a BBBJ while in the shower, which wasn't the most pleasant because standing there wet was a bit cold. Dried off and on to the bed. By then I was fully soft again.
A bit more clumsy small talk on using google translate. She asked me to not be nervous and if it was my first time so I guess I must look pretty green and awkward still. She did some B2B massage and cat bath which got me going again. I also did a bit more DFK. Not sure if she was just trying to do pussy slide or playing around the entrance of her pussy but she was grabbing my bare cock and sticking it around her pussy while straddling me so I though we was going to BB so I stopped her and tried gesturing to use a condom. I think it wasn't fully understood and she got off, wiped me with tissues and went to BBBJ. The BBBJ was ok, it didn't feel particularly good or at any risk of making me cum but it was enough to get me harder.
After a few mins of BBBJ I gestured for her to start the main course she cleaned me up with tissues and put on the condom. She then straddled me kneeling for some CG. Putting it in and leaning forward but quickly changing to a leaning back posture bending by dick back and pulling it down hard. I tried to move myself to to change the angle to be more comfortable for me but she reset herself back to the same position. So I gave up and let her go at it for a bit. Not longer after she changed to a squatting position leaning forward more and going much faster. This actually felt pretty good and I could feel myself getting closer to cumming. Unlike the last punt where I tried to let myself cum as soon as possible, this time I tried to hold back a bit mentally without getting her to slow down or change position. After what felt like less than 5 min of CG and about 30 min into the session I came in her pussy.
She helped take the condom off and let me rest for a bit. I was still fully hard and I felt like I might have been able to go right again though. We lay down and had some small talk for some 5 min and I started feeling a bit of that post nut sleepiness. I asked her if we could try go a second time. By then though I was completely soft. She tried BBBJ for a bit then also a HJ but that didn't really feel good or get me hard again. So I gave up on trying for a 2nd time and asked her if she could give me a back massage instead for the remaining time but it seemed like she didn't really know what to do. That's when I had the idea to get her to le me finger her.
I got her to give me a condom to put my fingers in then started playing with her pussy. I started playing with her vulva for a few min. She also started touching herself at the same time (probably trying to show me how to do it properly lol) and started grabbing my dick to jerk me off at the same time but again it didn't feel great. I then moved on to sticking my fingers inside her and exploring inside her pussy. By then she'd stopped trying to jerk me off and was grabbing the pillow and moaning as I rubbed her g-spot. That's when I got fully hard again. Noticing she excitedly got out condoms to go again but I wasn't sure there was enough time for a proper round and checked the clock, only 10 min left. I didn't really want to get started then blue balled and I also didn't want to get an extension. So I asked her if she's let me finger her for another few minutes but then she said no and got me to go shower.
I got in the shower and started cleaning myself off then she came over and helped washed me a bit too. I also washed my mouth, finished showering, drying and getting dressed at a leisurely pace before leaving.
After Thoughts:
I did cum but I don't think it was a great session overall. Mostly, I didn't find the WL very attractive. Communication was clumsy and really broke the flow, as did her constant use of tissues. Not being able to keep the flow and momentum going or just dealing/begin ok with awkward and quiet in between periods is I guess something I could do better? Not sure how though, jerking myself off while waiting? lol
The failed attempt to do a round 2 was disappointing but I can't really blame that on the lady. I think more than getting serviced with a HJ or BJ I find it much hotter to play with and explore the girl's body. I felt way more turned on fingering her pussy than I did from everything apart from her riding me CG. Maybe I should try finding a girl that's more willing to let me service her or I guess more "Dom" in proactively getting me to touch and play with her body? So far I've been mostly just letting the WL run the session which seems to result in them following their routine servicing but instead maybe I should be more assertive so I'll get to have more fun with their body?
Otherwise I might be better off going for 45 min sessions for the time being seeing as I was able to cum within 30 min in the last two punts? If I think I can go 2 rounds I might stay at 60min or maybe a bit longer. I guess I've managed to reset my sensitivity to a more "normal" level of endurance now at least.
I guess it's also a good sign with my delayed ejaculation issue that despite not feeling particularly physically attracted to the lady I was still able to cum. I do wonder if that was because she had a relatively tight pussy though? She felt kind of similar to the previous WL #6 (Ginza 479 - Dior) which I guess would indicate well above average pussy?
Next Steps:
I think next I want to try going to a WL with a more "average" pussy but hopefully still physically attractive and if I can, a WL that will let me touch her a lot. Even better might be a WL that will actively direct me on how to touch her and get her off.
As always, I welcome thoughts, advice, tips and suggestions.
TL;DR
Didn't find the WL very attractive but was still able to cum which is good? Trying to find a WL that will let me touch her a lot. Also many thoughts and questions on how I might approach and carry out a session better.
As you have break the barrier, now you can look to good looking atrractive wl, to test if you have solved the problem.
Hey man,
I don't need to be a rocket scientist to know who you're talking about lol. Glad to see I'm not the only one who doesn't find her particularly attractive.
As you say, it's a good sign you were able to cum without being super attracted to the chick. Did you find her pussy to feel tight inside or just at the entrance? Until you get more comfortable with sex, I'd recommend seeing girls with decent communication skills (i.e. can speak English). In general, a lot of doors will open up when you're more comfortable in the room with the girl. You being at ease will put her at ease. Only experience can help that, but I'm sure there are plenty of tips to help: mine is to smile when you first greet the girl.
If you have trouble booking at N5M, just get PKING to book on your behalf. He's Marrickville royalty by now.
RE: touching, I usually do DATY or 69 and if they're getting into it, start testing the waters with a finger and see where it leads.
Yes sir!Quote:
Originally Posted by PKING2
Happy to see you back! Thanks for the advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by FatStache
When she was first putting it in it felt pretty tight at the entrance but then decently snug inside. She did use a bit of lube. When fingering her later she felt pretty wet too.
Hopefully the next girl I'm looking at isn't too popular but we'll see lol.
Seems like DATY is the best way to get good service in return from what punters here seem to think?
Yeah this is a good advice, but don't just shove your finger in. Play with her vulva while daty and try to just hovering your finger around outer vagina and sometime near the opening. As if you see the girl reaction, maybe breath heavier or trembling, push a bit your finger in while keep maintaining same move when you hovering your finger. And slowly2 insert your finger. And reach her g spot lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by FatStache
Actually I have a question, usually at the start of the session you need to shower right? I feel like I'd like to have some fun with the girl while her cloths are on and have fun undressing her before moving to shower together or other acts. Most of the time so far however I say hello to the girl then they get me to immediately get completely naked and go shower and then I'm on the bed naked. I feel like I'm missing out on an entire section of potential foreplay.
What do people normally do? Any tips? I guess you could do the shower then get dressed again and go "from the start" like that?
Some girls don't make you shower if you tell them you showered before coming and seem clean. For some girls, the undressing foreplay is part of their routine (wish J Rey would come back lol).Quote:
Originally Posted by gimmesome
You should straight up tell the girl you wanna take it slow and undress each other first. Some will make it sensual, others will just be awkward or perfunctory but that's okay. Trial and error.
My best sessions always have a decent tease and foreplay before the shower.Quote:
Originally Posted by gimmesome
1. As others mentioned always come clean and sharp. I don't go as far as dressing with Italian leather shoes and shit, but at least try to look appealing enough that she'd consider fucking me on the street.
2. Enter the room with a good vibe and wash my hands straight away either in the sink if they have one or use hand sanitiser. Make sure she sees it.
Sometimes I sit on the chair if they have one and get her to straddle me. Hands on and feel her up, DFK, dry hump and grind and start peeling clothes of eachother.
Other times I take control and pin them to the wall. Again it's DFK and sliding (freshly cleaned) digits up her dress for a light finger blast.
In my experience, I always read the room and the vibe and go from there. Most girls enjoy being lead, and it probably helps keep excitement higher for her when I bring a different "playlist" compared to the several fucks she had to give before me.
Only my 2 cents
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Yep, will keep it in mind.Quote:
Originally Posted by PKING2
Thanks for the advice. Damn shame I missed Rey, sounds like we would have ticked a lot of my boxes.Quote:
Originally Posted by FatStache
Great advice! thanks.Quote:
Originally Posted by TwiceAweek
is it stress perhaps?
do you get nervous?
Probably a bit of everything (stress, nerves etc.) but I think the biggest things were just needing to stop wanking and consuming porn for a while. Last 3 punts I came so seems ok now.
OP, I'm somewhat pressed for time, but would like to read the thread to it's entirety eventually;
Tell me, what was your porn consumption like when you first noticed you couldnt finish?
Did your tastes gradually evolve into more shocking genres?
Did you end up with death grip to self service?
1. Once every night before going to sleep most nights (~30 min, cum once or twice). Occasionally longer session up to 3 hrs, cum 3 times or more (once a week).Quote:
Originally Posted by StiFFFy
2. Not particularly IMO. I mostly still do prefer vanilla and the same stuff I liked since late teens. Still not really into "extreme" stuff (or maybe even moderate stuff) e.g. rape, guro, cuck/NTR, degradation, tranny, midgets? Mostly just vanilla hentai with similar age girls, when I do use other more "Extreme" material is more in spite of the extreme stuff than because of it. With real people porn still vanilla, amateur and maybe "artsy" (Hegre Art?) but until recently was almost 100% hentai only. I have definitely got more "tolerant" and less easily aroused but that could also be other factors e.g. age, health, stress etc.
3. Not really sure what you mean by "to self service". I didn't really have any other options for release until recently taking up punting? I think just masturbating regularly a significant amount and also using hentai dulled my sensitivity to "normal" sexual stimulus but seems abstinence is mostly sufficient to return it to at least a "functional" level.
Self service - Trying to describe masturbating without sounding like a prude heh.
Point 3, I'm glad to hear you've awoken to just how warping porn can be.
Sampler, the OP is just starting to realise he's a sexual being.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Sampler
You do realise asking him to go for a prostate massage is the equivalent of asking a good Christian man to play a sub in an SnM session when he's clearly been playing by Jesus' handbook and done nothing but missionary all his life, right?
Was this the AR for Yesel or some other girl?Quote:
Originally Posted by gimmesome
Sounds like you need to reset your dopamine receptors. They've been fried from your excessive porn and wanking habits.
personally, if i dont cum, it doesnt hang me up. theres a whole hour or more of fun to have, and if i let missing a few seconds ruin it, then it takes all the rest of it away. out of all the things I do in a punt. the only one I can do myself is cum. i prefer to leave my finish as late as possible (and only once) in a couple or more hour session, rather than as many as possible so its a hazard of the punt. but i can say that looking back on all of them, i remember the fun, and the girl, bu I couldnt tell you which ones i didnt cum. dont over think it, just enjoy the ride